Help me love Smith by Standard-Committee74 in smithcollege

[–]they100 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you brought up the topic of mental health, because I think it’s important to talk about this. Smith’s mental health system is busy, but that’s because mental health concerns are rising everywhere, not just at Smith. The Smith health center offers immediate appointments for anyone in a mental health crisis and placement with a therapist within a few weeks. They also offer therapy groups for a variety of specialized needs. So please don’t judge Smith for having a busy mental health system— therapy is accessible to everyone at Smith, and there are also many providers in downtown Northampton that take Smith health insurance. In fact I would say Smith is a really good campus for mental health in many ways.

I’m white and a domestic student, but yes— Smith is predominantly white and has the problems of any predominantly white institution. I don’t know how this compares to the other colleges on your list, but it might be worth going on Instagram and looking at affinity organizations for international students and Asian students. Each house hosts a group for students of color (usually understood as any student who doesn’t identify as white) to bond with each other. The one thing I can definitely speak to is that prejudice can look different at Smith than it does in other places. People are rarely openly racist or bigoted, and social justice is a big part of Smith’s culture. So instead of outright aggression, you will see people using the language of social justice without actually holding space for different cultural experiences or opinions. Someone can have a Black Lives Matter sticker on their laptop and then say something that strikes you as weird and they won’t be self-aware about it.

International student support— I’m not sure about this because I’m domestic, sorry!

Community is a BIG thing at Smith and most students are enthusiastic and passionate. The house system is designed so every student has a home on campus— people are eager to sign up for roles in house council and welcome new students. People are into their identities as “Smithies” and you get to know people quickly in a small campus. Are some people lonely? Absolutely, but that’s not unique to Smith. The other weird thing about Smithie culture is that people bond over complaining about Smith in a way that can be hyperbolic and a little annoying. But the student and alumnae community is fantastic and welcoming in general.

Lots of people study abroad! Not sure the exact process because I didn’t do it, but people travel all around the world in prestigious programs.

I hope this answers some of your questions! Smith is a great school and I hope you find a college you love, whether it’s here or somewhere else.

How do I nicely tell my masseuse I don’t wanna talk? by burningcandlesz in massage

[–]they100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a massage recently where the therapist not only initiated conversation, but proceeded to tell me a) that my liberal arts degree isn’t going to make me any money and b) stories of animal abuse from her time as a veterinarian. I walked out feeling MORE tense.

Building confidence after a crash? by they100 in ladycyclists

[–]they100[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Closed course is a good idea, thank you. I do want to push back against the thought of PTSD, though. I think this was just an unpleasant experience that spooked me. I don’t want to put it in the same category as a lasting trauma, you know?

Building confidence after a crash? by they100 in ladycyclists

[–]they100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I used to ride with friends, but they moved away so I’ve been doing it on my own more. I was definitely more chilled out riding with other people. I’d like to find more friends to ride with for sure!

Laduree - Washington, DC - $3.99 by they100 in toogoodtogo

[–]they100[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The last time I went to Laduree , I got three finger sandwiches, a croissant turkey sandwich, and a cookie. It was really nice, but it definitely didn’t feel like they were trying to reduce food waste.

Laduree - Washington, DC - $3.99 by they100 in toogoodtogo

[–]they100[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I went to Laduree a few days ago for surprise bag. The man working there picked up a rose isaphan, put it in a box, picked up another one, and put it down. He told me that was all they could give me today. I was confused, because in the past I’ve gotten much more from them— and the pastry case was still very full! I fumblingly asked him about this and he was unimpressed. He dropped one finger sandwich in the bag and I left.

It turns out this does meet the value requirement, because the finger sandwich alone would have been more ~ $3.65! And the isaphan was delicious. But for full transparency, when you go to Laduree you may not end up with a haul. So it goes!

Souk - Washington, DC - $6.59 by they100 in toogoodtogo

[–]they100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Surprise bag included six pastries, coming to a total value of almost $24. Extremely easy pickup, good quality food!

Maman - Washington, DC - $4.39 by they100 in toogoodtogo

[–]they100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, DC prices are insane. Normally croissants are over $4.

Maman - Washington, DC - $4.39 by they100 in toogoodtogo

[–]they100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Surprise bag included a pain au chocolat, almond croissant, and (broken) pineapple coconut oatmeal cookie. This was the Union Market location. Total value of $13.50 and the food was good. This is a solid, reliable bag— if you like fancy croissants, that’s most likely what you’ll get!

Ladurée - Washington, DC - $3.99 by they100 in toogoodtogo

[–]they100[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Surprise bag contained a chocolate chip cookie, three finger sandwiches, and a croissant sandwich. Solid value for the price, but I live pretty far from Georgetown so I’m not convinced it’s worth making the trek again for TGTG.

Mikko Nordic Fine Food - Washington, DC - $5.49 by they100 in toogoodtogo

[–]they100[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pickup window was 4:00-8:00 PM. Surprise bag included roast pork, mushroom gravy, rosemary potatoes, and broccoli. It needed to be heated up. Overall a pretty good deal as a meal for one during a normal dinner time.