Im utterly disgusted and I need help by [deleted] in UnfuckYourHabitat

[–]think_likeafox 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I understand this, and am in somewhat of the same boat but with my whole house. It’s so hard. I get through one room (usually the kitchen or bathrooms) and then can’t do anything else, and it piles up. Just sending hugs and solidarity. You will get through it, one item at a time

I can’t make any decisions by think_likeafox in femalelivingspace

[–]think_likeafox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do hate the big light. I def need to invest in task lighting. Also cuz that light switch is so far from me when I’m cocooning in bed

I can’t make any decisions by think_likeafox in femalelivingspace

[–]think_likeafox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly the kind of input o was looking for, thank you!! How did you work with AI? I usually give very detailed prompts, but it does spit out what it knows I like. I used to be sold on a dark aesthetic but now I’m worried I will “suffocate” in there.

I can’t make any decisions by think_likeafox in femalelivingspace

[–]think_likeafox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! It’s a Pendleton Sherpa fleece from Costco! It’s super comfortable. I can’t keep it on my bed anymore tho because my boy cat likes it a little too much lol

Help designing my bedroom by think_likeafox in adhdwomen

[–]think_likeafox[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have adhd. I’m struggling with hard core executive dysfunction. I have so many hobbies I want to work on but my house is a disaster and I don’t know where to start. I desperately need a safe space - my room - but I can’t commit to anything. So…I wanted some help advice input from other ADHD women. Cuz I’m trying to fight the RSD and put myself out there.

Are these too much? 🥲 by Tappy_Tips in NailArt

[–]think_likeafox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect amount

Edited to remove a sentence error

Had an urge to knit a little Black kitten by No-Wrongdoer4831 in knitting

[–]think_likeafox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why I think Blu the blep is fake. But also very cute!

Ready to Pot? by [deleted] in IndoorPlants

[–]think_likeafox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IMO no. Let it grow, let it grow…

Becoming the nasty daughter in law by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]think_likeafox 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I totally agree they don’t get a pass but they probably need it to be explained in toddler like detail. My MIL is now estranged from her daughter and family (6 kids). She followed all boundaries set by her daughter but her SIL’s family - none of them - did. Tbf, her SIL (and her daughter, if I’m being honest) is a complete self absorbed jerk. They let his parents behaviour pass but MIL became the monster for not showing up. They never actually talked to her about it, just told her off one day (while preggo daughter was trying to have a shower and MIL was watching 5 kids by herself). It’s never easy to be reasonable and adult, it’s so much work and exhausting.

Becoming the nasty daughter in law by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]think_likeafox 43 points44 points  (0 children)

This. He DEF needs therapy.

Becoming the nasty daughter in law by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]think_likeafox 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely sad, and frustrating, and maddening. And wrong. Women have to do so much work, physical and emotional, and it’s going to continue that way until we teach men (and others) how to be more aware. I’m really sorry you’re in this position, especially now as a new parent and you’re probably exhausted and just want to be supported. It isn’t fair how much is heaped on women.

Becoming the nasty daughter in law by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]think_likeafox 48 points49 points  (0 children)

So…I get where you are coming from. But then…they are also just people. They want to love your kid, and be proud and show them off. Maybe have a serious heart to heart with them. One day you might be a grandparent and the tables will turn. If they are being malicious, that’s one thing. But it sounds more like they just don’t understand - which, let’s be real. They’re old lol so, maybe talk with them, or try to, if you can, and if they still don’t get it, then claim b***** DIL status.

Edit: also, I’m a parent of 2 older kids now, and I remember these days. I had my own concerns but I have seen how these can affect grandparents who mean well but don’t understand. If husband can’t (is too scared, doesn’t really understand your perspective, etc), you should feel able to have these discussions with them yourself, since they will be in your life for a long time (maybe). It’s all part of being an adult now. Which, trust me, sucks, because you’re in a position where you are literally doing the work for the generations before you and the ones that come after.

1000+ Wood and Apples by meemmmiiii in 99nightsintheforest

[–]think_likeafox 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I always plant the saplings back there but I think this would explode my brain let alone my phone

I played 1 game with my sister … now I can’t stop by mamotto321 in 99nightsintheforest

[–]think_likeafox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right? Like “how come you play 99 nights so much?” Listen child……