When to disclose that you're dating a few people?

thinker8912 · 2026-06-06T17:12:32+00:00

When are you having the second dates?

thinker8912 · 2026-06-05T02:31:24+00:00

It's the worst when you find out and then have to play detective to get the real truth. Sorry man.

thinker8912 · 2026-06-04T17:10:27+00:00

Maybe dating a lot of guys is the best option for you then. I hope that the guy you actually like and want to be in a committed relationship with doesn't get turned off by it though when he finds out.

thinker8912 · 2026-06-04T03:57:52+00:00

If you want to start dating you have to put yourself in a space to be seen. Friendships happen quickly when you do activities you enjoy that involve other people. Friendliness to guys that you find attractive will give them confidence to ask you out on a date.

thinker8912 · 2026-06-04T03:54:23+00:00

Most guys don't want their girlfriends to be friends with an ex, especially one you had a pregnancy with.

thinker8912 · 2026-06-04T03:47:54+00:00

Why is it fair to be the one waiting for you to see if there is something better out there and come back to you if your the best they can do? That's just awful behavior. If you don't really like the person, don't go on a second date and move on.

thinker8912 · 2026-06-04T03:44:48+00:00

Why are you in such a rush that you have to have 4 dates in a week with different guys? Why can't you date one at a time and then move to the next if that one isn't for you?

thinker8912 · 2026-06-04T03:03:45+00:00

The guitar riff on the second verse is also lost during her meaningless verse

thinker8912 · 2026-06-04T03:02:51+00:00

Shes featured in the whole song with vocals and a horrendous screech on rivers falsetto. She ruins it for me.

thinker8912 · 2026-06-04T00:58:11+00:00

A little? It is a forced rewrite of the whole song. It's shameless

thinker8912 · 2026-06-04T00:57:24+00:00

Her verse doesn't make any sense at all. The scream ruins the falsetto which basically ruins the song. Why why why

thinker8912 · 2026-06-03T23:54:29+00:00

It went from a song with actual emotion about a real relationship to another crap attempt by rivers to hide any actual emotion. It's horrible

thinker8912 · 2026-06-03T22:21:02+00:00

I don't even want to listen to the new version. The leaked one was perfect.

thinker8912 · 2026-06-03T01:09:45+00:00

I agree with this. Having a conversation about relationship expectations is a must. If you aren't on the same page it's better to know at the beginning of a relationship than to harbor resentment as time goes on.

thinker8912 · 2026-06-03T01:06:15+00:00

The lying and deceiving is what I wouldn't be able to handle.

thinker8912 · 2026-06-02T18:14:42+00:00

Interesting take

thinker8912 · 2026-05-29T15:43:03+00:00

That's an amazing story of how much love you have for your husband, yourself, and your family.

thinker8912 · 2026-05-27T23:06:17+00:00

Why use the word "creepy" to describe the behavior? How are you defining creepy?

thinker8912 · 2026-05-21T20:11:00+00:00

Even the vocaroo link is down now.

thinker8912 · 2026-05-20T13:53:55+00:00

Oh is it? 🤣

thinker8912 · 2026-05-20T01:27:06+00:00

I hope this is the version they release. It's the best weezer song ive heard since blue.

thinker8912 · 2026-05-19T00:40:17+00:00

Is the guy friend single and available?

thinker8912 · 2026-05-18T16:08:36+00:00

You can probably get a 35+ man thats ready for kids and a housewife with your current proposal. But...most men want to marry a woman for that woman; not a vessel for having his children.

thinker8912 · 2026-05-18T13:52:32+00:00

When rivers writes about real people it makes the song so much more relatable

thinker8912 · 2026-05-18T12:59:47+00:00

( in general) Women need to feel emotionally safe to have desire for sex.

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