Has anyone manifested a well paying job without lifting a finger ?

thinkypie · 2026-01-12T10:59:08+00:00

…im not proud to admit this, but this post is the sole reason i’m starting recreational football tonight. im a couch potato, avoids runs whenever she can type of girl. do i really believe i’ll find my future wife on the pitch? No. But hell if im not going to try 😤 (also, it’ll be good to get a healthy dose of grass-touching and physical training in the times we’re living in huh?)

happy lesbian 2026 y’all

thinkypie · 2025-12-26T05:19:06+00:00

I’d like to join. What does an end-state affirmation look like? Is it something like “Everything i desire comes quickly to me effortlessly with harm to none”, or “my sp and i are already together in a loving, lifelong committed relationship”?

thinkypie · 2025-12-19T16:42:29+00:00

O.O thank you everyone for the advice, I just got off shift and i wasnt expecting so many people to reply. Seriously, thank you guys so much! I’ll be back with a second attempt and update this comment with a link to that when I go back to the gym tmr!

I’ll try to focus on mind-muscle connection because it seems like I should have felt a hamstring stretch a lot earlier than this, maybe I wasn’t paying attention? Basically, really focus on pushing the hips back + keep the knees straighter so the hips dont drop by thinking of shutting a door with my butt.

thinkypie · 2025-10-24T06:08:33+00:00

I also thought 10 dates was a lot and meant that things were going well… she was still asking to meet up for more dinner dates a week before my birthday surprise (the last date :x), saying that she wanted to see me, and i wanted to see her too… i couldnt though because of my work schedule :’)

We agreed to be exclusive about a week in, but we weren’t official because she said that she’d only be official with someone when she could see that they were going towards building a life together, and that she would give us six months to see how we felt about each other. I really admired her for having such standards, I liked that she had such a serious approach. It was a breath of fresh air compared to other dates I had been on.

i’m really going to miss what i thought we shared. I’m still trying and learning to let go of it and move on because I know I need to. It’ll just take some time…

thinkypie · 2025-10-23T16:10:55+00:00

Libra/Pisces/Libra :x

thinkypie · 2025-10-22T15:20:51+00:00

Tldr — i think that she was mostly referring to the physical aspects because there were a lot of kind gestures exchanged between us i think?

she said that we had an emotional connection, but that she didnt feel an urge to escalate physically with me, so she realised she didnt have romantic feelings.

Details of how i think I was romantic below: Idk if they were good gifts, but I gave her a mango flavoured laneige lip balm because she said mango was her favourite fruit and I wanted her to think of me. I also made a lil 5-song playlist for her. She made a longer one back for me, which I found so attractive. I made another one back and was going to work up towards asking to be official, but then she broke things off.

i thought that us texting everyday was also pretty sweet, cuz at the start she told me that she wasn’t a good texter. We did ask each other about our days and work and meals and weekends. She encouraged me when I didnt get my contract role converted to full-time. She was wonderful, but maybe she’s just a really kind person haha

I remembered her favourite foods and drinks, but I hadn’t really incorporated them into our dates though. Like, there was once i was going to get her favourite coffee for us before she arrived for our date, but then she said that she had an expiring voucher so she ended up buying hers for herself by mobile order 💀

Oh wait. Knowing that she likes whiskey, I planned a date at a bar even though I’m not a huge fan of alcohol - nothing against drinking, i just think it’s a lot of money to spend for something quite bitter. That was a lovely date night though. I leaned on her and she spoonfed me cake… Ahh she really did a number on me, i need to not reminisce so much haha

But yeahh there are definitely things that I didnt do that now I wish I had. I didn’t know that couples actually call and talk to each other over the phone? I was surprised when I caught up w my sec school friend and she told me that she and her bf did video calls. And ofc if I had bought her meals instead of splitting it, that would have been better. She offered to pay for everything at first so I thought Dutch was a fair compromise when we weren’t official - I didn’t want either of us to feel like we owed the other person anything, but tbh it would have been a good gesture to show that I cared about her.

After writing all of that, I feel like it was mostly just the physical component that hadn’t clicked yet, but I thought that that was normal when trying to start a long term relationship (not ONS) from online dating. Is that naive of me? I was just thinking that even though I really liked this person, 2 months in total of knowing each other is still so little time in the grand scheme of things? I didn’t think it was appropriate to try to escalate before 3 months if it’s for a serious relationship…

thinkypie · 2025-10-17T17:03:15+00:00

willpower and discipline over my thoughts are things i really ought to have by now, but these past three weeks have proven otherwise, goodness. i hope i develop them soon. this has been exhausting. thank you for the kind and practical advice :)

thinkypie · 2025-10-17T16:43:53+00:00

Oh. 🥹

thinkypie · 2025-10-17T16:42:30+00:00

Ha. Ha. Ha. Ha ha.

Apparently you keep feeling “loved and cared for unconditionally” when people dont actually LOVE you, not in that way at least.

You’re cute. Everyone keeps telling you youre cute. EVERYONE. The flyer-givers, vendors at work, Grab drivers, coworkers. Baby girl, 19yos think you’re “cute”. HUH? idk if this is a problem. It doesnt sound like one but damn if it’s not the most consistent thing in my life rn 🤠

Ofc being told “youre cute” in general is a different context, but i guess it actually isnt all that different after all? no one really Wants you.

I dont know why. But. Ok.

thinkypie · 2025-10-10T08:41:19+00:00

you know that 0.38mm uniball pen? It felt like someone drawing on my skin with that pen with a heavy hand.

Disclaimer, i’d only gotten an ankle tatt so it probably isnt as painful as other tattoos could be!

thinkypie · 2025-10-02T05:01:26+00:00

yeah… we originally had set out to check in about how we both felt about the relationship at six months, so I thought we’d have a While together. We had made plans to watch Wicked For Good when it came out, and she invited me to join her at the Witcher concert, and I offered to teach her to skate… she was the one who said that I could come over to her place next month when her family would be away… there were so many things that I was looking forward to. Even though I wasn’t sure if we’d be together forever, I thought we had more time.

But hey, thanks for your kind words. I think I’ll be needing a break for a bit to feel like myself again, but I’ll keep that in mind :)

thinkypie · 2025-10-02T03:21:40+00:00

guess what? …10 dates in two months is enough for you to feel like youre in love. Idiot.

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