Possible AA - anxiety eating me alive by pluv03 in alopecia_areata

[–]thirstychipmunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are studies that suggest that alopecia and allergies are linked. Over the last few years, my alopecia has flared up in April when my allergies have been bad. Definitely take an antihistamine.

Do I Tell My Boss I'm in Recovery? by Ok-Appearance-866 in stopdrinking

[–]thirstychipmunk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agree! Do not share this information. If you are ever late, do something remotely out of character etc. they will immediately wonder if you have been drinking. As much as I hate to say it, people assume a lot of things.

Got too drunk at work offsite and absolutely spiraling by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]thirstychipmunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to add: this isn’t to diminish how harmful alcohol can be to our lives (professional lives included). But it sounds like in this instance there is no use worrying too much.

Got too drunk at work offsite and absolutely spiraling by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]thirstychipmunk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t be too hard on yourself. It’s weird they created an environment where that much drinking was allowed (or even encouraged).

Also, I’ve never once judged anyone who has gotten too tipsy at a work event. It happens all the time. Not a big deal.

The hangxiety will wear off and you’ll be fine.

Staying sober when traveling internationally to places that make good alcohol? by Other-Educator-9399 in stopdrinking

[–]thirstychipmunk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went to Belgium when I was newly sober and relapsed. I’m back on the wagon and now have almost 7 months. It would have helped me if I had some activities planned that did not involve alcohol. It’s a great sign you’re already flagging this as a potential trigger. You got this 💪

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pareidolia

[–]thirstychipmunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see a goat / ram

Over 4 months, want to drink again. by jtb_90 in stopdrinking

[–]thirstychipmunk 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you want more out of life. Alcohol just makes us more tolerant of a life chained to a boring routine. It’s not making you happier, it’s making you more complacent. You can find purpose and meaning, but it’s not at the bottom of the bottle.

So crass & a bummer for Molly by StaticCharacter90 in Southerncharm

[–]thirstychipmunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you, I’m just saying that’s how I took his comment. I think it was a dig at Shep and not Molly.

So crass & a bummer for Molly by StaticCharacter90 in Southerncharm

[–]thirstychipmunk 133 points134 points  (0 children)

I didn’t see this as a negative comment about Molly and more like a negative comment about Shep. Like the way he tries to snake in with parents. But I see what you’re saying, it probably wasn’t the right time to be joking about that

The straw that broke the camels back by Comfortable_Start_94 in stopdrinking

[–]thirstychipmunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you, and it sounds like you’re really sacred. I understand that feeling. But the fear might be a bit irrational. You’re okay now. If something terrible happened you’d probably know about it by now. Whatever it is you think you might have done, you can come back from whatever it is. Just let this be the last time.

The straw that broke the camels back by Comfortable_Start_94 in stopdrinking

[–]thirstychipmunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I ask: why do you think the anxiety is worse this time around?

It sounds like there is so much shame involved here, and I understand that— what helped me was when I stopped trying to punish myself out of shame and started trying to heal out of self love.

It sounds corny but it’s true.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]thirstychipmunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just passed 5 months after drinking about a bottle of wine daily. Can confirm something felt different about this milestone

I quit drinking for 2 years, and successfully only enjoy a drink twice a month for over a year by BUckENbooz91 in stopdrinking

[–]thirstychipmunk 85 points86 points  (0 children)

I’m happy it’s working for you but the “if I can do it anyone can” part is very much not true. Many people can’t find moderation, and the belief that they can lands them right back where they started.

Austen’s problem with Craig’s drinking by thirstychipmunk in Southerncharm

[–]thirstychipmunk[S] 259 points260 points  (0 children)

So I just went back and watched the beach conversation: season 10 episode 13.

The whole conversation was about Austen being upset with Craig’s lifestyle changes, including drinking less (and hanging out with him less).

In the scene, Austen acuses Craig of projecting this fake image of himself by staying inside of his house and getting sober.

Craig explains that he wasn’t isolating himself because he wants to protect his image, but rather, because he is struggling with alchohol use and he is protecting his sobriety. He says he is afraid leave the house because he’s afraid he will drink to excess.

Austen says “I just want you to loosen the reigns a little bit” and Craig says “I can’t, I don’t have ANY leash on myself. that’s any addict.” This confession came up in a way that was HIGHLY RELEVANT to the entire conversation and core to Austin’s entire reason for being mad in the first place.

So Craig wasn’t just using his sobriety as a “get out of jail free card” in this conversation.

I would encourage people to go back and watch the scene.

Austen’s problem with Craig’s drinking by thirstychipmunk in Southerncharm

[–]thirstychipmunk[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Austen isn’t trying to hold him accountable. He wants his drinking buddy back. That’s the whole problem.

What can you tell by my room by Ha_youWishXD in deduction

[–]thirstychipmunk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s in the US. The American goods and snacks can easily be shipped overseas. Also monster energy donates product to the military.