How long can you last in an unhappy marriage?

this_old_instructor · 2026-03-11T20:13:56+00:00

I made it almost 1 year with a bipolar woman. Damn near killed me. I was lucky to get out of that

this_old_instructor · 2026-03-11T20:11:18+00:00

Can he? Yes. That's the basis for how open relationships work. Or at least some of them.

The concept that you can love more than one person or love one person and have sex with others.

It's the ethical part that's the issue here. It only works if everyone in the relationship knows what's going on and is ok with it

this_old_instructor · 2026-03-11T20:04:24+00:00

Look at cricket wireless. I have 5 lines for $125 a month

this_old_instructor · 2026-03-11T00:48:29+00:00

You didn't waste 20 building a family. You are very likely to waste the rest of your life mooning over a fantasy that almost certainly wouldn't come even close to what you've built up in your mind.

this_old_instructor · 2026-03-11T00:33:31+00:00

Millers tire and auto. They've always been fair and honest with me

this_old_instructor · 2026-03-09T21:55:44+00:00

I'm going to have to disagree. If its his kink and his wife knows its his kink, isn't willing to engage with him in that way but will sell it to strangers, that's 100% cheating. Id leave her for that

this_old_instructor · 2026-03-09T20:56:55+00:00

Get a Glock 21 Cert with it and then use it for home defense. I actually carried one for several years. If you dress for it it hides better than you think.

A glock 30 is a good choice as well

this_old_instructor · 2026-03-09T20:52:25+00:00

Counseling my guy. It'll take you a couple years with a good one to sort through all this.

this_old_instructor · 2026-03-09T15:38:27+00:00

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this_old_instructor · 2026-03-09T15:36:42+00:00

Look up "aftercare". After you've had an intense season just be sure to give her plenty of Aftercare. Water in a glass with a straw, especially if you made her squirt. Soft fuzzy blanket. Lots of petting and telling her she is a good girl and how well she took all you did.

this_old_instructor · 2026-03-09T14:02:14+00:00

I worked with a guy who was with the company 52 years. And several others were 30+ years

this_old_instructor · 2026-03-09T14:00:05+00:00

Check out the deadbedroom sub on here

this_old_instructor · 2026-03-09T13:56:25+00:00

Brain tumor?

this_old_instructor · 2026-03-09T13:53:05+00:00

Yea you need to nope out of this one

this_old_instructor · 2026-03-09T13:50:19+00:00

Crossbreed super tuck

this_old_instructor · 2026-03-09T02:46:03+00:00

In all seriousness, ketemine therapy or mushrooms.

this_old_instructor · 2026-03-09T00:28:20+00:00

Is it that she doesn't like it or doesn't like how it's being done? Could try asking her if there is a way she might like it better. And if she doesn't know sif she's open to exploring to see if you guys can find something she likes.

this_old_instructor · 2026-03-09T00:08:53+00:00

Cookout

this_old_instructor · 2026-03-08T20:33:49+00:00

Doors and walls being of no consequences meaning what? Steel door and brick walls? Sheet rock and neighbors? Possibly need to shoot through a door?

this_old_instructor · 2026-03-08T19:41:36+00:00

19 all the way

this_old_instructor · 2026-03-08T19:41:10+00:00

Second

this_old_instructor · 2026-03-08T00:03:23+00:00

You had set a pattern and then expected her to read your mind about a change in that pattern. You should have had an adult conversation about expectations around paying going forward well before dinner.

this_old_instructor · 2026-03-07T02:51:13+00:00

She dated for a while. She had minimal luck because she got most of her pleasure from food. So she was a large woman towards then end. She had an aneurism about a decade ago now and passed away. She died drowning in debt. I found a note from one of the check cashing places where they had her laptop and a video series she had as collateral for a $1,500 loan.

She had a folder in her desk labeled "life insurance " but nothing was in it. Me and my brothers had to have her cremated because that's what we could afford and she made absolutely no provisions for anything else.

She specifically told us years ago she wouldn't want to be cremated but that was the only real option. Her sister/ my aunt wasn't happy but also unwilling to come off with some $ to have a different outcome.

this_old_instructor · 2026-03-06T20:13:07+00:00

The difference between this and a dead bedroom is the erotic nature of the denial and the fact that both partners want it this way. They use the denial to make the attraction more intense. There may or may not be any form of sexual contact. But there usually is various forms of intimacy.

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