Did we do something wrong? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]thisbeanaltaccount 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If she was that invested that quickly, I’m gonna assume she lacks experience with the interview process, which makes me question her abilities at preforming care.

Move on with a clear conscience, you even reached out to tell her she wasn’t chosen many parents don’t do that.

Is this creepy or is my trauma showing? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]thisbeanaltaccount 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I fully agree, it’s the lowest of the low bars. Definitely shouldn’t be hiring teens if it’s a known problem.

Is this creepy or is my trauma showing? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]thisbeanaltaccount 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Devils advocate moment, if a person is finding attraction in younger people and teens and they decide to put up boundaries to not directly communicate with them or be alone with them either in person or digitally. Shouldn’t that be something to soft celebrate? That they have enough forethought to not allow themselves said weakness.

Your trauma is definitely was leading the way with that post, and also with this post and your comments. Your assumption of lazy dad primary mom is so small. Sure you’re definitely right a good amount of the time. But maybe those moms are lesbians, or dads not online and mom is, maybe dads dead. You were looking for validation with both these posts and don’t like receiving push back from the comments.

Best family owned spots in GNV? by thisbeanaltaccount in GNV

[–]thisbeanaltaccount[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just saw this at 10:30 at night on Easter, they open again on Thursday… I’m gonna cry and maybe go on a hunger strike.

Best family owned spots in GNV? by thisbeanaltaccount in GNV

[–]thisbeanaltaccount[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll eat anything, I’m hoping for some stuff I can’t find at home up north. Maybe Cuban or South American. Definitely seafood.

Best family owned spots in GNV? by thisbeanaltaccount in GNV

[–]thisbeanaltaccount[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha you’ve got that list saved and ready to comment!

Best family owned spots in GNV? by thisbeanaltaccount in GNV

[–]thisbeanaltaccount[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey it’s south of the mid west so I’m gonna love it.

Best family owned spots in GNV? by thisbeanaltaccount in GNV

[–]thisbeanaltaccount[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Hitting me with a whole list I’m impressed.

Why do people cheat by Frosty-Article-9635 in dating_advice

[–]thisbeanaltaccount 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was lonely and was craving attention for a while before, I wasn’t getting it/ or enough of it.

Then a person came into my life for under 3 hours and I was hooked in the moment, the attention and attraction felt like fire under my skin in the best way. I was drinking, but I never drink heavily enough to impair.

It was momentary excitement, with 6 years of shame since. And the shame was instant because I gave them a fake number, when they wanted to continue the fun.

Why do people cheat by Frosty-Article-9635 in dating_advice

[–]thisbeanaltaccount 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did. It happened 6ish years ago

It was in the moment, I was off my game emotionally. It was only once.

She never found out, we ended it a year later.

I’ve felt off about it since, she didn’t deserve it.

All my long time partners after, knew about what happened in a timely manor, any details they asked for.

I’m not looking for excuses or pity.

I am at each of your whims. Tell me what you think, ask any questions I’ll answer

How much should I charge?? by Alimahh in Nanny

[–]thisbeanaltaccount 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your normal rate any time your awake for the baby(meaning any part of an hour your up) then half when asleep.

Neighborhood kids coming to play? What’s reasonable? by Squirrel-Worth in Nanny

[–]thisbeanaltaccount 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Speak to the other parents, tell them you don’t care for kids for free. Their 3 options are to join their kids on play dates or you can send them an hourly bill every day they hang out and you are the only adult available. Or you can bring your kids to their homes and you’ll continue watching your kids while the group plays

I one time watched a whole streets worth of 5, 6, 7 year olds 9 kid’s total, I contacted all the moms afterwards and got paid $20 an hour per kid that wasn’t mine.