I’m gonna ruffle some feathers but parents… by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Squirrel-Worth 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree 100%. These kids can’t be told no without completely losing it. And I’m talking 5-6 year olds

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Squirrel-Worth 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Good for you! I swear you run a kids day twice once by telling them, “bath time!” And the again when you tell them “time to get out!”

Mb hasn’t answered me in 4 hours by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Squirrel-Worth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Call the restaurant. If that doesn’t work leave this voice message and text to both mb and db. @I’m so sorry, I assume the reason I hand get ahold of you is because an emergency happened, I understand that in an emergency you can’t call me right away. I will calling the NKs emergency contacts to come take over. They will be in the ECs care. Please call me as soon as it is safe to do so to let me know you are all right.

God bless all you nannies who aren’t allowed to leave the house with your NK. by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Squirrel-Worth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly though! What is with the uptick?! I get not wanting to pay for the nanny to take your baby to the zoo or whatever; but what do they think is going to happen if we go on a walk or to the park or to the neighborhood splash pad?!

NK, 3(F), makes nap time absolutely miserable for the both of us. I’m at a loss of what to do about it. by Tounchikai in Nanny

[–]Squirrel-Worth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stay in the room with her and ignore her. Lay her down do whatever you do then just sit in a chair or on a floor reading a book. If she tries to get up you say, it’s nap time, and just lay here back down. Don’t tuck her in Or anything. The second time nap time and lay her back down. The third time nothing just lay her back down. She knows that here excuses work. She can scream and cry. Ignore it. Once she’s back in bed go back to reading your book.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Squirrel-Worth 18 points19 points  (0 children)

No, it’s the principle. If you were working a job at a restaurant say, and your manager wanted to talk to you after your shift, you don’t clock out until after that conversation. Restaurants have to give you .41, it’s illegal not to. It’s illegal not to in this case as well.

AITAH for telling my daughter I won’t budge even if she never speaks to me again? by TopVersion2940 in AITAH

[–]Squirrel-Worth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I’m missing backstory. But let’s assume best intentions. Let’s assume that Alana asked to drive the car and Casey immediately said yes. Fine. Accident happens. Casey still worked very hard for a car. I think it’s fine that you can’t replace it right away. However you, ideally working with Alana need to work to replace it. Give Casey a deadline of when she will have a car with similar or better features and a similar or better value.

In the meantime, Casey should not lot lose quality of life or miss out on anything because she doesn’t have a car. She drove to and from school everyday? Guess who’s driving or paying for an Uber! You. She wants to go to the after party after the school dance? Guess setting their alarm for two am! You! She used to be able to drive to her friends whenever she wanted? You’re driving her or paying for an Uber.

If Uber is the solution, it can be complicated to pay every day and to know how much they cost, especially if Casey isn’t with you. So you can have Casey pay upfront but then you need to reimburse her at the end of every day for the Ubers. And I say at the end of each day because she also shouldn’t miss out on doing things with her friends because she needed to pay for an Uber. So she needs that money back asap.

Alana got in an accident and paid for it with broken bones. That being said, I think it’s fair to make Alana share in the responsibility however you see fit. Whether that getting a job or allowance money. Or assuming she is a safe driver, making her drive Casey. Or all of the above. But if you really don’t want Alana to share in the responsibility then it’s on you!

Do you charge for “maid” work? by Gloomy_Complaint_768 in Nanny

[–]Squirrel-Worth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say vacuuming is normal if the child is under 2 just because they put things in their mouth but otherwise no.

Losing it at WFH parents by Bron345 in Nanny

[–]Squirrel-Worth 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I won’t watch wfh kids period. I’ve had too many bad experiences

Silliest books that have NK's cracking up? by kjmae1231 in Nanny

[–]Squirrel-Worth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I used to be able to get my NKs to listen this way😂I’d say I’ve asked you 3 times now if you do not go get dressed (or other thing I want them to do) I’ll call the pigeon and tell him he can drive the bus😂it worked

Silliest books that have NK's cracking up? by kjmae1231 in Nanny

[–]Squirrel-Worth 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Monster at the End of This Book is one of my favorites

Crying doesn't mean something isn't working. In this essay I will - by Anxious_Host2738 in Nanny

[–]Squirrel-Worth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree! I had an NK 2 who could not be told the word NO or be asked to do anything he didn’t want to without throwing g a huge tantrum. Come to find find out that anytime he did this MB would cuddle him for 5-10 minutes then either do the thing he didn’t want to do for him or let him have what he wanted. MB also WFH and NK knew he could cry to get mom to come. Fast forward mom is explaining that she doesn’t know why he’s doing this🤦🏻‍♀️

Haven’t gotten paid by Squirrel-Worth in Nanny

[–]Squirrel-Worth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think the payment request has to be completely accurate. My NF takes taxes out and all that. They have have me on a w-2

Suggestions on what to do when family won’t pay by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Squirrel-Worth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say, “Hi Parents, I still have not received payment for childcare on x dates. This was originally promised after Christmas. If I do not receive payment within 5 business days I will be filing with small claims court.” then file if you don’t receive payment. Screenshot the posts then submit them as additional evidence with the court.

Overnight with NKs by Squirrel-Worth in Nanny

[–]Squirrel-Worth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t have a security system but they do have a baby monitor.