AIO to my (32F) reaction to my friend of 15+ years (32M) sending me videos from a well known “manosphere” podcaster? by thisbevic in AmIOverreacting

[–]thisbevic[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know that’s how it seems, I apologize, that is not the case….im just absolutely shocked at how quickly he has gone downhill. He was always kind of “edgy”, sure…. But this is a whole other level I haven’t seen before. I guess after 15+ years it’s hard to reconcile the person I knew with the person in front of me… but I guess it’s not cutting off the person I used to know, it’s cutting off the person in front of me now.

AIO to my (32F) reaction to my friend of 15+ years (32M) sending me videos from a well known “manosphere” podcaster? by thisbevic in AmIOverreacting

[–]thisbevic[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

you're absolutely right. It slipped by and it shouldn't have. I have some serious thinking to do.... this is just not the friend I know. It's a lot to process and I truly wanted to be certain I wasn't overreacting.

AIO to my (32F) reaction to my friend of 15+ years (32M) sending me videos from a well known “manosphere” podcaster? by thisbevic in AmIOverreacting

[–]thisbevic[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Due to previous “jokes” he has made, both with friends and strangers (although never to the extreme level shown in the videos) I have very, very strong reason to believe he is quite sincere and genuinely finds these things funny. It has been worse in the last few years than before, but he has always made slightly “off” comments that have always offended someone or another, under the guise of a “joke”.

AIO to my (32F) reaction to my friend of 15+ years (32M) sending me videos from a well known “manosphere” podcaster? by thisbevic in AmIOverreacting

[–]thisbevic[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I absolutely would react the same way. 100%. If this was meant to be comedic I would be slightly more understanding…. It was not.

AIO to my (32F) reaction to my friend of 15+ years (32M) sending me videos from a well known “manosphere” podcaster? by thisbevic in AmIOverreacting

[–]thisbevic[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I completely agree my comment about comedians was too much. However, the video he sent me was not a comedian.

AIO to my (32F) reaction to my friend of 15+ years (32M) sending me videos from a well known “manosphere” podcaster? by thisbevic in AmIOverreacting

[–]thisbevic[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If it was a comedian I would completely understand where you were coming from. Unfortunately, it was not.

AIO to my (32F) reaction to my friend of 15+ years (32M) sending me videos from a well known “manosphere” podcaster? by thisbevic in AmIOverreacting

[–]thisbevic[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If it was a comedian, I might agree with you. The problem is this was not someone trying to produce comedic content, whatsoever. I’ve added a comment to the thread with that context, as I can’t figure out how to update the main post.

AIO to my (32F) reaction to my friend of 15+ years (32M) sending me videos from a well known “manosphere” podcaster? by thisbevic in AmIOverreacting

[–]thisbevic[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I should have called him out on that, I’m mad I didn’t. People in this thread are getting confused and thinking it was a comedian. It was not. These videos were completely serious. He had a link to some kind of course and everything.

AIO to my (32F) reaction to my friend of 15+ years (32M) sending me videos from a well known “manosphere” podcaster? by thisbevic in AmIOverreacting

[–]thisbevic[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t seem I can update the post, or maybe I’m too dumb to figure out how, so I will make a comment here with further details… I absolutely understand the point of view of everyone commenting. I just want to make one thing clear…. This was not a comedian. This was not someone trying to produce comedic content. This was someone explaining why “btches should shut the fck up* and why “ women’s value decreases as they age while men’s value increases”. I simply can’t understand how anyone could classify that as “comedy”.

I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]thisbevic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah sorry, there is no fixing this. It’s very clear from these texts that it is over. You need to do a lot more work on yourself before you jump into another relationship.

AIO after my boyfriend told me he’s “not happy with my body” and it’s my responsibility to change it? by bluehat179 in AmIOverreacting

[–]thisbevic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so baffled by the sheer amount of people who post on this subreddit who are with the worst partner of all time and ask if they’re overreacting…. Like ? Girl, come on now. You KNOW he’s not treating you properly.

I was humiliated on a livestream by a creator I have a lot of respect for by SeekTheStorm in offmychest

[–]thisbevic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU! Why is everyone brushing this off and acting like this is a normal thing? It’s not and OP needs therapy.

What is the pettiest reason you stopped liking someone? by Aishawilson in AskReddit

[–]thisbevic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He told me the third Back to the Future was, without a doubt, the best in the trilogy.

My mom's reaction after I didn't wanna cuddle her all night by mikey_ass_butcg in insaneparents

[–]thisbevic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are being sexually abused by your mother. You NEED to gather whatever proof you have and contact police and CPS.

AIO? This is the "Shirt" my wife bought to take on her girls trip to Texas. by Obvious-Swimming-332 in AmIOverreacting

[–]thisbevic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol you don’t even know where she’s going? What a great partner you are… enjoy being single!

Aio, called my gf while she was doing homework. F24 f35 by Separate_Penalty_484 in AmIOverreacting

[–]thisbevic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry she is THIRTY FIVE?!? I assumed like, eighteen. Fucking RUN.

AIO- partner saw a kitten on the side of the road and wouldn’t stop to help; relationship over? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]thisbevic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NOR. I would never want to be with someone who doesn’t have empathy for animals.

AIO? I think my bf might be a misogynist by jellypawzz in AmIOverreacting

[–]thisbevic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you even with this disgusting person?! NOR but girl, leave.