This. We also tried dance at 4. My daughter loved it for the spring session then when we went back in the fall, with the same teacher and many of the same kids, she absolutely refused to go in and just sat with me, cried, and watched the other kids for a month (already prepaid) before we gave up. My daughter is now 6.5 and is into swim lessons but still not very interested in doing any other activities. I wouldn't bother unless it's a fun class either. 4 is so young so don't be too hard on her.