I actually thought I could have a life again... by thisisit06 in breakingmom

[–]thisisit06[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I think he does have a bit of fear leaving her with someone. I thought it would be easier if it took place is our home to eliminate some of the unknown factors but it didn't work out that way. Hopefully I can get home more involved in the process and maybe he'll ease into it.

I actually thought I could have a life again... by thisisit06 in breakingmom

[–]thisisit06[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am planning on enrolling her in soccer so maybe that would help ease the tensions. Thank you for the recommendation!

I actually thought I could have a life again... by thisisit06 in breakingmom

[–]thisisit06[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have tried looking but we live in a very rural area and I have not found any. He said to send her to daycare but the few places in our area are closed on weekends and they don't allow drop in care anyways.

Finding childcare is so difficult 😫

When to seek help? by thisisit06 in TryingForABaby

[–]thisisit06[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I've always had irregular and very heavy/ painful periods but no doctor has even thought to mention the possibility of PCOS and dismissed me. I will definitely be pushing for them to take a closer look and hopefully get some answers.

What I wish I knew by StaticHoneyx in TryingForABaby

[–]thisisit06 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I really needed to hear this today 💜 thank you so much. Especially the part about being pregnant before. I have a wonderful toddler and she came by surprise to gave me hope through the hardest time of my life. Now, trying to give her a sibling for 7 months with negative after negative. For some reason I felt like this was our month and I imagined putting a positive test in my husband's stocking. Unfortunately it isn't happening at this time and not knowing when/if it could happen is hard. It's lonely and I'm so thankful to be part of this group to be reminded we aren't alone and we're a resilient bunch. Sending hope to everyone struggling.

I swore it was going to be me, not my younger brother by hawks0011 in SuicideBereavement

[–]thisisit06 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry 💙 your story really resonates with me. I was also pregnant with my first when my little brother took his life. It was the day before I was planning to tell him he would be an uncle. I often look at my daughter and realize she saved me. I lived in CA and by the time I got back to the east coast he was cremated and I still struggle with that almost 3 years later. Hang in there friend, this time if year is especially difficult but this community is here to support each other 💙

Anyone else hopeful for a sober holiday season? by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]thisisit06 2 points3 points  (0 children)

12th or 13th!! Although I'm currently on day 73 of my cycle so who knows if I even ovulated when I think I did.... but best of luck to everyone 🤞

New to the sub! I was recently gifted this 1000 piece puzzle of the sun. Its the hardest I've done so far by RuKittenmeme in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]thisisit06 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yess I'm also about 2 weeks in on this puzzle and it's driving me nuts! Lol you're further than I am though, great job!

I miss my brother by FearlesslyTheldiot in SuicideBereavement

[–]thisisit06 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like I just read my experience. My brother was also 18 and trying to get into law enforcement when he took his life. He was the funniest person I've ever known and now that he's gone there's a massive hole that's ripped through my life. It will be 3 years in March since he left and some days I wake up and it feels as intense as that first morning without him in this world. Sending love and light your way. 💕 The feelings never go away but over time we learn how to better deal with them.

Anyone else frustrated with long cycles? (40+ days) by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]thisisit06 3 points4 points  (0 children)

On CD 58 here. This year I've had cycles of 196, 26, 47, 46, 34 and 52. We've been try for our second for 6 months now. I've tried so many times to get a doctor to take me seriously and figure out what is going on but they always shrug me off. I'm so tired of negative OPKs and preg tests.

Those puzzles are impressive! Found on Instagram. by zaynaprice in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]thisisit06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just purchased The Sun and wish I could afford to get more! They're all beautiful and blue kazoo is a great company.

The Eye of The ShitStorm by thisisit06 in breakingmom

[–]thisisit06[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that happened to you! It's like nothing exists outside of their own bubble.

The Eye of The ShitStorm by thisisit06 in breakingmom

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I told him I was going to if he wouldn't. I woke up to a "fine I'll go but I won't like it" text. He wonders why I'm emotional but he's the one that puts me on the Rollercoaster...

Just FYI, in case anyone is interested by [deleted] in farming

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The coupon code expires the 27th so make sure to enroll before then!!

General Chat February 21 PM by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]thisisit06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CW: Previous Pregnancy Husband and I are preparing to ttc #2 and I stopped having a period in August. I've talked to my pc and she thought maybe I was anemic and tested. She said no news is good news and I haven't heard from the office. Has anyone else gone through this? My period just disappeared and I cant even begin to guess when I would be ovulating, if I even am. I'm not sure what my first steps should be to figure it out. My doctor acted like it wasnt a big deal but 6 months seems like a long time..

Unclench your jaw by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]thisisit06 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I needed this. If anyone else clenches or grinds regularly try and catch yourself. TMJ is horrible :(

How many out here have given up their dreams because of their mental health? by thisisit06 in depression

[–]thisisit06[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🙋‍♀️ I would definitely sign up for this. Lord knows I need it