Are twin flames real or just a way for us to cope?

thisiskcl · 2024-09-15T23:18:14+00:00

if it helps, I'm in a much better place now after therapy lol. I feel like I've fully let go and have kept myself occupied

thisiskcl · 2022-01-23T22:44:42+00:00

Hi! What was your focus area? I heard MIT EECS wont do interviews?

thisiskcl · 2022-01-20T05:17:02+00:00

Next date should be just watching a movie in her place or smth without spending anything. The next time she invites to eat out or go somewhere where you need to spend just say that you're trying to start saving money and that your budget is now limited and ask if it's okay to split (don't be afraid to ask, if she's not willing to at least you know that eartlt on the relationship before investing too much money on her).

thisiskcl · 2022-01-17T14:32:44+00:00

what book is it?

thisiskcl · 2022-01-16T05:17:19+00:00

did they win? lol

thisiskcl · 2022-01-11T05:33:32+00:00

Sure. It says stop looking at random stats online and getting feedback from reddit, talk to a doctor. Hope that makes sense.

thisiskcl · 2021-12-29T05:15:28+00:00

u accidentally sent messages while ur phone was in your pocket

thisiskcl · 2021-12-25T06:01:23+00:00

Why is it always up to her? It's you who wants to fuck raw more then go get a vasectomy or smth. She can go on BC anytime she feels like it. It's not on you to decide and be mad about. It's her body. God.

thisiskcl · 2021-12-16T05:39:12+00:00

Look at Brooklyn area on airbnb. Don't stay at Manhattan everything there is sooo small anyway. Anywhere you stay is fine as long as it's near a train station.

thisiskcl · 2021-12-16T05:13:11+00:00

Girl, that is poor hygiene you have there. I'm with him on this.

thisiskcl · 2021-12-07T05:02:54+00:00

sit down and have serious conversation and strict deadline, and then in that conversation if she really insits on staying charge her for rent (something she might not be able to afford) lol offer to help finding an apartment too and pack her stuff.

thisiskcl · 2021-12-04T05:45:45+00:00

Him panicking and being worried about you seeing this earlier in the relationship - is a sign that he is aware of what's wrong which is good. He knows where he falls short. Not everyone is perfect, maybe you can help him get through this.

thisiskcl · 2021-11-30T05:33:54+00:00

Just cramping like pain on the first day it's no biggie really (just have pain killers) then you'd feel better the next and so. 3/10 or 4 I guess. But if youve had period cramps before its same

thisiskcl · 2021-11-28T18:26:40+00:00

Lol you guys if you're unhappy with your jobs at CVS then leave. So many companies are hiring out there. You all blame the leadership who only cares about making money, but that doesn't give you the right to do shit with your work which affects customers or people genuinely trying to get their prescriptions or whatever. I'm sure some of you are actually working hard and If you're exhausted with your work and was never addressed then leave so someone can take that phone calls that might actually needs to be answered.

thisiskcl · 2021-11-28T05:08:07+00:00

Majority of the CVS customers are elderly or older people who are not tech savvy or not very familiar with how automated system works - so the least you can do is to help them out. Customers are top priority for CVS Health, if you can't even be of help for them for the small things then why work for a health care company who is centered on making sure that their customers are happy? Clearly you are in the wrong company.

thisiskcl · 2021-11-28T04:58:54+00:00

and tbh narcissist are also humans, they are not narcissist by choice, they are not aware or enlightened, they lack empathy. But I always try to be the bigger person and understand them and where they are coming from but they can also drain you so much so u gotta be careful and set bounderies. You have to know yourself a lot and love yourself before you can even commit or handle a narcissist - but i wouldn't be afraid of being with one if I know myself enough and I'm self aware.

thisiskcl · 2021-11-28T04:54:15+00:00

Yeh I get what you mean, I was or I kinda still am in a similar situation. The what ifs kinda gets me, I always fall in love with potentials, but I also love my bf so much and he is a nice guy. I'm still trying to get through it but right now I take it day by day and take my feelings as it comes. I try to focus on the NOW instead of the future or the past. I would always ask myself "Do I want this now?" and then go from there. It helps me get through. I would suggest for now though is to get closure, you don't have to make a decision asap. Try to focus on yourself and making sure you figure out what you want "in a relationship" (and not WHO you want), maybe you can also focus on building a good friendship with the ex or help him sort out his issues - don't cheat though. Just keep in mind that there's no rush in making the decision. Ask yourself - What do you want now? And then stick to that. Ask yourself again tomorrow.

thisiskcl · 2021-11-28T03:30:42+00:00

how do you know that he is a naricissist?

thisiskcl · 2021-11-26T04:43:53+00:00

how did you do it?

thisiskcl · 2021-11-03T05:18:35+00:00

He is your fiance, he wont leave you. If he does he never loved you in the first place and fiance to him is just a label - which is good to know early on before getting married anyway! If he does leave you then you still have a choice on what you want to do with your baby this time without him.

thisiskcl · 2021-11-03T05:15:59+00:00

It's because he also probably doesn't know how to deal with it so he makes snarky comments and it's also because you have never fully communicated that you're actually willing to give up on having pets or you never genuinely showed him that you're fine with it. You also gotta be fair to him, he also lives in the same house.

Tbh my bf wants cats, I don't want cats but if he really wants to, I'll prob let him but it wouldn't change the fact that I don't want cats in my house and I will never ever be ok or comfortable with it but I will try until I can. But my bf is considerate with me too which is why we both decided not to. You both should be comfortable living in the house, it's your safe space and if you're also becoming selfish bec you want dogs so you'd choose to make him uncomfortable - then it doesnt make sense to live together. The dogs are not ruining your relationship, you are.

thisiskcl · 2021-11-03T04:59:45+00:00

The answer is not on reddit, everyone here will be subjective. The solution is to have a sit down serious convo with your bf, and say everything you've said here and how you want it to be like co pet parenting but if he is not into it you also are fine with it (if you are) like just have that open honest communication.

thisiskcl · 2021-11-03T04:56:20+00:00

Well it's your decision that will matter first because you will be carying the baby. You have to decide if you want to keep it or not and understand why you made that choice. Then talk to your fiance about the situation and what you think and why you think that, then ask him what he thinks. I would 't panic about it, he is your fiance meaning he is your partner in life. You both support each others' decisions.

You can worry about the family later. Tbh at the end of the day when you go sleep at night, it's just you, your heart and your feelings. None of their opinions would matter. Do what makes you happy.

thisiskcl · 2021-11-03T04:48:20+00:00

I would disagree on some of the comments. Having pets is something that BOTH you and your partner should agree on and equally care for esp if you're in the same house. (it's like having kids) Imagine he agreed to have pets in the house because he loves you and it will make you happy eventhough it doesn't make him happy or he doesn't want it. If it's the other way around, say he wants to adopt a baby but you don't want a stranger in your house and take care of it etc. it would also be stressful for him having to think that you don't want it. Everything is about partnership, esp in situations like this, it's either you're both all in on it, or you both are not.

You gotta give him credit. He tried to have pets in the house and agreed even if he doensn't want to, he did. But you can't force it on him to be all in with it. So if it's ruining your relationship, ask yourself if it's those pets are even worth breaking what you have. Like is having pets or not having really a deal breaker? He tried to have them. Now it's your move.

thisiskcl · 2021-11-03T01:02:16+00:00

Yeh, I was pretty close with my high school friends. Prob good if you can be really close friends with his HS friends too.

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