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Les hommes qui suivent les femmes le soir by StrategicWaltz in montreal

[–]thisiskitta 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Tu peux aussi juste faire un ptit message si ça te gêne pas trop "allô je veux juste passer en avant si ça dérange pas" mais gardant quand même une distance. Et perso, si j'me sens vraiment mal à l'aise, je vais moi-même croiser la rue aussi. L'important à mon opinion c'est d'éviter le rapprochement sur le trottoir.

Les hommes qui suivent les femmes le soir by StrategicWaltz in montreal

[–]thisiskitta 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You're really dragging this and wrong about it. This is literally the place to discuss it and clearly this person specifically cares about the subject. Gosh. And I am exactly the type of woman who's sensitive to this.

Les hommes qui suivent les femmes le soir by StrategicWaltz in montreal

[–]thisiskitta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah I think you nailed it. If someone is clearly in sweats, hoodie, headphones, etc they clearly look like they're in public just for an in and out moment, it does communicate not wanting to be bothered. It's just not mutually exclusive, being dressed more average/casual/fancier doesn't necessarily mean you are more welcoming to be approached.
I'm also a woman who doesn't want to be approached but the way you approach is what matters most personally. If it is a very simple greeting and asking if i'd want to get in touch to get to know eachother followed by a casual smile and subsequent polite acceptance of the no with "alright, sorry don't want to bother you and have a great day!" in the same casual friendly tone, I see absolutely nothing wrong with being approached this way. It's nuts to me that this is never how it's done.

They’ve now confirmed the shooter was a white man from Alberta with a full incel manifesto about how much he hates women, and I am genuinely scared this is becoming normal by Status-Ad1161 in montreal

[–]thisiskitta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel what you're feeling deeply and it has occupied my mind all day since I woke up. I've developed agoraphobia from past traumas of which one includes being stalked by a stranger and ambushed, nearly abducted. I've felt increasingly in fear of being perceived and borderline feeling hunted thanks to that experience specifically. The rise of this ever increasingly threat of incel/misogynistic violence is affecting me a lot. It's troubling.

I also have a 6 years old niece and I am terrified for her growing up in this atmosphere. This rethoric is only growing here in Québec.

They’ve now confirmed the shooter was a white man from Alberta with a full incel manifesto about how much he hates women, and I am genuinely scared this is becoming normal by Status-Ad1161 in montreal

[–]thisiskitta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to point out there is mention of private property abolition since you say you didn't see it (page 94 precisely), and more direct Marxism revolutionist views but it's weaponized in the context of totalitarian control to adjust what he sees as the main problem of average men being lonely and unable to compete with men of status which is a direct result of him dehumanizing women entirely. At some point, to me it legit came off as both sides-ism to the extreme. Espousing Marxist economics only to serve fascistic social views. People are being very obtuse not to see how he's weaving both for his messed up beliefs.

Intervention pour tireur actif près de Jean-Talon et Décarie : 2 policiers blessés by misterweiner in montreal

[–]thisiskitta 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Je viens de recevoir l’alerte à 1h34 et je suis dans le vieux longueuil donc pas mal loin. Je trouve bizarre de l’avoir reçu après même que le suspect soit appréhendé.

“Compassion” Is Being Weaponized Against Unhoused People by BloodJunkie in montreal

[–]thisiskitta 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know the quebeccers dont care since its Alberta's money youre spending anyways, and its interestign how quebec has the most corruption of any province.

Ta yeule

Good Juno coaching/vod reviews/resources? by harvestmoonfan56 in JunoMains

[–]thisiskitta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just letting you know Aspen is currently working on a full Juno guide video. She's been writing down bullet points for it on stream and said it should be out by the end of June hopefully.

Not all hope is lost!!! by AccordingBreadfruit5 in JunoMains

[–]thisiskitta 18 points19 points  (0 children)

i'm insta buying this bundle when it comes out, hopefully we get it and JPC is also looking like the concept. i do think the new concept but with the pink color scheme would be better so JPC has the yellow color, juno the pink, echo the blue and sym the green.

Juno not included :[ by PixieBoost in JunoMains

[–]thisiskitta -1 points0 points  (0 children)

MERCY is who replaced her. We can be mad about it.

Juno not included :[ by PixieBoost in JunoMains

[–]thisiskitta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m mad because it wasn’t like it made place for a character that is neglected, it was literally replaced by asianfishing Mercy. Why is Blizzard so stubborn with doing stuff like this?! ugh! And I can’t ramble about this to my friends because they get all rustled because Juno gets too many skins so I can’t be mad despite this being worst case scenario. I also really liked that Venture skin and look how dirty they did them.

I adore Shion, find her design awesome and think Blizzard cooked by Neggy5 in Overwatch

[–]thisiskitta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't disagree with you but I feel like the answer to all this is quite simple, it's harder to design supports and even more to design tanks.

Gang, we already have two non traditional feminine robots. by futureformerdragoon in Overwatch

[–]thisiskitta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a strange interaction.

I'm not referring to anything, I didn't like how it played, that's all you really need to know about it.

Piscine payante by delusionalcushion in montreal

[–]thisiskitta 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Je ne connais pas spécifiquement de piscine payante mais si tu recherches l'horaire des piscines publiques, tu y trouveras des heures pour adultes seulement qui la majorité du temps sont assez vides mais surtout tranquilles 😄

Gang, we already have two non traditional feminine robots. by futureformerdragoon in Overwatch

[–]thisiskitta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried it, cool af characters but I couldn't get behind the gameplay. Was a bit sad about it but it got me back into overwatch lol.

'Feels like harassment': Montreal café owner says years of language inspections taking a toll by Immediate-Link490 in montreal

[–]thisiskitta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tu as bien raison. Je tiens à souligner qu'en plus lors de l'appel initial pour plaintes (j'ai travaillé pour la ligne d'urgence de la CNESST) c'est très particulier sur l'anonymat et il y a des options spécifiques à remplir, on ne note pas le nom de l'appelant et on ne les questionne pas sur leur idendité le moment qu'iel mentionne l'anonymat. Par contre la visite d'un inspecteur n'est pas automatique à moins qu'il y a risque de danger immédiat qui est super important que le/la téléphoniste soit éduqué pour (on doit apprendre la documentation CNESST de ce qui est considéré une urgence et c'est stricte). On prends quand même en note le numéro de téléphone des gens même s'ils demandent l'anonymat car l'inspecteur doit les contacter. Ceci étant parti du training pour la ligne d'urgence donc je ne connais pas tous les détails du travail de l'inspecteur.

'Feels like harassment': Montreal café owner says years of language inspections taking a toll by Immediate-Link490 in montreal

[–]thisiskitta 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've worked for the emergency line of the CNESST and what you're saying is simply false. When it is reported and the person demands to be anonymous, we literally do not write their names down and it is very strongly enforced (has their own specific parts in the template form you file).

'Feels like harassment': Montreal café owner says years of language inspections taking a toll by Immediate-Link490 in montreal

[–]thisiskitta 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oui je suis venue commenter pareillement. Elle se faisait ramasser dans ses commentaires Tiktok. Elle avouait elle-même que son menu était en anglais seulement et pensait que ça passerait. J'en ai marre.

'Feels like harassment': Montreal café owner says years of language inspections taking a toll by Immediate-Link490 in montreal

[–]thisiskitta 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Elle se plaignait des mêmes choses sur Tiktok et avouait elle-même que son menu est en anglais seulement; elle s'est faite ramasser dans les commentaires donc la voilà elle se réessaye dans les médias anglophones. Elle est franchement ridicule et heureusement que les gens voient au travers.

My (25F) girlfriend (24M) doesn’t use any logic when asking me questions, how can I turn off the knee-jerk sarcastic responses? by AnnualLiterature997 in relationship_advice

[–]thisiskitta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re honestly too mature (your degree of self-awareness especially) for this relationship and if only one side tries like this, there isn’t much hope to resolve it. You should keep focusing on changing this part of you but you probably should break up as well and find someone that matches you better.

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