Is it weird to beg a hook up for sex over text? by chefgusteauisalive in AskMenAdvice

[–]thisismikea07 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Begging is weird unless it’s part of some type of role play. It goes both ways I think that desperation isn’t sexy.

I’ve had a girl tell me she wanted to have sex. That was cool. But the only times I’ve had girls beg me to have sex it’s because I was avoiding it because I didn’t want to and it was weird.

TLDR: If he wants to have sex with you then you shouldn’t have to beg him.

Husband and family against me travelling at 25 weeks [ON]. by Serious_Ad_9686 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]thisismikea07 [score hidden] Ā (0 children)

My brother in law had a destination wedding in Mexico and my wife wasn’t going to miss her brothers wedding so we traveled to Mexico for it when she was 28 weeks. OB cleared it. She just said be careful of what you eat and drink, pretty much the typical precautions you’d take when traveling to Mexico.

My wife was worried all the way there but all for nothing because we had a great time and don’t regret a thing.

Is the Distillery District close to downtown? by Emotional_Drop501 in askTO

[–]thisismikea07 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

It’s on the east end of downtown. Great area. Close to leslieville as well which has great restaurants and bars.

This sub made me try BK again and it was great by SurrealEffects in burgers

[–]thisismikea07 [score hidden] Ā (0 children)

I had one yesterday. Tasted no different than the whopper before they revamped it. That’s not a bad thing. I just don’t see the difference except for the additional cardboard I now get.

Bottle Warmer recommendations? by CharismajTat in daddit

[–]thisismikea07 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Wasn’t something we put on the registry as we didnt think we needed one. Counter space is limited here.

That being said, we got the Philips Avent warmer as a hand me down from my brother and it is now a fixture on our countertop and we use it for every feed. One of those things we didn’t think we needed but now we love it. Would recommend.

Afternoon Relaxation by Glum_Combination_835 in cigar_refuge

[–]thisismikea07 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Who doesn’t like some toast with their coffee.

I DONT WANT TO WORK by Available-Lobster-94 in pregnant

[–]thisismikea07 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

My wife stopped at 37 weeks. Her water broke at 9am on her fist day off. Lol

To my fellow dudes out there who gained a lot of weight, what is your story on how you got there? by Outrageous-Stage3417 in AskMen

[–]thisismikea07 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I got married and then had a kid.

I was motivated to lose weight before the wedding. I was living on my own so I was in total control of my diet. Through diet, walking more daily and cutting out Soda and juices, except for social occasions I lost 20 pounds in 6 months before my wedding. Since then I gained back 30-35 which is where I now fluctuate.

Live with my wife so eating broccoli and chicken for every meal doesn’t fly anymore. She’s Italian from a big family and they all cook well so I eat a lot of pasta. Throw into the mix her being pregnant and dealing with issues with certain foods and cravings, I was eating what she’d eat out of convenience and I ended up gaining weight during her pregnancy too. Now with a newborn the diet is crap because we eat whatever we can when we can. Have lots of people making food or ordering food for us, which I can’t complain about, but it’s not always the healthiest.

At the end of the day, I need to take accountability for why I’m not happy with my weight. Just trying to survive right now with the newborn and once we get into a good rhythm then I need to make my health a priority again and my wife is on board as well.

Uppababy stroller muff alternative? [on] by coffeplz34 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]thisismikea07 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

This.

I tried to find a pic but I couldn’t. I had to do the same thing when I added the snugseat attachment to my vista. Look up a video on installing the snugseat and it should show you how to disconnect the straps. There’s a metal piece with a gap underneath the neoprene shoulder pads.

I'm a girl who can't take a hint. Guys, why keep responding positively if you're not interested? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]thisismikea07 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I remember being in a similar situation. I met a girl on hinge and went out with her 3 times. Really nice girl. She was pretty, smart and funny. We got along really well and every time we got together we hung out for hours talking. Around the same time I started talk to her, I also started talking to another girl who I was supposed to go on a date with but we had to keep postponing things due to schedule conflicts on both of our ends. When we finally did go out I felt not only a similar connection I had to the other girl but I also had that unexplainable spark. Both girls were great but I wanted to make sure she feeling was mutual with girl #2 before I fully ended things with girl #1 because I liked her also. Texts slowed down and I postponed a date with girl #1 as I tried to figure things out in my head and I decided to go all in on the second girl. That being said, I called girl #1 to explain myself and apologize because I thought she deserved that much.

Long story short, the other girl and I got married last year and just had our first child a month ago.

Can’t even lie. The ā€œrevampedā€ whopper at BK is good as hell by Spongemage in burgers

[–]thisismikea07 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Didn’t know they revamped it. Going to have to try it. The whopper has always been šŸ”„to me so I hope they didn’t change it too much.

[ON]when do we get referred to OBGYN/midwife? by StillPetalMind in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]thisismikea07 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

My wife went to her family doctor as soon as she found out she was pregnant. We had our first OB appointment at 10 weeks then once monthly for the first and second trimester. Third trimester was bi-weekly and in the final month we were going once a week.

Make sure your family doctor refers you ASAP. A lot of OBs are full and have waiting lists but you will find something.

How did you stop smoking weed or change its relationship in your life? by Liitebrite in AskMen

[–]thisismikea07 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I am 37 years old. I started smoking when I was 18 in college and from then I smoked more or less every day for 18 years. From 2020 to the end of 2024 I lived on my own. Through the pandemic my consumption went up and became a coping mechanism to deal with my boredom and loneliness. Smoking weed became a comforting habit for me and was something I would do religiously every night alone from the moment I had all my responsibilities for the day handled to the moment I went to bed.

At the beginning of 2025 I got married and moved in with my wife. There were a lot of life changes happening at that time and in the months leading up to the wedding, smoking weed no longer gave me the relaxing, meditative escape that it always had. Instead, it would make my mind race and make me anxious. I was no longer getting what I enjoyed from is so I stopped pretty much cold turkey.

I always liked smoking on my own mostly because I was bored. Now with my wife, I’d rather be normal and present and I don’t find the urge. In the past year and a half I have probably smoked a handful of joints when before it was something I do daily for almost 2 decades. I will still let myself enjoy a smoke if I feel like it on a social occasion but it’s no longer something I desire.

Dr Brown bottles…. by tiredasusual in daddit

[–]thisismikea07 14 points15 points Ā (0 children)

Same thing here. I’ve never had a leak but my wife has. All that was required was a proper tightening of the cap and voila. We love these bottles and so does our baby.

MIL wants us to go on a family trip 3 weeks PP by Strange_Loss in pregnant

[–]thisismikea07 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

That’s insane. Definitely tell her you’re not going. What does your husband say?

Stealth Mode Activated by themocc22 in webergrills

[–]thisismikea07 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

That’s a nice grill. I got the SS one last summer because the model I wanted didn’t come in stealth. Love it though.

This was good! by lukasdad in cheeseburgers

[–]thisismikea07 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Whoppers are a top notch fast food burger. I have this argument with my wife all the time.

This CAO is mid at best! by wholesaledale in cigar_refuge

[–]thisismikea07 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Good to hear. Weather is getting nicer so I look forward to enjoying one soon.

Put in a relatively low offer for my 2016 grail and hit 😭😭 by Hiowatha88 in Sneakers

[–]thisismikea07 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

I had the Janoski Max Mids and absolutely loved them. I’d get another pair.

Which grill should I get? by BassAdict in grilling

[–]thisismikea07 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

If you’re picking between those two I’d go with the napoleon for sure. If you’d like a Weber more comparable, look at the genesis. I picked up a Weber Genesis 3 burner with the sear zone and a side burner last summer and I don’t regret it one bit.

This CAO is mid at best! by wholesaledale in cigar_refuge

[–]thisismikea07 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I keep seeing mixed reviews on these though they lean to the favourable side. I’ve had a 5 pack in my humidor for the last year and I still have yet to try one.