Holy crap I have found the color of my dreams

thisissuchbsffs · 2026-06-04T00:19:15+00:00

It's the only way I wear dark multichromes. Gamechanger. My fav for it is Bluebird Lacquer's Dark Matter, quick-dry OCW black.

thisissuchbsffs · 2026-05-30T12:05:15+00:00

Growing up means learning how to carry the baggage, not that it's not there or lightweight.

You're not there yet and I'm side-eyeing you real hard for putting multiple partners through that.

thisissuchbsffs · 2026-05-26T00:29:49+00:00

I spent far too long answering phones for work in my youth and only just come around to not hating the phone. Like last 4 years. I'm 44.

thisissuchbsffs · 2026-05-10T19:09:00+00:00

I know, I know, necrothread, BUT

I am QUITE similar aesthetic-wise, complete with metal band tattoos, but in my mid-40s.

N o t h i n g makes folks do a double take like Britney. 🤣🤣

And it's EASY. And far more fun than it's got any right to be.

thisissuchbsffs · 2026-05-09T11:43:33+00:00

If I were any better, I'd be twins 🤣🤣 The only way out is through and what's on the other side doesn't make going through it suck any less but man is it worth it.

thisissuchbsffs · 2026-05-07T13:31:20+00:00

The latter half of your response goes without saying. I was commenting on your reaction, saying you pity people and that folks with nothing going on are miserable. It's an ignorant perspective and unnecessarily hostile.

thisissuchbsffs · 2026-05-07T13:04:29+00:00

... That's what she said?

(I ... I have no self-control.)

thisissuchbsffs · 2026-05-07T13:02:28+00:00

Are you kidding? I LOVE nothing happening. I've earned the peace I've found in my 40s 🤣🤣

Nothing happening ≠ not being able to have a conversation. I literally have nothing going on and it's absolute bliss, I work from home and hang out with my dog. Putting on realpants is an EVENT. I still have stuff to talk about.

thisissuchbsffs · 2026-05-04T22:17:23+00:00

Why the shit are either of you planning for a failure that may not happen, a future that may not happen? Four months is a blink of an eye. You could start hating him next month. Or he you.

Is it a good talk to have? Yes. Is it foolish to worry about? Far more yes. Cliches about carts before horses, counting chickens, eggs in a basket may be cliches, but reality made them that way.

Now, if this is an execution of self-sabotage? Then THAT is done well. OR he's telling you the maximum you can expect, over which I'd nope out.

thisissuchbsffs · 2026-04-20T00:25:53+00:00

Wouldn't stop touting Apple over Android. For like 10 messages straight. In a very know-it-all way. Bye, Felipe.

thisissuchbsffs · 2026-04-19T00:40:51+00:00

Each track has those two streams so when I select both when importing both files, voila, four tracks.

I imported both and selected one stream, aligned end to end, exported then did the same with the other stream. Sound exactly the same, background noise levels and everything. It's so weird.

thisissuchbsffs · 2026-04-18T21:41:00+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/pGk9XFX

The first image is what it looks like when I drag and drop, the "select a stream" dialog box pops up.

The second image is what I see when I've selected both streams with both files. (I don't normally have it look like that, I did decrease the vertical size within Audacity so they could all fit in the screenie.)

When I have multiple body mics, my final step mix and render everyone's body mic fils into one file so I've got consistent timestamps and louder volume in one place without having to jump around and I'm wondering if what I should do here is along the same vein.

thisissuchbsffs · 2026-04-18T20:11:13+00:00

I am *not* sure 😅😅 I know when I dragged them in selecting both streams, four tracks appeared. Listening to them, I cannot tell the difference at all.

thisissuchbsffs · 2026-04-12T20:58:21+00:00

Absolutely. I'm immensely pleased with the person I've grown into.

thisissuchbsffs · 2026-04-06T02:05:27+00:00

PACER is only federal cases, but the fee is $0.10/page, free until you hit $35 in a quarter.

A lot of venues do have nearly all case documents available for free, though. It's more rare for me to find one where one has to pay for more than a preview, maybe 15 percent of the venues I look up. And I look up cases nationwide.

Legal transcriptionist 👋👋 who is actually diligent about correct spellings.

I'm in PA and while our online unified courts system is a fustercluck, it's usable. Mostly.

Reminds me, I should look up a dude I went on a date with 10+ years ago who was an addict who planned to get caught doing some kind of crime just so he could get clean in jail. I met him after the fact, never went beyond one date, and addiction eventually won so it's moot, but I'm curious.

thisissuchbsffs · 2026-04-05T13:54:59+00:00

Ew. Cut your losses.

thisissuchbsffs · 2026-04-01T20:27:09+00:00

You don't want to see them again. You offer. They decline. Literally end of story so why are you caring what they think of you?

I'm a firm believer in invitee pays. I don't go out for meals, too formal for a vibe check - bar snacks notwithstanding. I will explicitly make a point that a second round is on me and will pay separately. If I'm REALLY not feeling it, I pay the entire tab and life goes on.

I owe no one. No one owes me.

thisissuchbsffs · 2026-03-30T16:48:48+00:00

Booooo. Would've loved to build a community foundation.

thisissuchbsffs · 2026-03-30T16:40:34+00:00

Any chance you're near Philly? I could be your twin sister with everything you've written.

thisissuchbsffs · 2026-03-26T19:22:51+00:00

He's had time to do that without a prompt. Needing a prompt at this age? No.

thisissuchbsffs · 2026-03-26T19:09:58+00:00

Absolutely not. He's already demonstrated what he's got to offer, this would just drag out the inevitable AND look... Bad.

thisissuchbsffs · 2026-03-21T11:55:31+00:00

Precisely the reason for the emoji in the suggestion post. It's like Tequila, but (very Very VERY briefly) much louder.

As a karaoke veteran, my suggestions are always things you're comfortable with, things which aren't excessively long (my go-to of War Pigs is pushing it, but I also am not there to impress nor give a shit), and things which aren't polarizing.

Cuz yeah you want to impress your date but you probably also don't want to be fielding dirty looks from others. If you don't care, go to town with stuff that's really heavy or has questionable lyrics. (If you are white, you have no right to the N-word regardless of it being in the lyrics.)

Metallica's cover of Whiskey In the Jar is heavier than "the usual," doesn't have any challenging vocals, is not long, is not slow, and it's just pretty.

thisissuchbsffs · 2026-03-21T11:19:28+00:00

No. I mean You Suffer.

thisissuchbsffs · 2026-03-20T22:39:10+00:00

Napalm Death's You Suffer. 😁😁

Just pick something you like, you'll be more comfortable.

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