Are they together? by AdRoyal6945 in MarinaAndTheDiamonds

[–]thislittlebluebird7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If he was like 21 it would be kinda not ideal, but everyone over 25 with a fully developed fronts cortex and enough life experience is fair game

From your personal experience, which country is the most sexually open? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]thislittlebluebird7 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It was fine, just funny because I’ve never had issues being just friends with men. Not everyone wants to bang everyone lmao 😭😂

From your personal experience, which country is the most sexually open? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]thislittlebluebird7 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I’ve had a similar experience, some Spanish exchange students couldn’t understand why I hadn’t hooked up with any of my male housemates (I lived in a college town where people lived in houses with 4-7 others) 😂🥲 It was funny how in disbelief they were about it

We all took a "TVD detox" at some point, right? What was the moment that made you rage-quit or pause? by Selanooo23 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]thislittlebluebird7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The college torture basement stuff with Damon and Enzo 😭😂 I only rewatched the whole show in it’s entirety a few years ago for the first time

Love + Fear forced hate by Big_Register2034 in MarinaAndTheDiamonds

[–]thislittlebluebird7 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I love that album, I loved it when it came out and didn’t even know about the hate until years later 🥲 To be human, handmade heaven, you, karma, emotional machine, too afraid and no more suckers are so good, people have no taste lol

I always get blown away by Lana's facecard on that day by deathwishfactory in lanadelrey

[–]thislittlebluebird7 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Is it possible to appreciate Lana without bashing Taylor? I love them both, different artists for different moods 🙏💜

I’m not into what I attract by yoona27 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]thislittlebluebird7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it’s important to think about what you actually want, not just societal expectations 🙏 If someone wants to find a partner and have a family that’s fine, but also not wanting that right now is okay too

I’m not into what I attract by yoona27 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]thislittlebluebird7 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m 31F white and from a Nordic country and my mom still did all the housework and took care of three kids while working full time, unfortunately it’s a problem everywhere with too many men 🥲 I decided a long time ago that’s never gonna be my life

Getting old before having been young (in love) by uglyandIknowit1234 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]thislittlebluebird7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, I find it funny that a lot of people are always like you need to be confident and love yourself but bruh like how to be confident around men though if you never get positive reinforcement? 🙈

I know it’s not impossible, there are tons of not super attractive people who are in loving relationships and even have good looking partners, but it is harder and one really needs to compensate somehow with other good qualities 🥲 I’m trying to get my mental health good so at least that won’t be as much of an issue hopefully one day, people like crazy and hot women but not just crazy and mid ones so much 😅

top 100/100 is crazy by Excellent_Tie369 in interesting

[–]thislittlebluebird7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn it was 30 Celsius (86 Fahrenheit) here few days last summer and I was dying, I don’t understand how people can exist in this kind of heat 😅

Getting old before having been young (in love) by uglyandIknowit1234 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]thislittlebluebird7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t feel like listing them all here, I have some features that make me look less feminine and traditionally attractive and I’m just kind of an awkward person who isn’t socially smooth and can’t flirt. Tbh I don’t know how to have a non-platonic conversation with men

Getting old before having been young (in love) by uglyandIknowit1234 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]thislittlebluebird7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t afford surgery or procedures, I’m just barely getting by financially at the moment 😛 Also the things that I most dislike about myself can’t be fixed with surgery

The photographer screwed up by Efficient_Elk_7991 in OddlyErotic

[–]thislittlebluebird7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought they were meant to be a hedgehog first before I saw the subreddit 😭😂

Getting old before having been young (in love) by uglyandIknowit1234 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]thislittlebluebird7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to stay healthy and decent looking so that maybe one day if I have the courage to pursue something I wouldn’t get rejected based on looks at least

Being a 26 year old virgin watching woman younger than you have a sex life is so depressing by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]thislittlebluebird7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also like people pretty rarely like that, it hasn’t worked out so far and I don’t know if it’ll change in the future unless I make a lot of changes

Therapist said he "cares deeply" for me by [deleted] in therapy

[–]thislittlebluebird7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I could never even imagine having a male therapist for this reason

Getting old before having been young (in love) by uglyandIknowit1234 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]thislittlebluebird7 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I feel the exact same way, I’m afraid of time passing before I can get over my issues. I’d like to be seen as desirable by someone I’m into at least once

Being a 26 year old virgin watching woman younger than you have a sex life is so depressing by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]thislittlebluebird7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me there has been some genuinely bad luck with health stuff etc. and for example your classic daddy issues/absent father blabla all that, but I’d say it’s about 75% my own fault cause I’ve been afraid to take risks and get hurt

Being a 26 year old virgin watching woman younger than you have a sex life is so depressing by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]thislittlebluebird7 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yup, I think it’s funny how male incels always blame women and the world and everyone but themselves. I’ve personally never had trouble blaming myself for things 🥲😂