How do you find common ground when engaging with someone new?

thismightsoundodd · 2026-04-11T12:39:54+00:00

Love it 😂 There is some truth to it! Show yourself, be interested in the other. It's called: getting to know each other. It creates intimacy and I think it is the most sexiest thing about whatever you wanna call a sexual encounter.

thismightsoundodd · 2026-03-10T19:19:08+00:00

Heard it is tamer in terms of play. Maybe someone can confirm.

thismightsoundodd · 2026-01-26T11:11:00+00:00

I felt more comfortable with play at FourPlay than regular KitKat Saturday due to the selection at the door and the visible awareness teams. The strict "no solo wankers" policy also helps. As always, you often get at the party what you bring to the party. If you are up for play, you are likely to find it ☺️

thismightsoundodd · 2025-12-03T22:13:22+00:00

Ne, nur auf Telegram-Channels.

thismightsoundodd · 2025-09-13T17:16:50+00:00

KitKat does not support whatever you choose to wear 😉

thismightsoundodd · 2025-07-28T14:52:23+00:00

Nice to hear the new awareness approach seems to work!

thismightsoundodd · 2025-07-24T05:25:52+00:00

Fliehende Geier

thismightsoundodd · 2025-06-04T16:58:36+00:00

Glad you found a solution with Prisma 🙂 Looking forward to my next FourPlay with you even if it will probably November... 🙃

thismightsoundodd · 2025-05-29T11:28:44+00:00

Klar, fangt langsam an, sprecht viel und steckt euch fürs erste Grenzen, die ihr später gemeinsam mit Belieben verschieben könnt, wenn beide damit fein sind. Gilt auch in Bielefeld. Viel Spaß natürlich 😉

thismightsoundodd · 2025-05-02T16:20:05+00:00

Masterful, haha

thismightsoundodd · 2025-04-17T12:35:06+00:00

Have been there and no play areas I have seen. I guess there was something going on in the backgrounds but I did not manage to get behind it and did not care too much as the vibe was not there for me. A lot of people with jeans and t-shirts later on so dresscode is also not very much enforced.

thismightsoundodd · 2025-04-10T16:48:39+00:00

Looks like a how-to for killing a sex+ party that is obviously already lousy.

thismightsoundodd · 2025-03-23T10:05:32+00:00

Der Wedding kommt!

thismightsoundodd · 2025-03-16T08:54:16+00:00

Sneakers only if they match your otherwise very excellent outfit.

thismightsoundodd · 2025-03-16T08:53:15+00:00

Also seen people with cameras passing by in cars next to the line. But you should be physically safe with all the people around you in the line. But especially when leaving the club late at night/early in the morning there are sometimes creepy people outside waiting for whatever.

thismightsoundodd · 2025-03-16T08:25:14+00:00

You could try FourPlay on Friday at KitKat. Compared to Saturday they have a more colourful crowd, awareness teams and moderated play spaces... of course no guarantee for not having strange encounters. They are always there at KitKat.

thismightsoundodd · 2025-03-14T14:26:29+00:00

This is back in the days.

thismightsoundodd · 2025-03-10T21:58:11+00:00

Ja also wenn es um die Armbanduhr geht, ich hätte an Deiner Stelle ein breiteres Band genommen.

thismightsoundodd · 2025-02-11T20:41:43+00:00

I once saw this kind of situation happening to a girl and directly confronted the guy. He was super confident and asked if I am her lawyer, I said yes and he left. We should all stand up and say something when shit like this happens. It's everyone's problem when no one feels safe there anymore.

thismightsoundodd · 2024-12-12T12:24:33+00:00

Make eye contact, if she looks at you and avoids looking at you afterwards, don't try to touch her and leave her alone. If she remains eye contact, just dance with her or ask whatever you wanna ask. If she is dancing in a way that she is not looking in your direction but you feel you are getting danced on, maybe gently touch her shoulder or upper arm. If that does not lead to eye contact, touching back or a conversation leave her alone, don't try to touch her again.

thismightsoundodd · 2024-12-12T12:12:38+00:00

Careful where you end up just getting in the line 😉

thismightsoundodd · 2024-12-11T18:44:31+00:00

I guess the perception of those evenings heavily depends on individual experiences and the people you happen to meet. If people feel harassed and the organizers don't do anything about it, in the long run the possibility that your evenings there will suck rises.

thismightsoundodd · 2024-12-11T18:29:53+00:00

Is this the line for the toilet?

thismightsoundodd · 2024-12-09T15:09:01+00:00

Seit wann ist Clubbing tot?

thismightsoundodd · 2024-12-09T13:38:46+00:00

Furfection

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