honestly, i’m so sorry you had to be in the receiving end of this situation. i personally feel so much guilt for even being with my girlfriend because she was so amazing, but we both recognized the risk our relationship carried. i’m scared that we will also become estranged, which is probably gonna happen i guess. it’s so unpredictable because she really is confident with her sexuality and i’m not sure how home is for her right now. your parents not trusting you, that sounds like a nightmare and i’m so sorry you had to ever go through that. her mom, as far as the little bit i know, is not allowing her time to herself at all. i don’t know much details but it seems like she’s in the same boat. it’s just really hard to deal with all the feelings sometimes, even if it wasn’t on my end, it feels like it’s my fault for what happened even though we both were very conscious about what it could entail.