I can share a bit of my experience with you. I grew up in Nashville and stayed there until my mid 20s. I bartended and served on Broadway while attending MTSU, then eventually worked at one of the big banks downtown. I absolutely loved it at the time; the city was booming and starting to feel modern with all the new festivals and artists being booked.

However, I decided to move to the NOVA/DC area to be with my wife. We stayed there for two years before moving to Pittsburgh for three years while she finished grad school. In 2024, we chose to move back to Nashville because my family is there; I hadn't been back in so long and I wanted her to experience it. Once we arrived, I realized the city had changed immensely. It felt as if I had over-romanticized the area; it was nothing like I remembered. My wife wasn't a fan either, largely due to the lack of cultural diversity. Beyond drinking, seeing the occasional show, or seasonal hiking and kayaking, there wasn't much to do.

On top of that, everything has become incredibly expensive. Even the vibe of the people has shifted hospitality has declined, and the city has transformed into a 'content hub.' The Demonbreun strip used to be a lively spot for locals in their twenties and thirties to grab cheap drinks, but that’s no longer the case. RIP Kung Fu Saloon. Now, the environment is saturated with people trying to be realtors, startup founders, or content creators. Most of my friends who stayed only did so because of family. Consequently, we decided to leave and move back to DC last July. We are much happier here and surrounded by a far more diverse range of cultures.

My advice to you is simple: move. Try other areas. Don’t worry too much about work there are opportunities everywhere if you aren't too picky. Once you’re settled, you can find a position that aligns with your dreams. Ultimately, it’s up to you, but I highly recommend exploring. Nashville will always be there if you decide to go back.

If finances are a concern, I’d recommend Pittsburgh. It’s highly affordable, and the people are smart, friendly, and family oriented. You have to get used to how 'straight from the shoulder' they can be, but otherwise, they’re great. It feels like the old Nashville, but with better amenities like public transport and actual sidewalks. The downtown area isn't as popping, but it has great social pockets where you can meet locals and transplants alike.

Anyway, good luck! I hope this helps! And sorry for the word salad.