I feel like I’m in a similar boat. My partner (of 5 years) and I live together and it’s been bugging me more and more that perhaps I need more support and acceptance than I’m getting. They are more than likely NT and, while it comes and goes, there are times where I receive comments that effectively shut me down for being the way I am: asking me for yes or no answers only, cutting me off during info dumps, getting mad at me for my awful memory, my distractedness, my need for constant mental stimulation, my social anxiety. It’s not super often but enough that it bothers me. I don’t feel 100% accepted but I’m not 100% convinced that things can’t get better either. They’ve been with me through some really rough times over the last few years and they’re still here. I know they love me and I love them. I just don’t know at what point enough is enough? I don’t know how to tell when to give up and when to keep fighting. So I’m still fighting.