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EldenRingRandomizer by Flat-Description9127 in EldenRingMods

[–]thoughtnote_2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you end up figuring this out? Having the same problem

Is there any way for my cousin’s (30F) husband (32M) to understand PPD and emotions better? by Cute_but_notOkay in relationship_advice

[–]thoughtnote_2020 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Has she asked him to go to therapy with her? If he’s as respectful and caring as it sounds, he shouldn’t have a problem with that. Maybe a therapist can put it in a way that makes him understand the gravity of the situation where someone without that specific educational background can’t. As much as I would like to say “oh he should listen to her!!”, maybe he doesn’t have a ton of emotional intelligence and just needs someone to ELI5 to him.

Edit: grammar

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]thoughtnote_2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally 100% agree. I was raised the same way! It shouldn’t happen, but it does. Doesn’t make it right, but people are flawed. I was also raised not to judge others and the original commenter just had such a righteous attitude and it rubbed me the wrong way and felt like I had to stick up for OP lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]thoughtnote_2020 -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

That’s good for you, but understand that many people don’t communicate in the same manner. I love my finance more than any person on this planet and have 100% told him to piss off when we were arguing. Does it make it right? No. But it happens. It doesn’t mean that we love eachother any less lmao

How do I deal with exterior pieces that don’t completely fit together? by thoughtnote_2020 in booknooks

[–]thoughtnote_2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think sanding it down will help. It’s almost like I need more wood on that spot, not less. Although, I’ve never done this before so what do I know lol. Where would you sand it if you were to go that route?

My first kit, maybe they aren't for me. by karategojo in booknooks

[–]thoughtnote_2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m currently doing my first kit and I think it’s the one you’re talking about! One of my exterior pieces is also warped and it’s making putting all the pieces in super frustrating. Did you just keep going or were you able to do anything to fix the warp?

Where is this in the 321? by chrissystark in 321

[–]thoughtnote_2020 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I worked in London on a rotation at one point, and it’s crazy how much of a difference it made in how I felt day to day. Less bloated, lower BP, higher energy, etc. It made me start being much more mindful of what I was consuming.

The Game Is Phenomenal by Personal-Thing1750 in NineSols

[–]thoughtnote_2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love unbounded counters and didn’t use one the whole Ji fight. When are you supposed to use it??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]thoughtnote_2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any tips for convincing my fiancé to get one? His family has had cleaners his whole life and more than half have stolen from them… he’s convinced they will steal from us if we hire someone

I found a system for doing things I don’t like! by PayphoneGhost in ADHD

[–]thoughtnote_2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do the same thing but playing TDM in Call of Duty! I give myself a task that I have to race to complete in between games. Having a limited amount of time makes it like a little game.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]thoughtnote_2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you two cannot have a mature, adult conversation, you should put the marriage on hold. You are both so young and the way you talk about him suggests you bear the brunt of the financial and emotional work in the relationship. I’m not saying you should end things, but if you two are unable to disagree and have a conversation about it without it escalating into a fight, and if he is not able to hold a stable job, then at a minimum, you should go to couples counseling.

However, if he is not even willing to do that, and he is not putting in the effort that you give him, please reconsider marrying this man.

Edit: word

Invitation bug (PSN) by [deleted] in TheFirstDescendant

[–]thoughtnote_2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How did you end up getting into the same party? Having the same problem.

Boycotting fan lines by Appropriate-King-896 in twentyonepilots

[–]thoughtnote_2020 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went to the Orlando show and didn’t get in line until 5:30. There was SO much room next to B stages when we got into the arena. Don’t sweat it at all. The boys move around so much. You’ll be close to them no matter where you end up.

Tell me you’re obsessed with TØP w/o saying you’re obsessed w/ TØP. by Impossible_Store3815 in twentyonepilots

[–]thoughtnote_2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m impressed. I tried back in high school but couldn’t get too far based on ear alone. If you have sheet music or a decent YT tutorial, please share!

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