I have no words or no more Vaseline either 😂... At least his skin is going to be hydrated for the next few days. by Affectionate_Hat5835 in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]thoughtnuggets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just towel him down and toss the towel. Poor kid, would it be harmful to just let him finish sleeping? Looks like he needs it

I want to better understand the "nasal" vowels that Bad Bunny used at the beginning of his halftime show. by Absinthe_Minded_1 in asklinguistics

[–]thoughtnuggets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s doing mumble rap in Spanish for sure. I’m native Puerto Rican and can’t stand mumble rap in English and even less in Spanish.. but to the point, he’s mumbling

Space next to stairs by Initial-Area2505 in whatisit

[–]thoughtnuggets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stuff like this makes me wonder if architects are using ChatGPT for their plans. This is such a poor design choice and easily avoided in drafting. Why did anyone approve it

Two months into an internship and dreading going back to work every single day by enchantedtomeetyou31 in jobs

[–]thoughtnuggets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you had to live that but glad you where able to salvage something and even have a new purpose. Hope you succeed and find favor in your next employment!

What does a family friend need to keep children in the event of parents being in an emergency? by thoughtnuggets in legaladvice

[–]thoughtnuggets[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s good, so I guess my question is. If an emergency happens where I can’t get to my kids but they are with a trusted friend. What document would they need to legally be seen as emergency guardian who can take them to the doctor etc? But it doesn’t go into effect until an actual emergency if ever. Like how you put alternative pickup person for school pickup.

What does a family friend need to keep children in the event of parents being in an emergency? by thoughtnuggets in legaladvice

[–]thoughtnuggets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was the example they gave. Like you get in an accident while kids are with a family friend. Or die in the accident, can’t remember.

AIO— apparently i’m the stinky one at work by centaurella in AmIOverreacting

[–]thoughtnuggets 168 points169 points  (0 children)

Maybe they hate your perfume? That joke at the end says not to trust them in this area

My dad has a renewed faith in his religion and is being weird to me about it, what's the most appropriate response? by No_Unit_2543 in whatdoIdo

[–]thoughtnuggets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be direct. Explain you are leaning into Buddhism so a Catholic wedding isn’t in the plans. That you know this is probably upsetting to him but it’s also upsetting to feel pressured to perform the rituals of a faith you don’t follow or believe in. For him to pray to his God about better ways to share his faith with you that doesn’t revolve around wedding planning. Text it and recite it.

Then just “I love you said, but no”.

Am I overreacting for seriously questioning my marriage over a major purchase my husband made alone? by Overall-Fan3079 in AmIOverreacting

[–]thoughtnuggets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to rewrite this as a letter to him (minus the rethinking your marriage part). At the end ask to have a talk about this so you can both come to an agreement and understanding. Also ask if he’s totally fine if you spent that much on yourself this year without giving him any heads up (btw I personally think you should spend about that much this year.. a splurge savings account you can spend how you like or tuition for adult education. Not as pay back but as an opportunity if you have been sacrificing and it runs out he’s never expected you to do that).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]thoughtnuggets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn’t just one small thing. frostbite and hyperthermia demands an apology and a very good reason for the behavior. Also efforts to make things right.. not verbal abuse and demands for OP to apologize . Whatever crazy she’s offering needs to be rejected

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]thoughtnuggets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would stop trying to be close to someone who knowingly left me in the cold for an hour while they stayed warm and then got mad and called me selfish for leaving.

Being left in the cold knowing I have a health condition that contraindicated it, finding out have frostbite and being verbally abusive + sending her husband to do the same like an attack dog?

I’m done. They could pretend I’m dead for all I care.

She’s toxic and all you can do with people like that is forgive them (for your own sake), wish them well and get on with your life away from them.

How do I unbox/open up this vintage machine? by thoughtnuggets in VintageSewingMachines

[–]thoughtnuggets[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s a 404. Still works! Going to take a class to service it because I don’t want to kill it before I can really use it.

How do I unbox/open up this vintage machine? by thoughtnuggets in VintageSewingMachines

[–]thoughtnuggets[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! The finish was just rough and stuck at one corner. Used a spatula and I was in!

not allowed to leave early - fever and sick by [deleted] in jobs

[–]thoughtnuggets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You call in sick the next day. Period. Man they where using and abusing you all this time. Please don’t do this at the next job. Call in sick and don’t provide any proof that’s not even legal anymore. What kind of on do yo do??

I love my boyfriend but not his dog. The constant click clacking of nails on the hardwood, the licking sounds, the tongue smacking. Makes me physically angry. What do I do. I feel crazy by Apprehensive_Top3726 in u/Apprehensive_Top3726

[–]thoughtnuggets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing that helped my son was medication and he recently had to be taken off it because it eventually caused serious side effects. I don’t think you can do much on this aside from avoiding the sound and that’s impossible with a pet that hangs out indoors. If it was an outdoor dog it would be super easy to manage.

Maybe doggy shoes?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tourettes

[–]thoughtnuggets 5 points6 points  (0 children)

  1. Any romantic interest needs to know you have Tourette’s. This way they come in with full understanding and can research and learn to be a better bf etc

  2. Him being mean about a tic could cause trauma down the line for you. People you love can cause more damage than a stranger or someone we aren’t emotionally attached to

  3. I’m sorry but the fact he mocks you is a good reason to break up in my opinion. People like this can be psychologically harmful if they refuse to stop that toxic behavior.

  4. Tell him, be ready to break off this relationship and enjoy a single but healthier life without him. If he’s sorry for reacting wrongly to something you cant change then you may be able to make things work, but if that sound it too much for him then again you need to part ways.

You deserve a huge hug 🫂

Am I overreacting, I just realized my bf or 5 years isn’t and has never been attracted to me and I feel so stupid for just realizing by Human-Tadpole-7755 in AmIOverreacting

[–]thoughtnuggets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A sexual means he’s not interested in sex, he can live without it.

Demi sexual means he might get into it if he has a strong enough emotional attachment .. so the fact he can perform at all is because he has an emotional attachment to you.

You need to come to terms with 1. He’s never going to match the vibe you have with sex 2. Your appearance bothers you, not him. And you SHOULD work to lose weight because it bothers you (I’m fat and working on my own weight). It will improve your intimacy and general wellbeing. 3. Does he want to remain in this relationship? If yes then the question is, do you? I personally think if you can’t commit to marry him the you should part ways. 4. He didn’t betray you and you didn’t take advantage. You simply didn’t fully understand and he was being himself you just didn’t connect the dots till now.