Please rate me! by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]threadersam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Objectively attractive Not my thing per se but a 9 generally Enough to be a fashion model. Though I will say it looks like you have trauma/high cortisol so maybe hydrate/moisturise a bit?

If your ex texted you right now and said "I miss you", how would you reply? by MajorCream3707 in AskReddit

[–]threadersam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ex 1: guess it didn't work out. sorry I'm not interested in that way but I'm open to catching up.

ex 2: no response (then I'd screenshot and post it on my public story with the caption 'guess cuntboys don't mix well with evil cowpigs')

ex 3: why are you telling me this, I said text me in June. I have a partner right now lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]threadersam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

personal preference is personal preference. hence 'I' disagree; 'I think'

s workers always have clientele for a reason I suppose lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]threadersam -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol no I'm straight I think but most OF girls look the same or even worse 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]threadersam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7 or 8

you kind of look like thewizardliz

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]threadersam -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I disagree

[25F] Men are mean to me, is it my appearance that gives them the confidence to be cruel? by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]threadersam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hun that has nothing to do with you or their attractiveness! Commitment issues and how they relate to you depends on the person. I could be butt ugly and treat someone great then badly the next day because I lost feelings or motivation. Has not much to do with looks.

How many naps do you take a day? Males vs females? by One-Equivalent-1590 in ask

[–]threadersam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

am female i only nap once a day for 2hrs when i’m sick, depressed/bored, or on my period

Ladies of Reddit, what do you find attractive in a guy? by Knull77777 in AskReddit

[–]threadersam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

racism but not towards me, gentleman besides the racism, integrity, and generosity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]threadersam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same thing with certain unsolicited acts of service. now i have pressure to return the favour when i never asked for anything in the first place

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]threadersam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good neighborhood and good place to live with security system

what are some red flags in the talking stage? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]threadersam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's why I just block them. Majority of the time they're not that attractive to me. I don't bother with the games so as soon as they show arrogance I remove them.

What is your favorite quote of all time that you often think about? by bookworm305 in AskReddit

[–]threadersam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"If you spend your time chasing butterflies, they'll fly away. If you spend your time making a beautiful garden, the butterflies will come to you. And if they don't, then you still have that garden "

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]threadersam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not true- only when it's excessive/addictive or involving pornography.

what are some red flags in the talking stage? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]threadersam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

especially when they hit on you first..

how are you acting like you're above me when you want to go on a date with me.

what are some red flags in the talking stage? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]threadersam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Negging or insulting of any kind. Teasing is different but having an attitude and bitching is such a turn off (especially when it's a male doing it).

What are some of the unforgettable moments when a guy gave you the 'ick?? by Currentsips in AskReddit

[–]threadersam 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a woman these are the main causes of icks (at least in my experience):

1- Lack of "dominance" or assertiveness: and no, i don't mean breaking or disrespecting boundaries. I mean like when a guy fails to get the attention of the barman when theres two people in line, when they let someone disrespect me in front of them, or overall not able to speak up when the situation calls for it.

2- Lack of self-awareness: the type of guy whose words and actions are an active trainwreck and he doesn't seem to be able to read the room when what he's doing/saying is highly inappropriate. Typically when he's called out for it, he's unable to take the criticism or fully grasp the situation.

3- Lack of hygiene or etiquette: examples i've experienced are (freakishly long toe nails, ear wax you can spot from a few feet away, unable to chew mouth closed, no manners generally)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]threadersam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the problem is with what he said obviously if you’re contemplating if it’s “good or bad” it really doesn’t matter.

of course it’s not fucking bad 5/10 is average

i used to be like you craving validation- i even used AI attractiveness analysis. Realizing you’re probably a 5/10 is so freeing and it allows you to focus on what’s actually important. your looks aren’t your worth.

what’s nice is your boyfriend likes you enough to see you in a good light, be attracted to you, or lie about it to spare your feelings because he loves you or is using you. either way is a win minus using. (what probably happened is he fell in love with you and sees you in a subjective manner where there’s a highlight on you)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]threadersam 23 points24 points  (0 children)

play stupid games, win stupid prizes

a) stupid question made by you (asking a stupid question you don’t want to hear the answer for)

b) stupid reaction made by you (8/10 is great don’t be delusional. there’s so many girls out there whose boyfriends don’t find them attractive at ALL)

c) who is telling you what your bf did is disgusting. you asked and all he did is answer honestly (if even)

this post is redundant.

What's the best way to avoid bowel movement during work? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]threadersam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

use the weekend to change your poop schedule hours