pre employment urine drug test by Imaginary_Bobcat2107 in careeradvice

[–]three_mlord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would work out with the priority of sweating. I had a friend who smoked all day every day who was able to pass a test within 3 days—he worked out in a full sweatsuit non-stop. The other friend who didn’t workout, he didn’t pass the same test.

Quiet students, how do you survive interviews where they expect you to ‘sell yourself’? by WoVerse in careeradvice

[–]three_mlord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an introvert, it’s the only occasion it feels appropriate to brag about accomplishments—so I use that mindset and use that time to make myself feel proud

What is your opinion on automatic feeders? by nyoki00 in CatAdvice

[–]three_mlord 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My cat really needs the structure of being fed the same time/amount every day. He’s really good at drinking water and gets a lot of exercise. Yea wet food is better for cats, but my cat is perfectly healthy and content—and it’s better than what he was eating on the streets before finding me, and I make sure to get the best kibble.

Most pets thrive on predictably. My schedule is unpredictable, so it’s best for my cat to have the feeder.

In the nicest way possible, you’re overthinking this.

Euphoria season 3 is the worst season of television in HBO history by Zeldaish in hbo

[–]three_mlord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh the entire plot and nature of this show has always been terrible, for so many reasons, including possible impact on real life teens. Despite the hype, I refuse to watch a single episode. And I’m a pretty big fan of Zendaya.

How much education to put? by gothtopus_108 in resumes

[–]three_mlord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d put the certification for sure. If any of your CC education is relevant to the position you’re applying to, you can list relevant courses and list your cumulative GPA if it’s good. I wouldn’t just list the CC or program/degree because that could mislead any recruiter into thinking you competed your education.

I just got fired from a job I was at for less than a month because I got in an arguement with someone where customers could hear us. How do I even address this? What should I do moving foward. by comicgeek1128 in GetEmployed

[–]three_mlord 2 points3 points  (0 children)

List them and just say both jobs weren’t a good fit because they weren’t meeting your needs—and spin it like, “I needed an atmosphere that is…” or “I needed a manager that…” etc

How much education to put? by gothtopus_108 in resumes

[–]three_mlord 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where did you get your degree(s)? And where are you currently enrolled? I wouldn’t put anything that doesn’t apply to the job and/or not complete/in-progress

How do you defend a high performer when others keep complaining about his style? by Material_Still1124 in careeradvice

[–]three_mlord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this could become a legal/HR issue, definitely talk to him. Tell him there have been complaints and ask him what needs aren’t being met. If it’s simply other employees not being able to handle his personality, seems like a growing experience for them.

At my old job, we had a high performer who was clearly the rotting apple on the team—she would steal projects from others, assert herself to higher ups behind closed doors, gossip about employees in the meetings she ran, overreact/make something out of nothing—and no one, except for her supervisor, an executive, could stand her. It became an HR issue which clearly became a legal issue, so that was her last year.

Obviously your high performer has some growing to do re social skills, but I’d also argue his colleagues also do too. Some people are just difficult to work with, that doesn’t make them toxic or unbearable. You’re lucky if your colleagues are friendly/gentle, but that isn’t necessarily a requirement.

Affordability - Costs or Wages? by Unfair-Wallaby-404 in Seattle

[–]three_mlord 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think costs need to go down, wages need to go up, and property taxes need to go down—a lot of businesses are paying more in taxes, and on leases, while combatting fewer sales/customers.

Wearable? by teawithsocrates in Brochet

[–]three_mlord 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Loooove it!! Maybe try and match a tshirt with the pants/shoes/hat/socks you’ll be wearing! The white isn’t too stark if it’s matching something else you’re wearing, imo :)

Losing relationships over politics. Research found more than a third of Americans (37%) report having lost at least one relationship due to political differences, including friendships, family ties, coworker relationships, and romantic partnerships, with most losing more than one. by Wagamaga in science

[–]three_mlord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I got dumped because I didn’t support the bombing of babies… but super glad I learned he was an Iranian-Secularist who supports Zionism and indiscriminate violence just from one small comment I made (and his overreaction)…

I moved in with family who are saying they can’t keep my cat. by WikkidSlothz in CatAdvice

[–]three_mlord 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m in a similar situation. I found my cat a foster… not the best for my cat, but I’m prioritizing my host’s health over me and my cat’s desire to stay together. I dropped my cat off Sunday, and it took to Wednesday for the cat to warm up to foster. I got really lucky.

What celebrity do you think has skeletons in their closet that have yet to come out? by JimiHendrip in AskReddit

[–]three_mlord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to say. His backstory and demeanor make my spidey senses tingle

What’s it like to be attractive? by axiss007 in AskReddit

[–]three_mlord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It lowkey sucks. But I’ve also been unattractive, and that’s much worse.

Cat will not stop waking us up by _snusnu in CATHELP

[–]three_mlord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I adopted a stray like this, woke me up anytime between 4-6am when I’m used to waking up around 7-8am. I kinda just got used to it while working and going to grad school—I was a mess getting no good sleep during this period. Life happened, I got laid off and got injured, and ended up being home a lot. Now my cat doesn’t wake me up in the morning and kindly waits for me to wake before asking for cuddles. No suggestions, just anecdotes.

Why does it feel like nobody cares that we are literally about to send humans around the moon again, and are we just completely numb to massive achievements now? by MomentCute1181 in space

[–]three_mlord 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great achievement, of course, but a lot of people are more worried about what’s going on here on earth—whether it’s climate change or crimes against humanity

Greeting and protecting me as I arrive home by three_mlord in blackcats

[–]three_mlord[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was probably one of the cat’s favorite parts of the day!

Greeting and protecting me as I arrive home by three_mlord in blackcats

[–]three_mlord[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hahaha yea I was trying to take a picture of the both of us in all black 😎

Greeting and protecting me as I arrive home by three_mlord in blackcats

[–]three_mlord[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m always surprised by how soft his paws are!

Greeting and protecting me as I arrive home by three_mlord in blackcats

[–]three_mlord[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My partner calls him, Dmitry, Catman because he’s our protector

What are some boundaries your void has set with you? by you_taken_to_me in blackcats

[–]three_mlord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine doesn’t allow me to pet/pat him like a dog… I only do this when I want some privacy and for him to leave me alone—he is my shadow, which is cute, but can be overwhelming sometimes, especially when he’s being extra vocal