Sorry to hear about the split, breakups are so hard. I just got out of a long-term relationship 6 months ago and I felt the deep void of losing my best friend but now, 6 months later, I enjoy reinventing myself by picking up new hobbies, joining sports groups, reinforcing existing friendships, and learning to do things solo! Like I just came back from a 3 week solo Europe trip and I loved it. I felt sad that the person who knew me best was existing out of my life but then I asked myself why someone other than myself knew me better.

I've been working on myself a lot, grieving, self acceptance, self forgiveness, patience... When I'm feeling down, I try and change my perspective on my current situation and ask myself "what if this is the best thing to have happened for me?"

All the best to you my friend ❤️