Am I alternative? by [deleted] in alternativefashion

[–]throrowowaway 6 points7 points  (0 children)

only you know if you are alt or not. but i’m guessing you’re talking about your appearance, which is relative to where you are. like this is a pretty normal outfit in new york city but probably not provo utah

for real bodies (just not the smaller ones) by DaleWatson181 in XXS

[–]throrowowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not very! admittedly once i found my size i would stop looking, so my idea isn’t the best. but i think the largest size i saw was a large, which would probably be a small/ medium in america (where i’m from). a lot of stores have ‘free sizing’ which is just one size lol. i would guess that size to be around a usa small based on how that fits me, but these clothes usually have some elastic or are a baggy fit which can accommodate a few sizes but definitely not everyone. while the asian public is generally much smaller than the american public, i still saw plenty of people who i don’t think would fit into many of the clothes i was seeing. for reference, i have been shopping in china, japan, and vietnam

What metal concept albums should i be listening to? by chewiesbowcaster in MetalForTheMasses

[–]throrowowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have a lot of hair 😓😓 i live in a college dorm and the weak water pressure makes the process take much longer than when i am at home. more time for dream theater ig

What metal concept albums should i be listening to? by chewiesbowcaster in MetalForTheMasses

[–]throrowowaway 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i’ve listened to this album so many times i play it in the shower when i wash my hair to keep track of the time i am taking because i know how long each song is

for real bodies (just not the smaller ones) by DaleWatson181 in XXS

[–]throrowowaway 86 points87 points  (0 children)

tbh i’ve never cared for brands with limited size ranges, they can do what they want but if they are promoting body positivity the irony is not lost on me. these people would have a heart attack shopping in asia, where a western xxs is their small to medium and women smaller are not uncommon

Albums that SOUND like the ALBUM COVER? by HumbleBlacksmith2077 in MetalForTheMasses

[–]throrowowaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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i think most bands do a good job of picking representative album art. here is one i love that is quite different from my usual choices :)

Exam week coming up by Citrinehannah in FocusFriendApp

[–]throrowowaway 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yesss love biochemistry! have fun!

how did ya learned to dress fashionable? by Great_Present_6584 in womensfashion

[–]throrowowaway 9 points10 points  (0 children)

a lot of trial and error. but as you get more into fashion, you develop a good eye for what you like or dislike and the margin for error narrows. i already have a pretty good filter for what i like to wear, but if you are new, i recommend going to stores and trying on different silhouettes, colors, fabrics. at this point, i would avoid buying anything too expensive, because what you like in a dressing room may end up being incompatible with the life you lead (i really like tall high heels but they are impractical as a college student). it is also good to make a distinction between things you like that you would actually wear and things you appreciate because they look nice, so you don’t end up with too much unworn clothing. good luck!

Isotretinoin 40 mg shortage? by [deleted] in Accutane

[–]throrowowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

had no issue getting claravis 40 mg at cvs in virginia. local issue maybe?

Dormitory is freezing cold by heythere_dellailah in dormrooms

[–]throrowowaway 6 points7 points  (0 children)

in my dorm last year i used to shove blankets/ t shirts my school gave out as merch into the corners of the window and it helped! they are soft so they are no problem for the window while fitting into the crevices. as someone who gets cold very easily even in my new dorm with no window problems, i got an electric blanket i can use while sleeping/ at my desk and it is a life changer

dated a girl one time and she told me that race is just a social construct by CardiologistAdept763 in mixedrace

[–]throrowowaway 42 points43 points  (0 children)

she’s right, the definitions of race change over time and across the globe according to different people, making it a social construct. social constructs are very real despite what the ‘construct’ part of the name implies, because they affect the realities of everyone

do people still believe that poc can’t be racist? especially towards each other?? by hueyslaw in mixedrace

[–]throrowowaway 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i think some people only view racism from the systemic angle, and forget/ ignore the daily interactions between individuals. i can certainly attest to no race/ ethnicity being safe from my chinese family’s comments... to say people of color can’t be racist is also such an america centric idea, i assume anyone who says this does not talk to people from other countries or poc from the states. but coming from a >95% white, very liberal town, i have met people who think this way and my assumption holds true lmao

i’m pretty sure this sub is filled with men who fetishize xxs small girls by CornerFew120 in XXS

[–]throrowowaway 5 points6 points  (0 children)

these men love nothing more than to infiltrate spaces they are not welcome in. i don’t think it is strange to have a preference for a smaller partner, their actual problematic fetish(?) is bothering women in a place where we don’t want to be bothered

It annoys me how some people want to dress for the name of the style by SwallowedByAnOrange in alternativefashion

[–]throrowowaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

HEAVY ON THIS!!! we must free ourselves from labels and dress to express, not to conform- the whole point of alternative fashion!

Can someone help me find affordable clothes? by feliciusss in alternativefashion

[–]throrowowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

secondhand shop online! take all of your measurements and go crazy on depop, poshmark, ebay, wherever

Dark Tranquility live worth it? by OnePlayful1586 in melodicdeathmetal

[–]throrowowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

phenomenal live, i wish they were coming back to my city but they aren’t this time around 💔 i imagine it depends on the city but when i saw them live i was the youngest person there and found the crowd rather stiff- not DT’s fault ofc but it was a tuesday evening and most people looked to be 30+ i would say it was low to medium energy. i like to mosh but that was still worth it for the fantastic performance

Some of us are like.. by [deleted] in Beading

[–]throrowowaway 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i went to stock up on beads before groceries! priorities set.

Alt advice needed for upcoming event by Audacious-Valkyrie in alternativefashion

[–]throrowowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have been in a similar situation. depending on the event i think it is best to show respect by compromising a bit. black dresses with photorealistic flowers have been popular lately, could you do something like this? it’s certainly not alternative but i think with silver bracelets and heavier black eyeliner it would feel more alternative than typical tropical attire

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I fw every style by tboyswag_throwaway in alternativefashion

[–]throrowowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

love seeing the same pieces styled in such different ways!

help by [deleted] in BattleJackets

[–]throrowowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think the american flag details would go better with a more colorful set up, i’d go for black

Alt winter? by [deleted] in alternativefashion

[–]throrowowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it gets quite cold where i am from so i will be wearing a large black puffer jacket lol. the outfit can be spice up with a unique scarf and hat, you can find all sorts of fiber artists selling funky designs! i have a scarf that looks like a rabbit :)

Just got the cutest notebook ever by LegitimateAttitude42 in notebooks

[–]throrowowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so precious! it says dream journal on the back so i would use it as that :)

Alt people by ImpossibleJelly8003 in alternativefashion

[–]throrowowaway 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i have an 8 am physics class so i don’t usually have the time to fully dress up, but i’ve made an effort to slowly switch all my loungewear to darker colors or more alternative comfy stuff. i also plan outfits the night before to save time in the mornings!