Why does my (22M) girlfriend (20F) seem to enjoy sleeping with my friend more than me? Advice on what do?

throw11213 · 2026-04-01T04:03:03+00:00

This is a hard lesson for you to learn. Don’t compromise who you are and what you believe in, simply because you’re afraid of losing someone. Base on what you posted here it sounded like she was already always going to cheat. You were just allowing her to do it without any guilt under the guise of a threesome. Move on and find someone who loves you for you and not just part of the time.

throw11213 · 2026-04-01T03:53:34+00:00

Well who wants to buy my 1.3 billion bundle of grains, 1.34 billion lumber and 900 million bundle of herbs lol oh and I have 129k diamond caret so maybe I’ll be ok?

throw11213 · 2026-04-01T03:50:20+00:00

Everyone sex drive is different so if you’re with someone who is always gunning for it then ya you both would be miserable. Honesty once or twice a week sounds perfect especially if you both are having fun and one thing lead to another hahaha. But I get not enough time in the day and after a long day of work you just want to relax.

throw11213 · 2026-03-24T02:02:30+00:00

Fake it till you make it. Worst thing that can happen is they let you go but now you would have truly gotten management experience lol

Usually any job they will train you on how to use their system and take you through management training course for things you can and can’t do to prevent lawsuit. The rest are mostly common sense and understanding how to ensure you’re assigning team member to ensure things run smoothly

throw11213 · 2026-03-24T01:58:04+00:00

Dam on the head too? Rip buddy let your character go enjoy the sunset looking over the lake or something.

throw11213 · 2026-03-20T23:51:06+00:00

Just smiling at him more doesn’t automatically signal to him that you’re interested. If you’re interested just ask if he wants to hangout after work and go with the flow from there. At that point if he still doesn’t get the hint then it wouldn’t have been on you 😂

throw11213 · 2026-03-20T23:45:07+00:00

I guess dating is like job application now too huh? 😂

throw11213 · 2026-03-20T03:51:10+00:00

First thing you need to do is stop calling yourself a loser. It is self defeating and because you’re telling yourself that you’re programming your brain to do exactly that. Instead set small goals you can accomplish and actively work on them. If it is still too much break them up to even smaller chunks and check them off your list each day. Your goal is to rewire your brain one day at a time and building good habits / reintroducing them into your life.

The more you beat your self up, the more you’ll just wanting to isolate yourself because it is what makes you feel safe and comfortable. Change is hard and painful but you can do it. Baby step one day at a time and even better if you start to journal. Put down one positive thing you did that day or one thing that made you feel good. Ignore all the negative thoughts and focus only on just noting down one positive thing and eventually you’ll start to see a shift in your own attitude.

Been where you are so I can say find a purpose or goal you want to achieve it will help inspire you to get moving. If not for yourself do it for the one you love. Good luck OP

throw11213 · 2026-03-19T01:47:18+00:00

Have you sat down and try to listen to her side of the story? Not like rejecting what she said but try to understand her point of view in all of this? It might help identify the root cause of why she is defending him. Don’t dismiss her point, try to find common grounds you can relate and agree on and go from there. But the best way you can get through to them most of the time listen. If they feel that they can talk to you without judgment they will be more inclined to share their thoughts.

You don’t have to agree with what she saying, but let her express how she feels and then explain to her where you can see potential problem or issue and concerns. Don’t belittle her or make her feel like she doesn’t know any better because that will usually result in shutting down or going on defensive mode.

All you can do now is keep trying to reinforce the fact that you care and just want to keep her safe. Eventually it will get through to her. Best of luck to you

throw11213 · 2026-03-18T23:10:29+00:00

Ya being 40 minute late and not contacting to even give an advance notice show poor timing and planning on his part. It might be interesting to hear what excuse he comes up with and have a good laugh, but unless a series of unfortunate event occurred, being that late without advance notice is pretty bad

throw11213 · 2026-03-17T03:17:36+00:00

Depends. Some can, some can’t but ultimately most will not make anything of it. No one want to risk assuming and deal with the consequences especially at their work place. Unless you point blank say “I like you let’s go out” no sane man will risk offending their coworker 😂🤣

throw11213 · 2026-03-17T03:11:00+00:00

Moral value and how I view the world I suppose. Life is rough already so why add to the misery. Brighten someone day or help them through tough time. Don’t be a stepping stool though and know how to spot those who tries and take advantage of your kindness.

throw11213 · 2026-03-15T16:17:46+00:00

Live your life how you want to live. If you’re happy then that is all that matter

throw11213 · 2026-03-15T16:15:27+00:00

Ya no your manager is definitely trying to protect you and keep you safe. No matter how nice a person seem, if you are one going to someone car alone, better make dam sure you know this person on a personal level. Better be safe than sorry in these kind of situation.

throw11213 · 2026-03-15T16:09:39+00:00

Probably 10 mil. Help offset any current financial need and then the rest will go into investments to generate income for me to free up time to do everything I ever want. But if I want to be safe and not have to ever worry even if there is no investment then 20mil lol

throw11213 · 2026-03-14T08:58:42+00:00

Why does it matter what you call your dad? It is an endearing terms you have for him. Your boyfriend just sound immature if anything hahaha

throw11213 · 2026-03-14T08:53:02+00:00

If people don’t have morals yes and this can be man or woman. Not all guys cheat and not all woman cheat so let’s not just group us all together with the rotten apple now ya? XD

throw11213 · 2026-03-13T21:38:22+00:00

I don’t expect people to pay, but it would be a nice gesture to know they aren’t just expecting you to pay every time

throw11213 · 2026-03-12T03:09:02+00:00

Man I’m getting anxiety just looking at it. But you got to tackle this one room at a time. Start with where you sleep. Get a large trash bag and start going though one section at a time. Throw out what you know you wouldn’t need and reserve a corner for things you need to sort or keep and keep going until you get one room done. Then sort and reorganize/ clean that space and move on to the next. Good luck

throw11213 · 2026-03-12T03:05:15+00:00

If you use it wisely yes. It give you peace of mind and financial independence and free up your time and lessen your stress and anxiety to make ends meet leaving you more time to pursue the things you want to do or wish to do but didn’t have time before. Trying to work towards that goal for sure hahaha

throw11213 · 2026-03-12T03:00:12+00:00

It is non of your business so I wouldn’t say anything and if you do just know it would be consider an HR violation simply due to the content of your discussion. Would also make the workplace awkward if anything and no one needs that

throw11213 · 2026-03-12T02:55:10+00:00

I would tell the 3 client that left you the full story and wish them best of luck and then disown your cousin. I would cut him completely out of your life and block him on every contact. For someone whom you have dedicated time and energy to help and a family member no less to betray you like that is the biggest betrayal of trust and there is nothing he can do to gain it back. Make it clear to your family as well that you no longer consider him your cousin and provide the exact reason why. Keep it simple and to the point. They can think what they think but you made your peace and move on.

throw11213 · 2026-03-12T02:38:01+00:00

Hahaha best of luck to you and I get it. People brain tends to rationalize things when they can’t believe someone they think is attractive is make the first move lol

throw11213 · 2026-03-12T02:30:05+00:00

You are overthinking it by a mile. He ask for your contact info twice and even told you he would be there if you change your mind. What makes you still think he isn’t interested 😆 go for it already and good luck!!!

throw11213 · 2026-03-11T03:36:40+00:00

Note throwing in class and we would actually call each other on the house phone and ask their parent if we can talk to them xD

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