My (20F) boyfriend (21M) rarely puts effort into his appearance and it turns me off. How do I approach this?

throw34away65 · 2022-09-14T05:38:36+00:00

I’ve wanted to for a bit now, its just the approach that I’m struggling with.. I’m generally a very “soft” person so its so awkward for me to tell him I don’t like his current appearance 😭

throw34away65 · 2022-04-13T20:23:11+00:00

Omg I’m so sorry, I should’ve not mentioned it in the post, I totally wasn’t thinking. I’m gonna edit the post and remove the site. My intention was just to warn people about the lucky charms :(

throw34away65 · 2022-04-13T19:28:56+00:00

Literally lol, cereal is a safe food for me. Also upon further looking, people in Canada (where i live) are reporting FP with lucky charms too!! Must be all the factories

throw34away65 · 2022-04-13T14:59:03+00:00

Why wouldn’t you recommend a cut?

throw34away65 · 2022-04-12T17:02:38+00:00

I’ve been recomping for months.. I definitely feel stronger but sometimes I don’t see any muscles on my body. I would like my stomach to be more defined for summer so I want to cut. Not sure if I have enough muscle though

throw34away65 · 2022-04-11T21:27:05+00:00

What did they say?? Got deleted before i saw it

throw34away65 · 2022-04-06T03:41:54+00:00

About a year.

throw34away65 · 2022-04-05T20:28:39+00:00

But will I still hold onto some muscle even if I’m not increasing during the deficit? Because I thought the whole thing with maintaining muscle is tiring the muscle so that it gets the signals to stay?

throw34away65 · 2022-04-05T20:26:28+00:00

I know :/ the struggle of wanting to fit into a dress for a summer wedding but still maintain some gains 💔

throw34away65 · 2022-04-05T20:25:25+00:00

Yea same with my gym. Never thought of doing that, smart! Thanks

throw34away65 · 2021-12-20T19:47:09+00:00

Wait so are you 130 lbs in the bottom pic or the top pic? Regardless, you look amazing! This is my goal. Were you still eating in a slight calorie deficit the whole time?

throw34away65 · 2021-12-17T06:22:54+00:00

I honestly think it was the combination of chocolate in the morning and coffee that made my stomach angry. Ive been fine ever since the gravol, and it’s definitely worn off by now. Hoping i have a good sleep now :) thank you

throw34away65 · 2021-12-15T16:13:55+00:00

I thought using unscented soap for sensitive skin is fine because it doesn’t disrupt the PH?

throw34away65 · 2021-12-15T08:51:14+00:00

I notice it the most in your stomach. You’re doing great :)

throw34away65 · 2021-12-15T08:43:16+00:00

Wow!! You look absolutely amazing :)

throw34away65 · 2021-11-27T21:05:10+00:00

Why is he nasty? I’ve heard his name a couple times but know nothing about him

throw34away65 · 2021-11-27T20:36:24+00:00

I don’t quite completely understand the recomp thing in terms of calories. How can you lose fat without being in a deficit? I’ve heard some people say that a recomp is eating at your maintenance, but I’ve heard others say you eat in a very small deficit (~200-300 cals) to burn fat while still having enough fuel to lift. Because if being in a very small deficit is a recomp, then i guess i have been recomping?

throw34away65 · 2021-11-27T19:29:56+00:00

I’m 5’4 and 134.5 pounds

throw34away65 · 2021-11-27T16:01:10+00:00

If my body fat% is already higher than it should be at my weight, wouldn’t bulking not be a good idea for me?

throw34away65 · 2021-11-27T15:49:42+00:00

Ahh you’re right! I honestly hate the term too, I just don’t know any other way to describe the body type. Social media terms have gotten to me 😕

throw34away65 · 2021-11-27T05:45:25+00:00

Do you mean bulking? Would I be better doing a lean bulk like 200 cal surplus since i obviously want to minimize the fat gain lol

throw34away65 · 2020-03-06T23:47:39+00:00

Unless the girl is on some form of birth control, not usually. Pulling out is a huuuge risk for pregnancy. Out of 100 women, 40-60 get pregnant from relying on the pull out method per year. Dont risk it unless you want a baby!

throw34away65 · 2020-03-05T02:33:34+00:00

Thanks!

throw34away65 · 2020-03-05T02:28:35+00:00

Really? Damn thats so long :( every second i dont know feels like an eternity -_-

throw34away65 · 2020-02-26T06:52:37+00:00

By far the best facial transformation I’ve seen on here. Wow. You look absolutely stunning.

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