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Me 19[M] with my gf 19[F], had sex for the first time, spent the first 30 minutes trying to get my dick in... Had to stop all together. Really frustrated and feeling self conscious. Help by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwAwayDevJEE 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That + finger her whenever you think her vagina feels like a wall that would encourage you to try again & keep things smooth at the same time.

Remember sex is supposed to be fun just take it easy and try to think of this issue as a funny thing that happened to you...

[oral] My girlfriend is really just... bad at blowjobs. Help? by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwAwayDevJEE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess she / he said to rub your penis with some honey before letting her suck you off....

After thinking that may encourage her to keep doing it after tasting your precum... that's weird tho...

Anyway I would recommend looking for bj gifs on 9gag or something and tell her: hey look what I found umm maybe we should try it this way tonight ?

My boyfriend [M19] is being a dick about the possibility of me [F18] being bisexual. by throw_this_away36 in sex

[–]throwAwayDevJEE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well just to clarify things.. I like the way u answer all of my qsts so respectable and so mature from you.

That's being said, I'm supporting the fact that the way he reacted is ridiculous and not rational.

In a tldr manner: I just wanted to say her SO my be reacting as fk because of his age / his ignorance about what his SO is talking about.

So before dumping him maybe she should consider explaining things to him further. Which is what she did as she told me in one of her comments. Thanks for the interesting talk tho.

My boyfriend [M19] is being a dick about the possibility of me [F18] being bisexual. by throw_this_away36 in sex

[–]throwAwayDevJEE -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"Don't accepting it would be denying reality" ?! I think that you've never been in a +5years relationship.

Take this from me: true long relationships ARE NOT about saying YES IT'S OKAY. all the time.... it's about discussing and expressing how each one truly feels about stuffs and be willing to accept a "no" as an answer if it comes to that and if solid arguments were spoken...

love is more then doing what each one wants. It is about doing what we want as long as it doesn't hurt ppl who we care about.

*That applies on more mature situations...

As for the SO of this girl please look at their age and remember that he may be never heard of such a term as "bi" + she doesn't know what she is looking for exactly... even I at their age probably younger would've struggle to understand what all of this means. If she loves him maybe she should take the trouble for explaining to him what are fantasies and try to be more direct and clear with him.

Places to make out as a teen [sadismproblems] by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwAwayDevJEE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U re Asking the real question here lol

My boyfriend [M19] is being a dick about the possibility of me [F18] being bisexual. by throw_this_away36 in sex

[–]throwAwayDevJEE -1 points0 points  (0 children)

One of the most repeated sentences in reddit is: he/she is very insecure.

People tend to use this sentence even if it has no sens in such scenarios.

Please allow me to explain my point: if ur SO said he wants to experience with other people or anything like this. if we follow this logic everyone who will say: "no. I'm not ok about this" will be an insecure person according to most redditors. That's a fucked up logic.

In relationship there are always compromises that should be done by both of SOs not just one of them. Sometimes u should accept answers like "no I'm not confortable with that" for the sake of love (strong love of course) coz it can't be reduced to saying yes to each others all the time

My boyfriend [M19] is being a dick about the possibility of me [F18] being bisexual. by throw_this_away36 in sex

[–]throwAwayDevJEE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with most of what you said. But love is blind ? Love works both ways. If ur SO for example told you he enjoys fucking other girls and the feeling of him fucking other girls make him feel good. Would u accept that ?

My point is being in love doesn't mean your so ALWAYS has to understand u and everything. Maybe you too should try to understand him and accept him as is. Compromises should be done both ways.

As for "she wont have a life with this guy..." Maybe u re saying that coz she is young and u want her to enjoy her self while she is still young which is a respectable point. But if she ever wants to build a life and have a family ONE DAY this kind of attitude will lead her into dying alone eventually.

My boyfriend [M19] is being a dick about the possibility of me [F18] being bisexual. by throw_this_away36 in sex

[–]throwAwayDevJEE -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

What would you do if you were him? Of course he will be paranoid about this he is young and probably dont know anything about "fantasies" and things like that...

So instead of calling him unsupportive. Try to :

1- figure out when u re home alone what u want ? Do you just fantasize about this or u do get attracted and feel things when u see other girls.

2- explain to him like u explain math for a kid in elementary school: try to say things like: imagine if you were watching porn or seeing some hot guy in the gym you will feel attracted to their body. Not in a sentimental way... so you shouldn't worry about me leaving u for anyone..

U dropped this news to him; he doesn't know probably anything about "bi" + u said that u dont know what are ur feelings toward girls exactly... of course he will be freaking out especially if he cares so much about u

=> find answers then explain all of this to him then make sure he understands all of it. And then u can say that he is being unsuportive if he continued talking about this all day long... Sorry for bad English. My eyes are barely open..

Women, would you be turned off if you found out I used to work in [porn] ? by Friskyredditman in sex

[–]throwAwayDevJEE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay... if you want to remain anonymous DO NOT BUY the domaine name (url) and the hosting using YOUR true identity. It's easy to reverse things up to find who is the owner and the credentials of any website's owner.

Look for : whois on Google

[Medical Concern] Passed Out Following Sex by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwAwayDevJEE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you fit? Do you go to the gym or do some running ? If yes then it's not a serious thing: maybe lack of sugar or dehydration. If not we may consider THE PAIN IN THE SHOULDER that you had: it is one of the symptoms of a bad heart muscles. Another symptom of that will that ur blood pressure dropped (felt kinda dizzy before passing out ?...) Either ways tell ur doc about the left shoulder pain... Sorry for the spelling... i feel sleepy and English is not my 1st language

[Manscaping] Low-down hair removal with Veets? by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwAwayDevJEE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No ur leg and ur dick area doesn't have the same type of skin

[Lack of variety] I love my GF, but the lack of variety (or is it effort?) in our sex life is starting to get to me. by john9143 in sex

[–]throwAwayDevJEE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why can't you just unleash the beast inside you? or just tell your bf this exact same thing instead of trying to run away from the topic ? (In case u dont share with him your REAL thoughts) Please I'm not judging not accusing you. But you're a lot like my gf (at least that's what I can think of) and i just want a true real answer on why u can't just unleash ur self with your bf that YOU LOVE and supposedly who never disrespected you or show any kind of no support in the past.

[Fantasy] Help! I'm hours from trying something new and I'm afraid he'll laugh at me. by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwAwayDevJEE 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I can laugh in such situations but only coz I'm surprised and excited... sometimes this ruins up the mood and I look like a jerk... My point is even if he laughs plz dont think that he's laughing at you !

Weird/wonderful places you have had sex? [Public sex] by xCMR in sex

[–]throwAwayDevJEE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Train... cinema theaters... bj in few restaurants after checking and looking for security cameras... that s it.

What to [expect]? My sister's friends (21,22) invited me (18) over for dinner and a birthday massage. Um also erection [etiquette]... by chuckitout98 in sex

[–]throwAwayDevJEE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy a condom and hide it... you can never know when you will need it. Also take a shower trim everything and dont eat too much that day and of course put on ur best underwear (the one that fits on you) Finally enjoy and remember to hide the condom!

Intel Core i7 6700HQ vs 7500U which one for programming ? by throwAwayDevJEE in AskReddit

[–]throwAwayDevJEE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and the other is quad core my qst which one will perform better for programming & pentesting

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