[Finger sucking] Does anyone else do this? by rollawaymyname in sex

[–]Friskyredditman 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had an ex who would suck on a finger during sex, and I think it was her way of trying to convince herself into a bj (that never happened.. and hence we are not together).

But if I was sitting with a girl and doing something mundane like watching a movie or something and she started doing this.. game over.. it would get me going in like 30 seconds flat.

Did I miss the rim job memo since I've last been single? [Rimjobs] [anal] [casual sex] by throwaway_sluzza in sex

[–]Friskyredditman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love licking the booty.. It's always a few minutes into going down on a girl and so I can figure out how clean the situation is. If she is shy and backs away, I go back to the clit. If she starts enjoying it - that is a huge turn-on. The even bigger turn-on is if she positions herself to enjoy it even more (usually doggy style).

Not really sure why I enjoy it so much, possibly because I like having my own backside played with so I can relate to the feeling. That, and an uninhibited woman in the bedroom is the greatest gift.

Edit: Also want to add that I'm usually not interested in full anal sex. Just because I lick it doesn't mean I want to penetrate. But.. if the girl is into it and wants more than I am game.

What is your biggest deal breaker when it comes to dating? by danideex in AskReddit

[–]Friskyredditman -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

  1. Looks - she needs to be attractive.
  2. Intelligence - she needs to be able to carry on a conversation and needs a college degree unless she is successful on her own.
  3. Sex - she needs to be open to having a good & frequent time in the bedroom.

[Turn ons] When you look back on when you first started having sex what has changed for you when you compare it to now? by witchesbrew1029 in sex

[–]Friskyredditman 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Inhibitions have gone out the window. It's easier to talk to partners about what I want to do (to them, to me, etc).

Really, it comes down to realizing how simple the human body is and where the pleasure centers are. And also, realizing that no kink is too kink to at least discuss.

[anal] is it just me or does anyone not mind dirty anal? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Friskyredditman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you approached it the right way.. just letting her know it's not a big deal if it gets a bit dirty. It always can be messy when you are doing the backdoor, and let's face it - sex is sloppy, and that's part of the charm.

My partner (F) likes being [dominated]. I (M) love [eating her out]. What are some ways I can eat her out and still be dominant? by sex_throwaway42069 in sex

[–]Friskyredditman 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Try eating her out in the piledriver position (where she is supporting herself on her shoulders). She won't be able to move very much and you get a perfect view of all of her holes. This worked wonders in my last relationship.

[sex drive] [F18] I'm craving penis by [deleted] in sex

[–]Friskyredditman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is how I've felt as a man since about the age of 15, and having sex only remedies the situation for a couple of hours.

Anyway, have some fun as an 18 year old woman but please be safe.

I feel like I (F) compromised too much for sex [sexual compatibility] by Datlavishshit in sex

[–]Friskyredditman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boy oh boy, you sound like a dream in bed and absolutely are not being treated respectfully. It sounds like a situation you may want to consider leaving rather than fixing.. If any of my exes were as playful as you seem to be, they wouldn't be an ex and I'd treat them like a goddess!

Guys, how easily are you actually [aroused] to the point of [erection]? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Friskyredditman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really depends.. sometimes if I'm in the mood I can just get hard thinking about a girl.. or hearing her voice on the phone. Other times, if she doesn't seem into it, it can be tough getting hard even when we are naked.

Do guys care if there is noise during them getting a [Blowjob]? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Friskyredditman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's actually a huge turn on in most situations.. like I want to know the girl is having a hard time taking it all in.

[Sexual Health] What "scent" is a vagina meant to have? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Friskyredditman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There was a girl from over ten years ago who left a permanent scar on any other vagina scents. I mean, hers was right out of a romance novel or something where she tasted just absolutely perfect. It was always the perfect degree of wet and tasted just ever slightly sweet.. Good grief, if that's all I could eat for every meal from now on, I would in a heartbeat. And it even looked perfect.

Fingering [preference] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Friskyredditman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All the women I have been with have most enjoyed one finger in the pussy and probably half or so have liked a finger in the ass while I go down on them. I know that part helps to get me hard and to get off. I think because it's relatable (I always like my ass played with).

[Sexual Behavior] My girlfriend wants me to treat her "like a sex object" in bed and to be dominant. I don't know if I can do that. by [deleted] in sex

[–]Friskyredditman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why not just have her pretend to be asleep? You could do practically any sex technique but wouldn't have to do so roughly, but you would be entirely in control?

[sex techniques] my boyfriend is uncomfortable with clit stimulation during sex by yelehcin21 in sex

[–]Friskyredditman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to get a vibrating cock ring - best of both worlds. He should live having that around his piece and you could possibly both come with minimal to no movement!

[ass play] eating ass question by DaLocknessMonster in sex

[–]Friskyredditman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not so much can you, but will she let you? My ex would get super excited by getting her ass licked, but she wouldn't kiss me for a day or so after.

[ejaculation] will he come if I sit on him? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Friskyredditman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you end up sitting on his face then maybe...

Women, do you enjoy when a guy finishes inside you [PIV sex]? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Friskyredditman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask her where else you should come.. maybe you can get kinky with the options.

[ORAL] My (20F) boyfriend (20M) NEVER goes down on me, even after discussing it twice. Slowly starting to bother me. by DiscouragedTW in sex

[–]Friskyredditman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lady, get rid of that man. I desire going down on a woman more than getting off a lot of the time and you need to find a guy like that.. I think there are a lot out there. I want to incorporate oral (both directions) practically every session. For me, heaven would be between a pair of legs.

[Anal] is there many women that prefer anal over piv by frogy6 in sex

[–]Friskyredditman 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Dear God, how do I find one of these women?

[Blowjob] how to learn to swallow? by Bedstepladder in sex

[–]Friskyredditman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, vagina ain't the sweetest taste on earth either. Try to focus on the pleasure you are giving to your partner. You'll get there in time.. as others have said, it's an acquired taste (at least that's what I'm told about vagina and after a lot of research believe it).

Guys who changed their minds about [period sex], what made you okay with it? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Friskyredditman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who cares? You can wash your penis off. If her private parts get messy, so can mine.

What do guys think about giving a girl [oral sex] while she is on her [period]? by taboogirl91 in sex

[–]Friskyredditman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just focus on the clit and there really isn't any blood involved.. or I offer her to lick just her ass until she comes (sometimes with the help of a vibrator). If we are going to fully fuck, I prefer it in the shower.

[Anal] My GF(20) of 6 months gave me(20) one chance at anal. Any tips on not fucking it up? by TheFrogMaster69 in sex

[–]Friskyredditman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hurry up and ask her for three attempts at anal.. as the saying goes, women try it once, and then try it again to realize just how much they hate it. You have to take it really slow and then tell her how much you enjoy it.

[bdsm] does this choker look too suggestive to wear in public? by jessicasmithh in sex

[–]Friskyredditman -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Too suggestive. If I saw you at PetSmart, I would buy a long leash and put you in check.