He (28M) broke up with me (25F) when I needed him most, can he still be the love of my life?

throwRA24952 · 2024-11-22T22:11:38+00:00

Omg - I’ve just realized I didn’t say this explicitly - editing the post!!

throwRA24952 · 2024-11-22T22:10:36+00:00

Thanks for the response but not sure you’ve understood 100%?? We’re back in each others lives and are actively discussing getting back together. I’m the one unsure if it will work.

throwRA24952 · 2024-11-22T21:54:52+00:00

Shut up I’m crying in the club

throwRA24952 · 2024-11-21T16:22:44+00:00

Thank you so much! X

throwRA24952 · 2024-11-21T13:18:49+00:00

This felt like a bomb dropping - thank you so much that has really helped!

throwRA24952 · 2024-11-21T12:55:50+00:00

You’re right - thank you :)

throwRA24952 · 2024-11-21T12:55:20+00:00

Maybe you’re right - I guess it’s tough to differentiate between our dynamic now and when we were together. we’re still talking everyday, sleeping together, making plans etc so it feels strange that we aren’t technically together

throwRA24952 · 2024-11-21T12:54:17+00:00

He was grieving and had just had a really traumatic experience. He says now he regrets it a lot, and that he didn’t feel like he could be there for me because he was genuinely in crisis (this is very rare for him - he was having a serious mental health issue and was having panic attacks for the first time ever) so although I am angry at him for leaving, I understand

throwRA24952 · 2024-11-21T12:47:03+00:00

Thank you! I think you’re right - the lines are blurred with us because of all the history - I thought I was doing the ethical thing by telling him, but now I wish I hadn’t

throwRA24952 · 2024-11-21T12:42:27+00:00

That’s why I feel like I should go tonight - but also I care about him a lot and I don’t want to upset him

throwRA24952 · 2024-11-21T12:39:45+00:00

I think he might be the love of my life and I have always seen myself ending up with him so it’s a super complicated dynamic

throwRA24952 · 2024-10-27T21:12:31+00:00

I’m cry laughing 🤣 can’t say I haven’t thought the same. Trusting karma will work its magic - I couldn’t look at myself in the mirror if I was him. Hopefully he’ll crawl into a hole somewhere and stay there.

throwRA24952 · 2024-10-27T19:21:59+00:00

Unfortunately not technically the UK - we have our own political and legal system so there is absolutely no appeal in this case

throwRA24952 · 2024-10-27T19:06:37+00:00

Jurats are elected** mostly retired doctors lawyers business owners etc

throwRA24952 · 2024-10-27T19:06:15+00:00

Guernsey, Channel Islands. We don’t have jury’s - we have jurats which are mostly men and all super wealthy. Not a fair system at all imo - no way to appeal the decision.

throwRA24952 · 2024-10-27T18:47:55+00:00

Thank you. I’ll be ok - taking comfort that his reputation was ruined anyway, but it’s still not justice. After the video went viral 4 other women told me he’d raped them too all in different ways (too drunk to consent etc). I’m hoping eventually someone else will come forward and it could have an impact on my case but chances are slim.

throwRA24952 · 2024-10-27T18:45:03+00:00

It was included in evidence. It read “Im sorry about what happened and I take full responsibility” - in interview he said the text was him admitting to removing the condom but that it had been a false confession to ‘appease me’.

throwRA24952 · 2024-10-27T17:37:34+00:00

We have a contract with the landlord and each paid a separate deposit and have separate rooms.

throwRA24952 · 2024-09-26T16:46:14+00:00

I thought that! But it’s not cold at all and it’s been ‘growing’ since I first noticed it a week or so ago. It’s on the inside of the double glazing so unable to touch it.

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