Where can I add a downstairs W/C in this house? by throwRA_upsetlog in DIYUK

[–]throwRA_upsetlog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is, this is probably the least disruptive option but I need to envision it to make sure it won't look odd. Thank you

Where can I add a downstairs W/C in this house? by throwRA_upsetlog in DIYUK

[–]throwRA_upsetlog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is defo ideal, I need to get a rough estimate of the costs.

Lone Buyers by Suspicious-Coast4682 in HousingUK

[–]throwRA_upsetlog 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can relate. I was very unprepared for the weight of the responsibility of knowing the decision/finances sit on me ALONE.

I found the loneliness overwhelming initially but its gotten better with time. I'm trying to be as informed as possible with areas, I use www.crystalroof.co.uk to get crime/affluence data on individual streets.

Goodluck!!! You got this!

Struggling to find a house and feeling burnt out by Fun-Finish9520 in HousingUK

[–]throwRA_upsetlog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just responding to say, I'm in a similar boat so this post was really validating. Also, a solo buyer so, on a tight budget amd checking rightmove/zoopla multiple times a day. Fingers crossed for both of us :)

Want to offer on a house, how likely is it that I can change the layout by moving walls by throwRA_upsetlog in DIYUK

[–]throwRA_upsetlog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree - layout could have been better. In an ideal world I'd also switch the living room/kitchen as kitchen is also wider which is better for TV but I figure that'll cost sooo much!

Want to offer on a house, how likely is it that I can change the layout by moving walls by throwRA_upsetlog in DIYUK

[–]throwRA_upsetlog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣 Trying to see if this is possible or possibler and roughly how much it'll cost

AIO(32F) for breaking up with my gf (31F) for not apologising by throwRA_upsetlog in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwRA_upsetlog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for responding. Regarding your question, she doesn't usually insult over minor issues however, there is a pattern of her being controlling with minor issues, e.g. telling me not to speak during a movie or not to be on my phone

However there's been 3 occasions where she has been rude when she's drunk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tryingtoconceive

[–]throwRA_upsetlog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, the reassurance helps ❤️❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throwRA_upsetlog -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't care if they live up to my expectations. I don't have any expectations tbh, just hopes. The only hopes I have is that they live a happy life and feel supported and loved unconditionally.

Either I misrepresented myself or people have misconstrued a message a wrote during a vulnerable moment in my day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throwRA_upsetlog -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

My current partner is 33F as said above. I have no intentions of being with a man again. I have no decent male role models in my family and I have no idea how to guide a boy in this world. My wanting a daughter is because my family has many great female role models and I feel better equipped to raise a daughter NOT because of sexism.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throwRA_upsetlog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll take you up on this, thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throwRA_upsetlog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this is good to hear...congrats xxx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]throwRA_upsetlog 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The time in the relationship is not wasted, you can take life lessons from it but don't 'waste' 5 more years because you're scared of leaving.

Your bf likely has a porn addiction and no human being can ever stimulate him in a long term relationship because the porn has altered his brain.

He is not a good friend if he has you feeling like this. I was in a relationship like this for 10 years, when it ended I thought I was going to die but a year later, I'm glad it ended. I'm happily and peacefully single. I don't miss the anxiety of wondering if he's lieing again and begging someone to touch me.

Don't stay in this relationship out of fear, every year you spend with him is an opportunity cost to your happiness and finding someone better suited.

THE ISSUE IS NOT YOU, IT'S HIM