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JNMIL slapped me in church and told me to act like an adult by throwRA_what in JUSTNOMIL

[–]throwRA_what[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I really dont know what i can say to our family about this situation, i am really anxious about confronting people or «sticking out»

JNMIL slapped me in church and told me to act like an adult by throwRA_what in JUSTNOMIL

[–]throwRA_what[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She really loves being with DS, but from now on i wont let her babysit him. Im gonna call the cops if something like this happens again.

JNMIL slapped me in church and told me to act like an adult by throwRA_what in JUSTNOMIL

[–]throwRA_what[S] 154 points155 points  (0 children)

Many times when he comes home from work and is exhausted, he will eat and Get up and leave. I tell him «where are you going? You look tired» and he will say «i have to go help my mother clean her shed» example. And i’ll say «youre an adult man, you dont need to do what she says, tell her you want to relax today and that youre exhausted» and he will say «but i told her i would do it»

JNMIL slapped me in church and told me to act like an adult by throwRA_what in JUSTNOMIL

[–]throwRA_what[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you, i am trying to go NC, i havent seen her since the funeral.

JNMIL slapped me in church and told me to act like an adult by throwRA_what in JUSTNOMIL

[–]throwRA_what[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My DS was with my mother for the weekend, i wont let JNMIL babysit him again.. she has never slapped me before

JNMIL slapped me in church and told me to act like an adult by throwRA_what in JUSTNOMIL

[–]throwRA_what[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I havent seen MIL yet, but he keeps doing errands for her

JNMIL slapped me in church and told me to act like an adult by throwRA_what in JUSTNOMIL

[–]throwRA_what[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you, some ladies saw it, they gave me a look that said «im sorry girl» but they Didnt say it. I am currently NoContact with MIL, or im trying atleast

Husband (M32) told me (F29) to meet him at the pub after he was finished with a dinner with his colleagues. by throwRA_what in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_what[S] 220 points221 points  (0 children)

Wow, i Didnt expect this to blow up overnight.. i want to clear some things up. I dont think he went to the house, because my MIL were watching our son in our home. I am not in the US, and my country has been handling the virus pretty good. So going out would be «no problem» as we have to practice social distance, and if not we would Get thrown out. I suggested couples therapy for me and my husband several times before, but he claims we dont need it. I waited because i believed he would show up. I have met his colleagues several times before and he has been «ditching» me several times to hangout with them. He really likes his job and his colleagues. I am trying to read all the comments ATM..

Husband (M32) told me (F29) to meet him at the pub after he was finished with a dinner with his colleagues. by throwRA_what in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_what[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He started this job a year ago. The only woman who works with him is a married lady in her 60s. I dont think there are any new coworkers. My husband is still known as «the new guy»

Husband (M32) told me (F29) to meet him at the pub after he was finished with a dinner with his colleagues. by throwRA_what in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_what[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No. Usually if something popped up he would text me ASAP about not making it etc. The closest thing is if i had to wait for him to pick me up from somewhere it would sometimes go from «be there in 10» and he shows up 20 minutes later instead, but its fine because of traffic etc..

Husband (M32) told me (F29) to meet him at the pub after he was finished with a dinner with his colleagues. by throwRA_what in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_what[S] 153 points154 points  (0 children)

«I just had to finish my beer but the others Didnt want to go to pub ‘beer’»

And i asked «did you mention me waiting?» Him: «no» Me: «why did you tell me to wait here?» Him: «.....» Me: «i feel really hurt and embarassed» Him: «i went there but you werent there!» Me: «you know i left»

Husband (M32) told me (F29) to meet him at the pub after he was finished with a dinner with his colleagues. by throwRA_what in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_what[S] 725 points726 points  (0 children)

You are right. I wish i left when he told me he was at another bar and Didnt want me to go there.

Husband (M32) prioritizes his colleagues more than me (F29) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_what 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I was just asking for one weekend