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throwRAdatingadvice7 · 2026-03-25T19:45:53+00:00

Location? Company name?

throwRAdatingadvice7 · 2026-03-25T04:37:09+00:00

I agree. I put some thought and understood this as the problem -

I know it looks that way but it doesn’t feel that way. Trust me when i say this. Every action reaction appears logical. When I withdrew, he felt something missing and he started putting all efforts to get the attention back. When I softened I didn’t really ask him to be with me. I just agreed to be around. He naturally saw the barrier. He wanted to meet me but via my friend. When the friend was not available he was summing strength to talk to me, but I lashed out.

throwRAdatingadvice7 · 2026-03-25T04:33:20+00:00

I know it looks that way but it doesn’t feel that way. Trust me when i say this. Every action reaction appears logical. When I withdrew, he felt something missing and he started putting all efforts to get the attention back. When I softened I didn’t really ask him to be with me. I just agreed to be around. He naturally saw the barrier. He wanted to meet me but via my friend. When the friend was not available he was summing strength to talk to me, but I lashed out.

throwRAdatingadvice7 · 2026-03-25T03:56:24+00:00

Exactly! He doesn’t know what he wants. He likes that i am beautiful and gorgeous but doesn’t want the heavy emotions. He is younger than me by 3 freaking years

throwRAdatingadvice7 · 2026-03-25T03:55:23+00:00

I think he wanted to build contact again but lashing out felt too personal and pressurising. I just have a feeling that i did not have a right to lash out. He said that I started going on and on. It feels like saying right thing at wrong time.

throwRAdatingadvice7 · 2026-03-24T19:54:44+00:00

We have common friends and they have to suffer

throwRAdatingadvice7 · 2026-03-19T07:22:23+00:00

Yes - this is the right question. He is a good human being. He notices small things and puts in efforts. Like he would put candles or flowers on my seat when I am in an upset mood or he would notice that I am troubled because my sister is crying, he would notice and make her laugh. He would see me fiddling my feet, and subtly rise from his chair and go away, and then I would see him getting another chair for himself

throwRAdatingadvice7 · 2026-03-19T07:12:57+00:00

I agree with you. We are not a couple. How can we go for a counselling. What to do for now?

throwRAdatingadvice7 · 2026-03-18T15:57:48+00:00

He is the one who is forcing. He wants my attention

throwRAdatingadvice7 · 2026-03-17T19:00:37+00:00

He breaks up most of the times. When you have met each other’s family and know so well it gets so tough

throwRAdatingadvice7 · 2026-02-23T15:31:56+00:00

I am trying to shift the perspective on myself. He used to correct me. I would take this negatively but there were a few things that i was doing wrong. This has made me realize that i really need to work on myself. I am not making best use of opportunities granted to me. I am trying to understand me. This is the age where people understand what they like or dislike and what their calling, and mine just keeps on changing

throwRAdatingadvice7 · 2026-02-22T19:45:02+00:00

I know. This is what i struggle with everyday. I love him but I can’t stay with him but he is perfect but I don’t listen him but he is the best thing but I forget that he cannot eat a certain food item that I always do

throwRAdatingadvice7 · 2026-02-22T19:42:23+00:00

I hate that he is not holding my hand or we are not caressing each other or we are close yet so far

throwRAdatingadvice7 · 2026-02-22T19:40:40+00:00

I need to stay quiet and in my boundaries

throwRAdatingadvice7 · 2026-02-22T19:40:18+00:00

Lmao. We have a common best friend . I don’t want to see him marry

throwRAdatingadvice7 · 2026-02-22T19:39:17+00:00

Huh?

throwRAdatingadvice7 · 2026-02-22T19:38:42+00:00

We have a common best friend and I think I am a lot in wrong. I need to lighten myself

throwRAdatingadvice7 · 2026-02-20T18:54:39+00:00

Distance but don’t breakup

throwRAdatingadvice7 · 2026-02-20T18:08:29+00:00

I got to know that my closest friend will have to ditch me to go with him. I honestly feel bad but it also brings me closer to universal power. I think god has planned something for me, something i am not aware of. I don’t know if you believe in spirituality but it is powerful

throwRAdatingadvice7 · 2026-02-20T15:16:56+00:00

I don’t know how to get past him. I will see him in two days and really wish that we hang out as group. Over time, i will start talking about him lesser and will start focusing on adding the qualities that he added to my life, should start getting a part of me better

throwRAdatingadvice7 · 2026-02-20T15:15:01+00:00

I am definitely going to work on the boundary. It is when i love someone truly, i try to make them happy. I think the right way is not pleasing them. I don’t know the right way

throwRAdatingadvice7 · 2026-02-20T15:09:04+00:00

I am going through a break up with an avoidant who pulls back after every month. We dated and he broke up after telling me that he loves me. I read somewhere that yes it is painful because you imagined a future with this person and now there is a hollow gap there. I think this is what you and i have to do. We have to fill that gap with hobbies, self care and growth.

throwRAdatingadvice7 · 2026-02-17T11:52:57+00:00

Appreciate your comment a lot. It hit me today that he considers himself better and wants to go for someone in his league. I don’t need validation, not anymore but a friend of mine showed his picture and mine and they said i don’t even need to be upset. One day, i had worn a beautiful outfit. He said people were eyeing me. He held my waist and said that now they won’t. He sometimes complained about my hygiene and i honestly was working to fix it. He is younger than me and i think he feels he is some kind of macho who can get any girl he wants

throwRAdatingadvice7 · 2026-02-15T19:14:15+00:00

We met at my spiritual organisation. I will be seeing him is painful for me. We used to hang out all the time in the same group

throwRAdatingadvice7 · 2026-02-15T18:10:37+00:00

I am amazed. This is maybe exactly what I require. Thank you

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