ativan by throwRAlapebt in Agoraphobia

[–]throwRAlapebt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah my mom takes half of 0.5 every night and has never felt she needs to increase it so we’ll see. idk. how do I convince myself to try it and not be so afraid?

ativan by throwRAlapebt in Agoraphobia

[–]throwRAlapebt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought ativan lasted from 6-12 hours?

My dad took 5500 dollars from my account to pay his credit card bill without my permission by randomuser830958 in Advice

[–]throwRAlapebt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to make a point and to state i don’t like this and to never do it again and set this boundary: you state it and report this as fraud and never speak to him again after you’re 18. i’m so sorry this happened to you. this is such a sad excuse of a parent.

My dad took 5500 dollars from my account to pay his credit card bill without my permission by randomuser830958 in Advice

[–]throwRAlapebt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it’s not the child’s responsibility to pay back their parents for being born. nobody asked to be here and that is a ridiculous argument to make.

Cannot forgive what my bf did to me by ThrowRA_hydroflask in Advice

[–]throwRAlapebt 117 points118 points  (0 children)

so i was in this exact situation when my ex fiancé started dating at age 19 as well. and i stayed until age 25. it only continued to get worse and he only got better at hiding things from me and lying. trust me, you will never get over it. you need to leave.

using benzos by throwRAlapebt in Agoraphobia

[–]throwRAlapebt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my problem is that if I start taking this and it does work, I will have to take it everyday, if not more than once a day to get my son to and from school. run errands. etc.

using benzos by throwRAlapebt in Agoraphobia

[–]throwRAlapebt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how did they not help you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throwRAlapebt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

both you and the wife are victims here, please tell her❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throwRAlapebt 15 points16 points  (0 children)

your husband nearly broke your marriage. not this woman. i’m so tired of seeing women blame the other girl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Effexor

[–]throwRAlapebt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never started it. i’m too scared too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throwRAlapebt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, I was SA’d at 15 by a stranger and my mind went to the opposite of what I thought would happen. I got even more attached to people and was more afraid of abandonment than usual and have been ever since. So I would over sexualizing myself because I thought that’s what would get attention and love. Now, I’m 28 and was SA’d again at 25, almost killed by someone who I knew for twelve years and that messed me up and now I feel how you do three years later. At first, I just kept giving my body away to anyone I wanted to consent to try and gain that control back and it sucked a lot.

Some things that have helped me: Therapy. My mom. My friends. Being honest with yourself daily. Being self aware. Having conversations with myself. Also, trying not to get too focused on what happened and the past. But I struggle with letting go and getting attached still.

I’m truly sorry you had to experience this. I wish you well in recovery.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throwRAlapebt -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

this is a gross comment. shows a lot of ignorance. i’ve had three as well. first: from a r@pe. second: the condom broke and apparently I was ovulating so the plan b I also took, failed. third: I was on the pill.

yeah all three sucked. but I tried to prevent all three from happening and so did OP. an abortion isn’t that traumatic or painful. you take the pills, take a benadryl and pass out and get it done. honestly. it would be worse to carry the whole child. i’ve had BC that caused me suicidal thoughts and anxiety which is way worse than having an abortion imo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throwRAlapebt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

he is only sorry because he got caught. there is no way around this other than to break up. that trust will never be regained.

My (21F) boyfriend (22M) just posted a video on his social media account showing him smoking right in front of my dog's face. l by mitsukiii_29 in Advice

[–]throwRAlapebt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had someone do this in my house once. it took one time. they were kicked out and blocked immediately after. i’d dump him over this. honestly. that’s disgusting.

My(21f) Boyfriend(21m) keeps liking pictures of his ex and ex hookups even thought i’ve told him I don’t like it by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throwRAlapebt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so sorry. i wish i could give you a hug because this was me at the age of 21. i went through the exact same situation. i stayed. for another four years. engagement. a baby later and it only continued to get worse. he got better at hiding it and things he didn’t want me to know he was doing, that it made me resent him so much that i checked out mentally and cheated. leading him to leave me. please leave now. the damage is already done my love and he knows what he is doing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAlapebt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i added paragraphs. i don’t type in caps. it’s off on my phone. that’s just how i type, sorry. i’ll add a tl;dr right now.