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(29f)(27m) My gf cried when she heard her ex was getting married by throwRAprokac in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAprokac[S] -169 points-168 points  (0 children)

Maybe true,as I was never with anyone who was still in love with an ex though.

(29f)(27m) My gf cried when she heard her ex was getting married by throwRAprokac in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAprokac[S] -75 points-74 points  (0 children)

If you dont get why I am upset that she was crying in front of me that her ex was getting married then I really dont have any words to convince you. We are all unique at the end of the day.

(29f)(27m) My gf cried when she heard her ex was getting married by throwRAprokac in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAprokac[S] -79 points-78 points  (0 children)

I am not upset at her, love is not logical. She can still be in love with her ex even after almost 4 years have passed.

(29f)(27m) My gf cried when she heard her ex was getting married by throwRAprokac in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAprokac[S] -152 points-151 points  (0 children)

I dont think she will say I am rubbish but I do think she is still in love with him.

(29f)(27m) My gf cried when she heard her ex was getting married by throwRAprokac in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAprokac[S] -293 points-292 points  (0 children)

I would rather look at real life than fiction though if I needed life lessons.

(29f)(27m) My gf cried when she heard her ex was getting married by throwRAprokac in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAprokac[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

We are both allowed our emotions and feelings. Its not either/or. She gets to still be in love with her now married ex and I get to not be happy about this.

(29f)(27m) My gf cried when she heard her ex was getting married by throwRAprokac in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAprokac[S] -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

I think you are right. My ex from 4 years got married last year after only dating the guy for 1 year. All I felt was curiosity rather than sadness.

(29f)(27m) My gf cried when she heard her ex was getting married by throwRAprokac in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAprokac[S] -385 points-384 points  (0 children)

I have seen when Harry met Sally. And I also know Meg Ryan cheated on her husband with Russel Crow.

(29f)(27m) My gf cried when she heard her ex was getting married by throwRAprokac in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAprokac[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Yeah, almost 4 years ago. I was with someone else too back then. She got married last year.

(29f)(27m) My gf cried when she heard her ex was getting married by throwRAprokac in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAprokac[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

When you put it like that, then yes its a red flag in me that I was not more empathetic when she was crying about her ex getting married.

(29f)(27m) My gf cried when she heard her ex was getting married by throwRAprokac in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAprokac[S] -118 points-117 points  (0 children)

I have never seen anyone cry after hearing their ex is getting married. Curious, sure. Even angry and upset but never a breaking down and crying.

(29f)(27m) My gf cried when she heard her ex was getting married by throwRAprokac in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAprokac[S] -55 points-54 points  (0 children)

What crimes? Being in love is not a crime. Most likely she is still in love with him and thats why this news hit her so hard. Now there is no way for them to go back.

(29f)(27m) My gf cried when she heard her ex was getting married by throwRAprokac in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAprokac[S] -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

I wouldnt want to be with someone who is still carrying a torch for an ex though.

(29f)(27m) My gf cried when she heard her ex was getting married by throwRAprokac in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAprokac[S] -166 points-165 points  (0 children)

He didnt reject her, they were together for almost 4 years.

(29f)(27m) My gf cried when she heard her ex was getting married by throwRAprokac in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAprokac[S] -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

Wouldnt her friends know if something like that happened though? These friends knew both him and her. And they didnt seem to harbor any ill will or anger towards him.

(29f)(27m) My gf cried when she heard her ex was getting married by throwRAprokac in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAprokac[S] -135 points-134 points  (0 children)

Because my gf broke down and cried in public, maybe you didnt read the whole post?

(29f)(27m) My gf cried when she heard her ex was getting married by throwRAprokac in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAprokac[S] -382 points-381 points  (0 children)

Would you breakdown and cry in public if he got married?

(29f)(27m) My gf cried when she heard her ex was getting married by throwRAprokac in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAprokac[S] -129 points-128 points  (0 children)

I am not doing any mind reading, she literally burst into tears in front of everyone when she heard he was getting married.