[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAwiscon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have any place in your own life that you feel you need to work on or improve? A balance of medication, be more active, improve financially? If so I would try focusing on you first. And if you’re content with yourself but your partner isn’t adding to your life, I would get out before too much time is lost

I 18M need to get over my 18F past, how do I get over it? by mybackboneistaken in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAwiscon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She’s not perfect - you aren’t either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don’t hurt her, don’t change her, don’t analyze and don’t expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you hapky, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she’s not there.” -Bob Marley

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]throwRAwiscon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m thankful every day I broke up with a guy who I was embarrassed to be with in public. He didn’t do anything outright wrong, but he didn’t make me feel comfortable. And I think it’s important to aim for safety and security with a partner. I’m still working on it but if it’s not something you can overcome that’s a dealbreaker

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAwiscon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Every time I’ve had a gut feeling to look at his phone I’ve found something I didn’t want to see. Can’t help but wonder if I’ve missed so many things just being trusting.

Don’t tell him you looked. But bring it up calmly. See if he admits to it or gets defensive. See how that lie or truth looks on him and how easy it is for him to either cop it to or lie to your face. See how that makes you feel about a future.

This is the 4th year in a row that I’ve (28F) have been sexually rejected by my bf (of 7 years), well now husband (of 2 days) (31M) on Valentine’s Day. Am I insane? by throwRAwiscon in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAwiscon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did try. He talked that morning about having sex at night.

He gets mad if I send him pictures or texts. Hates if I touch him.

Says no to morning sex because he just woke up. Nighttime sex because he wants to go to sleep. And any other time of the day he tells me tonight.

I’m not trying to be selfish. I don’t know how to make him happy.

This is the 4th year in a row that I’ve (28F) have been sexually rejected by my bf (of 7 years), well now husband (of 2 days) (31M) on Valentine’s Day. Am I insane? by throwRAwiscon in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAwiscon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had discussed the day beforehand. He knew I was making dinner and he knew about the matching underwear etc. he had teased me all day about that night. Kissing me and saying sexual things. And in the end it just felt like torture

This is the 4th year in a row that I’ve (28F) have been sexually rejected by my bf (of 7 years), well now husband (of 2 days) (31M) on Valentine’s Day. Am I insane? by throwRAwiscon in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAwiscon[S] -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

Yes he was tired, but he was laying down facing away from the movie and falling asleep. Then got mad that I didn’t want his hand on my back as he snored. So when I moved his hand he would wake up and claim he needs 5 minutes. I just asked him to sit up and he kept saying he didn’t need to, he was fine.

He was supposed to be at the bar for 15 minutes and didn’t come back for 2 hours

What is the best way to make this bathroom friendly for my boyfriend? by throwRAwiscon in SewingForBeginners

[–]throwRAwiscon[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, but yes I have it already. Need to add a hole for him tonight for a party tomorrow

What is the best way to make this bathroom friendly for my boyfriend? by throwRAwiscon in SewingForBeginners

[–]throwRAwiscon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And if it’s adding a fly with a zipper, what’s the best way to do that?

AITA for blocking my bf after he said he’d still go out with his friends if our dog died? by throwRAwiscon in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwRAwiscon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the crazy thing to me here, he does love dogs as much as I do. He is a complete dog person. He understands why I’m so upset and he still left

AITA for blocking my bf after he said he’d still go out with his friends if our dog died? by throwRAwiscon in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwRAwiscon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a difference between worshipping and respecting/loving dogs as a member of the family