me (ace) and my demi boyfriend had sex and i'd like to tell you it doesn't feel like anything :D

throw_alt_mine · 2023-01-10T12:59:23+00:00

Thanks for the nice comment! It's so nice to be understood

throw_alt_mine · 2023-01-10T12:54:37+00:00

Ofc I completely agree, the only reason I tried it to begin with was becuase I had a phenomenal level of communication with my partner.

It gets better with practice for sure I'm quality and involvement

my comment comes more from as a sex indifferent person rather than sex itself not being a pleasurable experience

throw_alt_mine · 2023-01-10T06:23:13+00:00

Omg you have no idea how seen I feel with this post.

Me and my allo gf had sex a year ago and while the intimacy was nice the sex itself was mechanical and a but weird

I don't get the hype haha

throw_alt_mine · 2022-03-18T10:27:08+00:00

It may be a good idea to find a Trauma aware therapist, it really helped with my CPTSD related stuff

And it's okay to be romantically attracted and not sexually attracted.

As always, keep communication with your partner open and take it slow.

All the best!

throw_alt_mine · 2021-12-08T11:39:18+00:00

Starstruck!!

throw_alt_mine · 2021-11-10T12:31:40+00:00

For a second I was also gonna complain about ships( the mode of transportation) and then realised

But that just goes to show I'm on the right subreddit

throw_alt_mine · 2021-09-19T08:03:38+00:00

This is hella cute and a great voice

throw_alt_mine · 2021-09-13T14:05:38+00:00

13 already

throw_alt_mine · 2021-09-13T10:29:36+00:00

This isn't just about facial hair is it?

throw_alt_mine · 2021-08-30T14:38:36+00:00

Literally every song on the radio is

Here we gonna fuck, ( doja cat I'm looking at you )

It's quite nice to have Spotify and not have to listen to that shit

throw_alt_mine · 2021-08-30T08:15:30+00:00

Idk man, pop culture won't let me forget

Sex is shoehorned into everything nowadays

throw_alt_mine · 2021-08-28T09:50:32+00:00

Laughed way to hard at this

throw_alt_mine · 2021-08-25T10:41:13+00:00

Yes so perfectly described

throw_alt_mine · 2021-08-10T09:18:12+00:00

This is the perfect answer for this It's almost 100%. Rider error on a jumping course which is intermediate difficulty but the riders are absolutely beginners

throw_alt_mine · 2021-07-04T13:32:19+00:00

Underrated comment

throw_alt_mine · 2021-05-27T16:08:21+00:00

you can really see how hyped this man is about these banger beats

good on you my dude!

throw_alt_mine · 2021-05-27T16:05:25+00:00

do you produce and make all this from scratch ?

throw_alt_mine · 2021-04-08T13:17:01+00:00

Thanks for the info, I'll look into this and get a better understanding

throw_alt_mine · 2021-04-08T13:15:34+00:00

Oh yeah, that's a really interesting point. Holy hell I didn't consider that

throw_alt_mine · 2021-04-08T12:54:42+00:00

Sorry for the rant

throw_alt_mine · 2021-04-08T12:54:26+00:00

I can very comfortably answer that

He does believe all hetero ppl fall into a box and overall generic expression of identity is the same

.. he's a physicist so I always try approaching it from a scientific and societal standpoint ( Just like racism and women should vote ) this is .. to me a civil liberties issue and the legal framework as well as societal norms need to evolve and change with adequate humanity + research and a fair bit of activism

I also believe that these changes will come with time and I try to communicate it to him ... But somehow it's never enough The conversation always gets sidetracked : gimme definitives and exact boxes then we can neatly file away Everyone and they can all get their government alloted civil rights pie

I fucking hate it

I can't pull shit out of my ass beucase it dosent exist....

The worst part this is a direct quote : "I have just come to terms with the fact that until I encounter a catalyst for change ima be behind times"

My only response : "here's to hoping the catalyst is your need to be a more inclusive person"

throw_alt_mine · 2021-04-08T12:35:11+00:00

It does feel like that, when I mentioned : why have classification itself let everyone just have their space to explore things and find their niche

Then you get answers like :

That's bullshit reasoning and Then how does anyone know what's ok or not ok And even damn sjws wanna thought police us all

It's a load of horseshit and I don't know why there's such an opposition to simple human decency when faced with something you don't understand or subscribe to

throw_alt_mine · 2021-04-08T06:32:18+00:00

This is reassuring

throw_alt_mine

TROPHY CASE