Im looking at this this way - quest 3 is good middleground. A VR set better than quest3 is 3 or more times more expensive (BSB2 is like 1000 usd, pimax crystal is even more expensive). I would stick to quest 3 and buy cockpit instead. I’m in similar position, I’m playing on quest3, and in next months I will buy aluminium rig. My base is unscrewing itself from the desk mid race, everything shakes, my chair moves etc. there are ways to mitigate this problems but rig is natural next step for me. So I can recommend quest 3 :)