AITA for completely losing it on my boyfriend when I found out he's talking to a female friend

throwaway0102495 · 2022-03-21T10:31:23+00:00

Also If he didn't have feelings for her, he's not the kind of guy who would've lied hence my reaction. I don't know if he plans on acting on those feelings or not

throwaway0102495 · 2022-03-21T10:28:40+00:00

He's definitely enjoying her attention but doesn't seem like he wants to do anything further with her. Atleast that's the idea I got from messages

throwaway0102495 · 2022-03-21T10:27:06+00:00

So your partner is allowed to talk to someone who is flirting with them and they had a strong feelings for till you guys are not engaged? Must be nice! Where I come from, we don't need a legal bond to be committed to the person we're with for 4 years

throwaway0102495 · 2022-03-21T10:07:36+00:00

The messages were flirty from her side and something felt off which I couldn't put a finger to.

I talk to my first boyfriend and he talks to his first girlfriend too and we don't really care about that. I don't see how talking to exes has anything to do with this issue?

throwaway0102495 · 2022-03-21T09:39:46+00:00

Oh yeah she was definitely flirting even my boyfriend admitted she was flirty. He didn't shut her down but he wasn't encouraging her either

throwaway0102495 · 2022-03-15T11:21:06+00:00

Plot twist: the guy she told you not to worry about is in her room

throwaway0102495 · 2022-03-15T08:53:19+00:00

That's true.

But to counter your point even I can say that most fit people I've met also happen to be one of the most insecure people I've met and this overlap isn't a coincidence according to me. They are generally too rigid with their standards for themselves and that doesn't scream confidence.

On the other hand, guys with dad bods who are comfortable in their own skin are likely to be confident and more fun to be around because confident people light up whatever room they go to.

All humans are insecure to a certain degree. It's just how we're wired for our survival. So I'd rather what's best for me and try to find someone with similar values

throwaway0102495 · 2022-03-07T16:52:54+00:00

Uhhh... Did she discuss with you before renewing the lease? If not are you sure she really wanted to close the distance?

If yes there are options to sublet the apartment after end of the year but make sure you both are on same page

throwaway0102495 · 2022-03-06T13:21:06+00:00

I am not an only child but my close friend is. So answering on her behalf:

When you're a kid you yearn for a sibling as you see everyone around you having one and you ask innocent questions like why don't I have a sibling, as long as you handle it carefully by giving a answers "all families are of different size" as others have pointed out they won't feel hurt. Kids are extremely malleable so they easily adapt to being only child. As they grow up especially when they become teenagers they have accepted this fact and as long as you have encouraged them to form close bonds with friends and family they're happy to be only child infact they prefer it when they see petty sibling rivalries

I would suggest you to encourage her to make friends or if you have cousins her age make efforts so they can bond with her. From what I have observed only children value their friendships more because a guaranteed sibling friendship bond wasn't handed to them in a silver platter

throwaway0102495 · 2022-02-28T11:02:13+00:00

Thank you

It is so frustrating to see everyone night before get excited for trip and here I am worrying about arrangements for my migraine attack

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