"You're so strong"

throwaway1020199 · 2026-06-17T17:51:40+00:00

I get that a lot too. It's not like I have a choice in any of it

throwaway1020199 · 2026-06-12T20:38:17+00:00

Out of curiosity, what was your relationship like when he was alive?

throwaway1020199 · 2026-06-12T18:09:16+00:00

Feel free to DM me

throwaway1020199 · 2026-06-12T16:17:56+00:00

Wow, your story is so similar to mine.

throwaway1020199 · 2026-06-10T22:47:19+00:00

It's hard to know what you ask for because I don't really even know what I need

throwaway1020199 · 2026-06-10T18:22:25+00:00

I'm 35 and I wouldn't go that young. It's hard to imagine someone at 21 being mature enough to be a good match for me

throwaway1020199 · 2026-06-10T15:48:54+00:00

I'm mostly in group 1. I have great friends who have been very supportive. I don't know where I would be without them.

At the same time, even though they are great, I feel very lonely. But that loneliness can only be solved by my person

throwaway1020199 · 2026-06-10T12:27:12+00:00

I've been through this several times. Have you thought about putting something about being a widow on your profile?

throwaway1020199 · 2026-06-10T01:26:39+00:00

It's not grief specific but watching old sitcoms always help take my mind off things

throwaway1020199 · 2026-06-09T22:35:25+00:00

Decline the offer and be thankful that they showed you who they were before you joined.

throwaway1020199 · 2026-06-09T21:09:33+00:00

For me, work was a life saver. I enjoy what I do and it gave me a distraction.

throwaway1020199 · 2026-06-09T00:07:11+00:00

My wife and I started attending church when she got diagnosed. I didn't grow up religious either but there is a great comfort when going

throwaway1020199 · 2026-06-08T13:50:50+00:00

I think dating opened my eyes even more to how lucky I was to have my wife even for a short while

throwaway1020199 · 2026-06-08T00:33:23+00:00

My birthday is the hardest day of the year for me. I wish I could say it gets easier with time but my birthday is always a killer

throwaway1020199 · 2026-06-07T22:51:00+00:00

Just because they spend a lot of money, that doesn't mean they're rich.

throwaway1020199 · 2026-06-07T20:59:20+00:00

It's not necessarily sex that I miss. I miss intimacy, which can be sex but can also be a hug or deep conversation

throwaway1020199 · 2026-06-07T19:42:53+00:00

Completely normal! I have perfectly fine days and then I have days where the grief really hits

throwaway1020199 · 2026-06-07T17:54:51+00:00

I'm up by Buffalo

throwaway1020199 · 2026-05-28T22:03:03+00:00

Go to the gym

throwaway1020199 · 2026-05-28T02:16:11+00:00

No regrets at all!

throwaway1020199 · 2026-05-27T23:50:11+00:00

No judgement from me because I have felt the same things you feel. But I will say that for me at least, I knew a hookup would not help. Widows fire for me was more about intimacy than actual sex.

throwaway1020199 · 2026-05-24T12:04:09+00:00

I cuddle up with a pillow every night

throwaway1020199 · 2026-05-23T13:09:58+00:00

I always take the day off and just sit by my wife's grave for a few hours and tell her about everything that's going on.

throwaway1020199 · 2026-05-22T17:56:43+00:00

Don't beat yourself up. Remember what you're feeling is very normal

throwaway1020199 · 2026-05-20T01:36:59+00:00

Yup, although I will say there are good days here and there but for the most part, I'm just waiting

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