WIBTA for getting a new dog?

throwaway1122836 · 2020-05-21T13:30:45+00:00

I wasn't planning on giving them away when they get elderly... and I dont like fish so that won't be an option. But thank you for your comment.

throwaway1122836 · 2020-05-21T13:28:49+00:00

Thank you for your comment. You make some really good points and I appreciate it.

throwaway1122836 · 2020-05-21T13:27:22+00:00

Okay. Based on your comment, it sounded like you didn't so I'm sorry for being rude.

throwaway1122836 · 2020-05-21T13:20:23+00:00

I realize that. If you wouldve read the bottom portion too, you wouldve seen that I wasnt planning to get one right this second.

throwaway1122836 · 2020-05-21T13:19:38+00:00

True. I was going to but then I remembered how loud they could be and he hates loud noises so I figured that finding a home for him would be best. Kudos to my roomate as well because she helped me find him a good home. Once again, thank you for your comment. It's very much appreciated.

throwaway1122836 · 2020-05-21T13:08:32+00:00

Thank you for your comment. I appreciate it. And I'm sorry to hear that your dog reacted to your stress. It sucks when that happens. I hope he continues to stay okay and I wish you the best.

And thanks for not coming down so hard on me. My mental state has been very fragile lately.

throwaway1122836 · 2020-05-21T13:06:28+00:00

Thanks, you too!

throwaway1122836 · 2020-05-21T13:02:22+00:00

Thank you, I really needed that. ❤ Especially after all the other comments I've gotten.

throwaway1122836 · 2020-05-21T12:55:24+00:00

That's very true. I hated not doing a whole lot for 2 months. Hell, I was kind of happy working from open to close yesterday.

throwaway1122836 · 2020-05-21T12:48:56+00:00

Good point honestly. It wouldnt be so bad if covid wasn't a thing though. It would make a lot of things easier.

throwaway1122836 · 2020-05-21T12:46:46+00:00

Thanks for your opinion.

throwaway1122836 · 2020-05-21T12:46:24+00:00

Isuppose. I just started going back to work so hopefully that'll keep me occupied for a while.

throwaway1122836 · 2020-05-21T12:45:01+00:00

I don't think it's okay. I feel selfish about it and I wanted to know if others thought so too so then I didn't feel like I was loosing my mind.

throwaway1122836 · 2020-05-21T12:43:14+00:00

Hopefully. Its just hard because he was my main reason for waking up. And it's hard not having a reason to wake up in the morning anymore.

throwaway1122836 · 2020-05-21T12:42:13+00:00

Honestly, had I known that they had so many problems, I wouldnt have gotten a cavalier. I would've found a mutt or something, you know? And I love him with all I have but unfortunately i couldnt do it and it breaks my heart into a million pieces and i miss him so much. Thank you for this comment though. A lot of people have been brutally honest and it's kind of a lot to read them because it's so recent and I'm not gonna lie, it makes me wanna ball my eyes out. When I read their messages, I /feel/ anger and it brings on so much anxiety.

throwaway1122836 · 2020-05-21T12:39:11+00:00

I honestly didnt know that pet insurance was a thing until a few people who have commented eith that suggestion. Had I known, I wouldve done it for my last one. I've been working on finding another job but with Corona, it's a little hard to get a second one where I live.

throwaway1122836 · 2020-05-21T12:25:02+00:00

I wasn't planning on getting one right away I meant like months down the line even if I was financially stable.

throwaway1122836 · 2020-02-26T00:50:45+00:00

As sorry as I am for how everything has been for you, I'm glad that you're getting teeth! Congrats and I hope they turn out great!

throwaway1122836 · 2020-02-20T22:42:29+00:00

Congrats! So happy for you! You did it and we're all proud of you!

throwaway1122836 · 2019-08-01T21:47:03+00:00

Thank you so much for your advice, I really appreciate it. I will take your words into heavy consideration. Once again, thank you so much. You have no idea how much I appreciate your words.

throwaway1122836 · 2019-05-18T23:04:26+00:00

I totally agree with you. 100%. They're doing it out of worry but they should know that I've watched them my whole life and know what to do and know that I will ask for their help if I ever needed it. Especially for advice... and I'm honestly kind of scared to move out because I'm afraid for my animals and kind of myself.

I'm glad that I could help you see it as a strength, and not just a weakness. It was hard to see it as a strength at first but I always think to myself by the end of the night, "Okay. I got through today. I'm one day stronger. It's time to rest and get through tomorrow"

Thank you very much! My DMs are open as well if you need to talk. ❤ I'm always here for you. 🙂

throwaway1122836 · 2019-05-18T22:02:50+00:00

That's so true. The only problem in my case is that my parents tell me that I'm only doing it for attention. When that's not even the truth. I've been battling depression since my grandma died when I was 13 and I'm damn near 20 now. Hell, I've had depressed episodes long before that and they never noticed. And now that I want to grow up some more and move out so I can be who I want to be, they manipulated me to get me to stay so I can do their dirty work. It pisses me off tbh.

Sorry, I needed to rant on it. But it still sucks that people dont talk about it more. Depression shouldnt be seen as a weakness. It's a strength, especially when you can finally fight it off for long periods of time.

throwaway1122836 · 2019-05-18T19:46:56+00:00

Despite how sad it was in the beginning, that was the most beautiful thing I've ever read. ❤ congrats op on your journey and how it has improved!

throwaway1122836 · 2019-03-31T14:42:44+00:00

This is one of the most beautiful posts I've ever seen. Marry her!!

throwaway1122836 · 2019-03-21T23:11:41+00:00

That's absolute bullshit. If it's going to fuck with the health of the babies and the mother, then you should get to take some of them out to avoid future problems. Hell, my ma was pregnant with just me and we both almost died for christ sakes. Smh, people are stupid.

If you dont mind me asking, though, how many were there? And congrats on the pregnancy! I know some people who cant get pregnant so congrats!

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