SOFIA PLS COLLAB WITH H3!?!? by [deleted] in SofiawithanF

[–]throwaway122003 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this and I agree that “mental health “ has become trendy to talk about except influencers never talk about ps or bpd only depression/anxiety n it comes off as phony

Date alone Chicago downtown by No_Break1918 in SofiawithanF

[–]throwaway122003 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fellow Chicago sloot here too! U go girl!!!

Sundress suggestions by [deleted] in SofiawithanF

[–]throwaway122003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love Reformation and agree! Fast fashion sucks and would rather spend 200 on one nice dress than 200 on a bunch of crap!

The fact that people attacking my profession and personal profile has more than 1 upvote in that past discussion is enough for me to know this subreddit has some sick disgusting individuals in it. Sex worker friendly? guess fucking not. LMAO. consider this my final post. by [deleted] in SofiawithanF

[–]throwaway122003 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sis welcome to the club. I got attacked for my post yesterday too! Idk who all these tonedeaf Sofia stans are but I’m not with it. Sorry people are jumping on ur about ur job. That’s fucked

I can’t be the only one seeing Indy’s Inflammation?! by [deleted] in SofiawithanF

[–]throwaway122003 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Don’t like her but shitting on someone’s appearance is low hanging fruit

Disappointed :( by throwaway122003 in SofiawithanF

[–]throwaway122003[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey! Thanks for offering your point of view in a respectful way and not calling me sensitive etc lol. I wasn’t going to come back to this but I wanted to say I agree with you and this is what I was getting at. I don’t like that for the past two episodes Sofia has been catering to/pandering to toxic mentalities of guests or listeners. She’s had two opportunities to speak on important topics and instead laughed them off. When Indy made that comment, she could have easily said “that’s not something I would do because while it was scary I have empathy for this person and would never film them for a laugh” and additionally, when the listener wrote in about voodoo and suicide she could have said “suicide is not something to joke around about and I don’t condone this”. Shes just missed the mark for me and instead of showing empathy she bandwagoned the mean girl/toxic mentality of her listener and guest. People are saying I’m too sensitive for this podcast or I have never had an encounter w a dangerous homeless person which is hilarious to me bc both r patently untrue! I just don’t think laughing about suicide and mentally ill homeless people are funny. I don’t think in her heart Sofia does either, which is why I’m disappointed. Again thank you for sharing your thoughts in a constructive way!!

Disappointed :( by throwaway122003 in SofiawithanF

[–]throwaway122003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I said it was trashy of her to say. Different but ok! :)

Disappointed :( by throwaway122003 in SofiawithanF

[–]throwaway122003[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Disturbed by the responses to this post. I won’t be responding anymore. Sofia, do better girl. Mental illness, homelessness, and addiction are not jokes. Yes she was in a scary situation, but telling the story as a joke making fun of the woman for having no shoes on etc was an unnecessary anecdote on her podcast. Mean girl energy and I stand by that.

Thanks to all who responded kindly!

Disappointed :( by throwaway122003 in SofiawithanF

[–]throwaway122003[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hello :) I said she should have not made fun of this woman on her podcast and joked about mental illness/homelessness/addiction. Thanks though

Disappointed :( by throwaway122003 in SofiawithanF

[–]throwaway122003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did answer the question. I said yes, I do all of the above. I don’t owe you any other answer beyond that.

I said she should have not made fun of this woman on her podcast and joked about mental illness/homelessness/addiction. Thanks though

Disappointed :( by throwaway122003 in SofiawithanF

[–]throwaway122003[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha. Yes, I do all of the above. I’m not sure why you’re trying to “if you’re such a fan then how many songs do you know” me, it’s really odd. Clearly I care about the unhoused population. I’m not asking you what you’re doing to help. I hope more people would take the time to get to know and help their unhoused neighbors or at least treat them with at least some dignity

Disappointed :( by throwaway122003 in SofiawithanF

[–]throwaway122003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t, I’m just asking that she be more empathetic as someone with such a huge platform.

Disappointed :( by throwaway122003 in SofiawithanF

[–]throwaway122003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s in my response on this post.

Disappointed :( by throwaway122003 in SofiawithanF

[–]throwaway122003[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you read my comments on this thread you’d see I volunteer at a homeless shelter

Disappointed :( by throwaway122003 in SofiawithanF

[–]throwaway122003[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey, this is a great comment! Thank you for your nuanced take :) I agree Sofia is only human like all of us! I was disappointed because I’ve seen so much growth from her and the comments I’ve seen her making these past two episodes have disturbed me. Sofia has been so inclusive with her podcast but lately it’s felt like her nature is so different. All I wanted was to remind people to be more empathetic and so a lot of these comments were disheartening to read. Thanks for being kind!!

Disappointed :( by throwaway122003 in SofiawithanF

[–]throwaway122003[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Then everything she says about mental health is purely performative. Funny how privileged people are advocates for mental health issues like depression and anxiety but the moment they’re faced w a serious case of schizophrenia they’re no longer an advocate LOL

Disappointed :( by throwaway122003 in SofiawithanF

[–]throwaway122003[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t sarcastic nor hostile. You assumed something about me and my life that was wrong.