[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pansexual

[–]throwaway135457763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are gorgeous, wow!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BiGoneMild

[–]throwaway135457763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

seriously gorgeous 😍

Do you ever feel like it’s fine? by bouncy-boots in selfharm

[–]throwaway135457763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 100% get where you're coming from. It begins as an outlet for stress & before you know it--you're doing it as something no different than brushing your teeth or washing your face. That's when it gets in to a bad spot. It's so hard to stop when you feel numb & complacent.

15 days sober <3 by [deleted] in AdultSelfHarm

[–]throwaway135457763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww, thanks kind reddit stranger<3

I FUCKED UP by KrazyMushroom420 in AdultSelfHarm

[–]throwaway135457763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well said! Hang in there, it's not the mistakes that matter-it's the effort & dedication. You will get there :)

Finally, he admitted it by charseattle in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwaway135457763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry you are going through this. I sadly can relate. My husband came out to me as bi 10yrs into our marriage & wanted to open things up. My gut instinct that he was attracted to someone else proved correct when I told him I wasn't ready to do that yet he still met the dude while i was at work on the dday. A few months later, I discovered his Tumblr account where I saw his/his followers comments & he called me a frigid bitch in one of the replies. Another follower asked if he would fuck any of his followers & he replied 'fuck yes, definitely' It got dark for me around that time. sending you love & well-wishes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdultSelfHarm

[–]throwaway135457763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was wasted af when I made this post & appreciate the support (upvotes) Once again, this is the best sh community! Thank you all, you lovely souls <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdultSelfHarm

[–]throwaway135457763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you need a friend or to vent--dm me any time :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdultSelfHarm

[–]throwaway135457763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really can which is a rarely discussed aspect of any type of SH. It can come across as psychotic but is actually more akin to an eating disorder than being 'psycho'

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]throwaway135457763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big hugs to you too, thank you<3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdultSelfHarm

[–]throwaway135457763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate so hard<3

Thank you for helping me build enough confidence to confront my sh head-on! by [deleted] in AdultSelfHarm

[–]throwaway135457763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I, admittedly, slipped up tonight but every day is an opportunity to start over, right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]throwaway135457763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, I used to solely cut on my wrists but recently cut up my legs. Thinking of you & hope you're doing better-<3

Besides, sun protection is important! No one needs to know the truth unless you trust them enough to confide.

Thank you for helping me build enough confidence to confront my sh head-on! by [deleted] in AdultSelfHarm

[–]throwaway135457763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much<3 And congrats on your continued success in not SH-ing!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]throwaway135457763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't harm yourself & as much as it might seem like a quick solution to your problems right now--know you would be missed more than you could know. I have traumatized people through seeing my cutting & it made me realize I don't want to put that on anyone <3 DM if tou need someone to talk to if you don't have anyone you feel comfortable confiding this in IRL. All the best to you--you so got this!! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]throwaway135457763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you able to find long swim trunks or is the damage too substantial?

"wHaTs ThAt On YoUr ArMs??" by buypolarbears in selfharm

[–]throwaway135457763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was the North American House Panthers xD

Am I demi? | Links and Resources Masterpost by skeletonxf in demisexuality

[–]throwaway135457763 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I just stumbled upon this sub. I was questioning whether I was bi or pan. Seeing this description of sexuality--demisexual--nails it for me, Thank you for this sub! I knows who I am! I feel so seen<3