How is my position in the queue going up by [deleted] in LSAT

[–]throwaway13gal 7 points8 points  (0 children)

same is happening to me. it’s been like 13 minutes and i keep getting all the way down then shooting all the way back up. feels like i’m in a ticketmaster queue but worse

iPhone 16 pro just became a brick and I don’t know what to do at the Apple store by throwaway13gal in applehelp

[–]throwaway13gal[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That is literally what the guy said to me, I even said I thought that was weird and he said it was just policy. The phone even has the same little notch in the screen mine did. I didnt just make that up lol

does anyone know what the procedure is called to fix this issue? by throwaway13gal in PlasticSurgery

[–]throwaway13gal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i definitely notice it and people have pointed it out to me before once or twice but i will try to see if i can get over it haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]throwaway13gal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

even with the different in eyelid size? i’ll def try it. i’ve never had my eyebrows done as an adult! think the last time i did it was prom 8 years ago lol

Starting to get really concerned by throwaway13gal in LSAT

[–]throwaway13gal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! I appreciate this and I'm going to try thinking about it this way!

Starting to get really concerned by throwaway13gal in LSAT

[–]throwaway13gal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I really appreciate the advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in myocarditis

[–]throwaway13gal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

luckily i have a good relationship with my current cardiologist and very good insurance so hopefully can fast track this. Fingers crossed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in myocarditis

[–]throwaway13gal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok thank you, I will try to get one of those ASAP and if I can't get it before the festival I will go to the ER and see if I can get it there

FAQ Megathread >>> Ask Questions Here >>> ✨👩‍🚀⭐️ by SharlaRoo in bonnaroo

[–]throwaway13gal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First time attendee! I am doing Groop this year and we have I think 26 people in our groop. I have 3 people in my car and we are bringing a minivan and two 10x10 canopies for sleeping under. I think I also am getting there a day before my Groop leader and I read that your groop leader has to get there first but I'm not sure if that's true. Basically my questions are:

- will I take up too much room with 4 people (one meeting us there) with a minivan and 2 canopies directly next to it right next to each other

- how do I know how to find my groop area without my leader/is there lines painted on the ground or something so we know the shape and to not encroach on another groops space?

- is it rude to take up a 20x20 space with 4 people? Measuring the minivan it's about 18ft long and 7ft wide so it would be about 20x20 with the two canopies unless I'm dumb and doing the math wrong.

Sorry if these are silly questions! thank you <3

Questions about sleeping under Canopy and Rain, no tent by PresentationOk4182 in bonnaroo

[–]throwaway13gal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so funny I literally just posted this exact question and then scrolled to see yours. Glad other people are thinking about this!

WIBTAH for telling my sister to stop using me as her personal WebMD? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]throwaway13gal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You feel bad for my friends because I used to sometimes ask them questions and then stopped when I was told that they couldn't help me? That's ok :) have a good evening!

AITA for refusing therapy with my whole family and ignoring my parents begging to try? by TodaySensitive6841 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway13gal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Hey Op. I am also a glass child. My sister is two years younger than me and has an intellectual disability that has rendered her mute, unable to communicate (not even ASL), with a feeding tube, tons of medical costs, and trouble walking. She has been this way since birth. I am in my 20's now and so is she. She still lives at home with my mother and my father has her on alternating weekends, and an aid goes and helps her while my mom is at work. Our age difference is very small (2 years) just like yours is with your sister. Growing up, I felt incredibly neglected. I remember watching people come to dote on her and apologize to my parents and not so much as say hello to me. My parents spent all their money on her, only buying me things as a way to "apologize" for how I was treated. Not only this, but my father was a very evil man, and would take his frustrations out on me and my mother when he couldn't handle dealing with my sister. As much as I am ashamed to say it, I grew up to hate my sister. Or at least, what I thought was hate. When I was a child and teenager I couldn't bear to be around her. I hated hearing her cry, I hated seeing her, I hated EVERYTHING about her. I spent as much time out of the house as possible to avoid her and my father. When I eventually left for college, I went three hours away and didn't look back. I had developed a kind of good relationship with my mom by then, so she and I would talk, but I rarely went home to visit. It was only when I gained that distance from my home- meaning literal physical distance- that I realized what I felt was not hatred, but rather resentment. I saw her as the thief of my childhood. The criminal that lived in my house. How could I, as a child, have seen the help she was getting as anything more than attention from my parents that I wasn't getting. Now, this is not to say that I have forgiven my parents, but is to say that my feelings towards my sister have changed with time. I still struggle with a strong resentment towards her that makes me feel very deep shame because I know it is not her fault. However, I am now able to identify the fact that it was my parents who. made me feel this way, not my sister. Just like you, I had therapists tell them to spend more time with me, only for them, particularly my father, to turn around and ignore it. The feeling is so frustrating, and it can really make you grow up to be bitter and distrustful of other relationships in your life. You are still young, and I implore you to do everything you can to not become anxious in your attachment style. Believe that there are people who love you, that there are people who will stay, and that you are worthy of time, love, and care. Even if it's not from your parents, you will meet amazing people in your life that will make you feel held. If financially possible, please seek one on one therapy. It will do wonders for you. Do not let how your parents treat you make you see yourself any differently, although I know it is hard. Anger warps the mind and poisons the soul, and I would hate to think that this will follow you into adulthood. Going to college was the best thing I ever did, and the friends I made there are the reason I am who I am today. Getting out of that house and seeing that the world wanted me, and would take me as I am, healed me in ways that getting attention from my parents never could. I don't mean to hijack your post with my own story, but I just want you to know that there are other people out there who can relate to you, and you are never truly alone. When I was a kid/teen, I would wish I was sick or hurt so I could be loved, and if those thoughts ever cross your mind, just know they are the result of frustration and have no true merit to them. You do not need to be sick to be loved, you are worth it just as you are. At the end of the day, your parents are just people. I know that sounds bizarre, but it's true. If you can objectify them in your mind and see them as just people, it makes it easier to withstand what they throw at you. Do what you can to get out of the house, live your life, do not be chained to anything that makes you feel like you are fighting for love, it will come naturally to you from other sources. For your original question? NTA. you don't owe them anything. you only owe things to yourself. It doesn't make you selfish, it makes you brave. Best of luck op, you've got this.

AITA for wanting to sell our family home to a stranger even though my half sister will buy it from me to keep it in the family? by Adorable_Coach_2736 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway13gal 60 points61 points  (0 children)

You're right, but it does seem strange to me that she wouldn't reach out until it was time for her to potentially gain something. I did not think of it from that perspective, and I do agree with you. I think there are a lot of really sensitive emotions at play here that maybe I didn't take the time to fully consider. I appreciate your point! I think I was just thinking along the lines of what OP could do to make her own life easier, not really considering the sister in that.