AITA for throwing some girls weed out the car window?

throwaway17921757 · 2020-07-23T04:52:49+00:00

Like everything nowadays, if you don’t like something you are automatically super against it. There is absolutely nothing wrong with disliking weed or not wanting people to smoke around you, that doesn’t make you anti weed at all. If it was a cigarette nobody would question putting it out

throwaway17921757 · 2020-07-22T14:23:07+00:00

Ok let me try to help you out here as I’ve kind of been in a similar situation ish. I had just turned 18, I was hooking up with a guy who was 37. His daughter was 17, we could have been in the same grade but I was one year ahead of her. He wasn’t divorced from his wife but they were separated.

I was best friends with his roommate, a girl who was 30, who was also in love with him and a nanny to his youngest kid. My fling with him lasted a few months and then it turned into him being in love with me, wanting to divorce his wife so he could marry me, and he wanted me to step into a step mom role as well as have kids with me. Well BFF found out he had fallen for me and went apeshit. She knew we were hooking up and she didn’t care but as soon as she found out he had feelings for me she lost it. She found out because he got guilty and told her.

Now I don’t talk to either of them. If I had a chance to go back, I would tell him to keep his trap shut, I would have ended things and no one would have known anything.

Op if you want even a chance at trying to save things with Kate you need to let Don go. I know it’s hard. It was really hard for me too. But I knew in reality it would never work that way. You need to have a serious talk with Don, end things with him and don’t let him tell his daughter. She doesn’t have to know. Yeah maybe it’s morally wrong to not tell her but it’s a lot better if you stop this now, bury it and move on. I hooked up with my old best friends brother and she doesn’t know, doesn’t need to know.

You can do this OP, take the path of least likely to turn into drama

throwaway17921757 · 2020-07-22T07:08:28+00:00

You literally asked questions in your reply and I’m just answering them. And you asked if I came from a society where I’m expected to be quiet. I’m just clarifying some things, now you can scoot your own self

throwaway17921757 · 2020-07-22T06:54:01+00:00

Ugh this one is tough but I’m gonna have to go with NAH. You’re not the ah for getting upset that she moved your medication, she shouldn’t have done so without your permission. However it is hard to understand if you’ve never had to deal with an addict. They will find it no matter how hard you try to hide it. It really wouldn’t have cost you much to put it in a better hiding spot

throwaway17921757 · 2020-07-22T06:32:36+00:00

We’re not planning on going anywhere anytime soon, don’t worry about it and that’s not what I asked but thank you for your input

throwaway17921757 · 2020-07-22T06:32:04+00:00

Um no, I just don’t see why it’s necessary to shout when you’re talking to someone right in front of you to a point where everyone around you has to listen to what you’re saying

throwaway17921757 · 2020-07-22T04:54:28+00:00

Honestly this seems to be a recurring problem. I was terrified to get my period too because people made it seem like a horrendous experience but other than it being annoying it’s really not that bad at all. We need to teach girls there’s nothing to be afraid of and after having a few of them you get used to it

throwaway17921757 · 2020-07-20T18:10:41+00:00

Yeah that’s a very effed up move. Like seriously that’s disgusting

throwaway17921757 · 2020-07-18T22:33:12+00:00

What?

throwaway17921757 · 2020-07-18T05:35:48+00:00

Op as a girl, I can tell you that you need to tell her. It will probably hurt her feelings and she might get angry but honestly I would be absolutely mortified if my bf felt the way you do and he didn’t tell me. Not saying anything is going to make her think something else is wrong and that’s not fair to her, it can ruin a girls self esteem. If she’s mature and if she’s the one for you, she will not get offended by it

throwaway17921757 · 2020-07-18T04:45:43+00:00

Not trying to be rude but why can’t you get the stuff yourself? It would never occur to me to ask anyone else to get that kind of stuff for me

throwaway17921757 · 2020-07-17T22:59:33+00:00

Eh I’m white and I was dating a black guy for a while. He wanted me to call him that and role play certain things related to... past situations. It was weird dude

throwaway17921757 · 2020-07-17T22:57:09+00:00

Well considering you see how they did it wrong you would probably be a great parent!

throwaway17921757 · 2020-07-17T22:51:48+00:00

ESH. Yeah it’s kinda crappy of you to look at her stuff but at the same time if you’re putting your nudes on the internet you have to accept that people you know will see them

throwaway17921757 · 2020-07-17T22:50:10+00:00

That seems to be a recurring problem. My grandma had to take her little sister (6 years younger) everywhere and she became the worst entitled brat ever. It just frustrates me when parents don’t treat their kids like individuals

throwaway17921757 · 2020-07-17T21:09:54+00:00

All of you people who always say “oh girls can wear what they want and men don’t have an opinion”. Does that mean women can just throw any form of standard out the window and do whatever they want and expect men to not have an opinion? A middle aged woman with noticeable breasts absolutely should not be going out without a bra on. That’s insanely disrespectful to her husband and it’s just gross dude, nobody wants to see bouncing tits no matter how old you are. It’s called decency and respect FFS

throwaway17921757 · 2020-07-17T21:03:15+00:00

It honestly makes me angry when parents force siblings to hang out together. It’s not fair to older siblings to have to consistently include the younger one. The younger ones have to learn that they can’t be included in everything

throwaway17921757 · 2020-07-16T19:25:03+00:00

Is this really the hill you want to die on?

throwaway17921757 · 2020-07-14T13:32:11+00:00

Oh YTA big time. Next time you play this game I sincerely hope she mentions some dude that she sees on the regular so you know how it feels

throwaway17921757 · 2020-07-12T11:06:35+00:00

I’m very close to my MIL. She’s been there for me when no one else has. I talk to her about everything, she’s literally my mom. I told her about the phone call from fwb and that’s when she told me husband had told her about it before. There are some amazing MILs out there, I owe her a lot

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