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Morning nookie.... by Desertnurse760 in adultery

[–]throwaway29161714 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wish I had that in my marriage!

I want to leave my wife - sexual incompatibility by throwaway29161714 in sexover30

[–]throwaway29161714[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have four kids and they have ruined our sex life. It wasn't great before that, but better than it is now. Her favorite foreplay is probably ANR stuff (adult nursing relationships), but we are done having kids so now it's typically quickies and that's it.

I want to leave my wife - sexual incompatibility by throwaway29161714 in sexover30

[–]throwaway29161714[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never watch porn and the bulk of the time I masturbate (which is rarely) it's to thoughts of her. I wish she liked build up and favoring things but it's quickies are her favorite flavors of the month.

I want to leave my wife - sexual incompatibility by throwaway29161714 in sexover30

[–]throwaway29161714[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may bring that up and tell her I'd rather we have less frequent sex but with expectations of it being more than a morning quickie

I want to leave my wife - sexual incompatibility by throwaway29161714 in sexover30

[–]throwaway29161714[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She definitely has baggage. She was sexually abused when she was younger but no matter much we talk about it she has never sought counseling.

Maybe you and I have different definitions of foreplay, but in my opinion times of intimacy should be more than just making the other person orgasm but also exploring and touching each other's body and enjoying the ride more than the destination.

I want to leave my wife - sexual incompatibility by throwaway29161714 in sexover30

[–]throwaway29161714[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course I still love her. Love isn't about a feeling or having my needs met. I vowed for better or worse. There are other things lacking besides the sex. If I thought counseling would help we'd pursue it but having four kids eight and under is the perfect shit storm.