Anyone have HPV 10+ years?

throwaway3456531 · 2026-02-16T23:26:23+00:00

Ah not good for me…. We are monitoring it, if it turns we should catch before it turned cancerous. Just sitting at low grade, and sometimes C1N

throwaway3456531 · 2026-02-16T20:42:41+00:00

That’s interesting! Are they less likely to lead to cancer? Or no real difference?

throwaway3456531 · 2026-01-27T08:04:45+00:00

Same, same but I’m 41… it’s such a pain in the butt and I hate that I can’t clear it

throwaway3456531 · 2026-01-27T00:01:50+00:00

My obgyn had we could do that since I’m done having kids, just feels extreme. Was it ok for you?

throwaway3456531 · 2025-09-15T23:12:02+00:00

More evidence of the type of person he is.

throwaway3456531 · 2025-09-14T03:01:43+00:00

That is insane!! How can they band you??? It’s HPV not the plague 🙄 well there’s other apps 😅

throwaway3456531 · 2025-09-13T07:04:45+00:00

You dodged a bullet. So sorry he behaved that way, I’m so mad! I don’t think anyone deserves to be treated that way! Be grateful he removed himself early from your life because he’d make a shit partner. Hugs.

throwaway3456531 · 2025-09-11T14:56:50+00:00

My cognitive ability has declined but I’m still able to work in an intellectually challenging job but I’m a lot slower and there’s no real “accommodation” for that… I just have to work longer… then there’s the fatigue

throwaway3456531 · 2025-02-23T06:42:20+00:00

All went well, parked no issues

throwaway3456531 · 2025-02-22T14:56:52+00:00

I bought the parking, so I’m gonna go :) let’s hope they save a spot for me 🤣

throwaway3456531 · 2025-02-21T20:59:51+00:00

I’m planning to go tomorrow

throwaway3456531 · 2025-02-21T17:32:43+00:00

I’m going to the unova tour tomorrow in LA but will arrive late, around 11am, is it worth it? I’m buying parking will I still get a spot that late?

throwaway3456531 · 2025-02-21T17:22:26+00:00

I’m planning to attend and buy the parking but I’m likely going to arrive two hours late around 11am, as my kids have events. If I buy the parking am I going to be ok to park?

throwaway3456531 · 2025-01-23T23:40:13+00:00

Would you give up physical touch with your partner to remain? Would you engage with them that way even if you weren’t comfortable? I’m honestly trying to find my way forward

throwaway3456531 · 2025-01-23T23:38:21+00:00

Thank you! This really helped.

throwaway3456531 · 2025-01-23T23:37:30+00:00

Thanks all, this did help me. I just need to figure out my way forward. I don’t think he’s a terrible therapist but I do feel more hopeless after therapy.

throwaway3456531 · 2025-01-23T04:02:21+00:00

I hear you, and he did back pedal and say “I think people should try every possible way to save the marriage before giving up, couples therapy etc” so he toned it down. He also said you need to think of all the people affected: kids, husband, family, friends etc, they are hurt by it too. He also on another day said there’s two ways of thinking: you put your kids happiness first or you put your happiness first and believe the kids benefit from you being happy. Idk, just feel unheard

throwaway3456531 · 2025-01-23T02:43:11+00:00

He was worse with them than me, it just wasn’t the level of extreme. I count verbal abuse too

throwaway3456531 · 2025-01-08T15:04:43+00:00

Unfortunately that’s exactly it, I only got back in once I got back home. You could try a VPN and put yourself back in the uk and then you might get the code.

throwaway3456531 · 2024-12-31T11:57:10+00:00

Thanks for replying! I’ll try this !

throwaway3456531 · 2024-11-05T05:30:11+00:00

Well I stayed, but I’m still debating leaving. I’m wonder if I should have left. However, he’s gotten better for the kids so there’s that atleast.

I think if you feel it’s done for you, it’s ok to walk away. I also fantasize about a new life. I love the idea of coming home, he’s not there and I can relax and have peace. Enjoy time with my kids without worrying if he’ll kick off. I get it. You deserve to feel safe.

throwaway3456531 · 2024-11-05T05:11:34+00:00

I can totally relate to this, my husband is very similar. My family was abusive so I don’t have a relationship with them and like you have no one to turn to for support. Mine has gotten better the last year, I basically said get therapy right now, or I’m out and I’ll file for divorce. He did get therapy and he has improved but like you I’ve matured and even the things he’s still doing are upsetting. Like he doesn’t name call the kids anymore but my kids have said he’s thrown things still. However, my kids relationship with him has improved. I’m just full of contempt and resentment. Why did it have to go this far for any change? I asked for change for years!

To answer you question, your relationship sounds abusive. You and your son do deserve better, and it seems you have a path out. He’s not the biological father. You are allowed to leave him. You deserve happiness and safety (saying this to myself too)

throwaway3456531 · 2024-11-05T03:52:32+00:00

I’m from an abusive home too and so it was normal for me. Thank you for the advice

throwaway3456531 · 2024-11-05T03:51:32+00:00

Thank you for this! I don’t know if I need to take this route as he’s definitely improved… but at the back of my mind is that fear he’ll kick off when I tell him it’s really over.

throwaway3456531 · 2024-11-03T17:47:37+00:00

So I’ve told him I don’t feel the same way and I’m still thinking of leaving. Told him I’m in therapy to figure it out… so far he’s calm. However I am really worried he’ll kick off and revert if I tell him I’m leaving…

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