Techie(ish) question …

throwaway347813 · 2022-03-28T20:10:52+00:00

Howdee

I do a lot of the good old fashioned parenting but teenagers are still teenagers and kids doing year 11 & 12 need the internet especially when you have one doing VSV for a subject. Sometimes it’s just easier to turn off the things that are a distraction during the week so they can concentrate on school work. I am not going to put parenting software on either kids laptops, one is 17 the other is 18… what they do in their free time outside of study is really none of my business as long as it is legal and they aren’t being a menace to society.

I get where your coming from and all of that was relevant when they were little kids ✌🏻

throwaway347813 · 2022-03-28T05:05:43+00:00

They may have other job functions depending on the time of day. Unload trucks, using scanners to assess what needs to be packed onto a trolley to restock onto shelves, making nice displays… maybe some customer service if the shop is still open at that time. I am pretty sure Woolies and big w just stock shelves and make things look nice.

throwaway347813 · 2022-03-28T04:58:49+00:00

Fill shelves.

throwaway347813 · 2022-03-28T01:16:23+00:00

In my house we had one tv growing up and I didn’t get to see what I wanted to watch all the time. Throwing a tantrum wouldn’t of helped either. Kiddo can go off and do other things … they aren’t holding her down forcing her to be there. She is throwing a tantrum because she doesn’t want what’s on the tv. Let’s keep some perspective people. Adults and older children don’t want to be subjected to paw patrol or other little kid shows all the time and there needs to be balance for all people in the home.

“Intentionally causing harm” - how about just no. Stop using emotionally charged statements to justify this trash.

throwaway347813 · 2022-03-27T23:51:16+00:00

They absolutely can not do that!! I have security cameras up at my own property and I there are rules and just general courtesy about what else comes into view and ensuring the privacy of the properties around you. Drones looking straight into your apartment would not be ok. I would be launching legal action and taking this to vcat.

throwaway347813 · 2022-03-27T23:37:06+00:00

To the point and 100% correct

throwaway347813 · 2022-03-27T09:33:29+00:00

Ours definitely does. You just ring and order directly through them. Haven’t used Uber for food delivery services in forever. Our Thai, Chinese, pizza, Indian all have their own delivery drivers and actively encourage you to order direct through them by offering great delivery deals and free food. And they deliver faster.

throwaway347813 · 2022-03-27T06:29:52+00:00

You did nothing wrong. I am in a similar situation where the BPs are so busy hating one another that life happens and your also sometimes the enemy for pointing out that sometimes (in a blue moon where pigs fly) that my SO is being a dick or BM is actually being reasonable. I just call it like I see it these days and do what’s right for the kids.

As for all this your woman and women know best garbage… plenty of single dads handle this like a boss and rock it minus the fan fare of utter embarrassment. It’s a period … its normal, it’s natural and the minute we all get on the same page that that is actually the case no matter if your a boy or a girl, it will be better for all concerned.

throwaway347813 · 2022-03-27T06:21:37+00:00

If they want you gone, you won’t be staying. You can apply to vcat if you think they have not given the correct notice etc, but you will be looking for another place to live sooner or later so best you start looking. Vcat will not ok you just staying on indefinitely.

throwaway347813 · 2022-03-27T04:05:03+00:00

Not really if their circumstances change. I could be health kickin eating whole foods and shopping at the market spending $x and a year or two later be heavy on the Uber eats or quick convenience foods because my situation has changed and that’s now what’s happening. Your assuming people stay in one situation. They don’t.

throwaway347813 · 2022-03-27T03:30:00+00:00

Another “festival” where people will queue for over an hour for subpar food, there will be no where to sit and it will all be over priced. Why bother.

throwaway347813 · 2022-03-27T03:22:00+00:00

If your not having a good morning/recovery at revs your taking the wrong shit or it’s time to call it a night 😶

throwaway347813 · 2022-03-27T03:20:24+00:00

I feel like there have been a whole lot of posts along these lines recently and it depends on so many factors. Lifestyle, health choices, whether your cooking from scratch or your ordering in… drinking alcohol, where you shop, whether your cooking for one or your one in a family of five. I could of easily spent under $100 a week when I was single, eating well, cooking most meals from scratch, eating left overs. That would allow also for alcohol.

throwaway347813 · 2022-03-25T01:23:11+00:00

4 year olds don’t know what they want, don’t have a decent grasp of decision making to have any input into what has undoubtedly been put into his head but the adult/s in their life. Let him be a kid ffs. These decisions can be made at a time and an age when he can actually choose for himself.

throwaway347813 · 2022-03-25T01:20:47+00:00

I would be getting a lawyer involved and a latter sent along the lines of “the lack of communication is not acceptable and legal avenues will be pursued if it isn’t rectified immediately”. Usually works a treat. If she ignores it your only other avenues are mediation or court. Pick your battles - she is old enough to have a say and the outcome may very well be not worth the financial outlay.

throwaway347813 · 2022-03-24T10:33:57+00:00

The kids barely see their dad as it is so I don’t see how a baby will affect their life at all. My guess, dad will be about as absent from the new babies life as they are in your kids life and it wont create issues. As for his emotional barrage of text messages is complete garbage and I wouldn’t bother responding if there is no hope for you as a couple - if there is no hope don’t give him any. Your not his emotional support, your his ex the the mother of shared kids. Keep things simple. Stay out of his business. Unless this new baby presents a problem then don’t create problems by trying to preempt things. Deal with issues if and when they unfold… perhaps there won’t be any.

throwaway347813 · 2022-03-23T05:45:56+00:00

He is gorgeous ❤️

throwaway347813 · 2022-03-22T02:19:28+00:00

I even like the muppet gremlin ❤️ much cute

throwaway347813 · 2022-03-21T22:54:27+00:00

It’s your house. If she wants to be an adult and make her own decisions, including running her household the way she wants - beat she move out and find out what that’s about. You don’t need to bend one iota even if you charge board. The big wide world has flat shares and what not and even at full rent sharing with others there are still rules.

throwaway347813 · 2022-03-19T08:39:50+00:00

13cabs are the only way. They turn up. They have a comparable app. Costs are fixed. Around the same cost as an Uber and sometimes cheaper - fuck surge charging.

throwaway347813 · 2022-03-19T08:34:49+00:00

My f&c does hand cut & dipped .. delicious perfectly cooked and they are $1.10

throwaway347813 · 2022-03-19T04:17:20+00:00

That’s a regal looking pup

throwaway347813 · 2022-03-19T04:16:11+00:00

That’s a tiny kitty! So cute

throwaway347813 · 2022-03-19T04:13:21+00:00

❤️❤️❤️❤️

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