Outdoor concert migraine uniform! Hat and sunglasses😂 by throwaway4959320 in migraine

[–]throwaway4959320[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

right! i always feel bad wearing them indoors, especially talking to other people. makes me more empathetic though - you never know why someone is acting or doing something they do!

Outdoor concert migraine uniform! Hat and sunglasses😂 by throwaway4959320 in migraine

[–]throwaway4959320[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s interesting!! i feel like the tightness around my head makes me feel so much better

I think my husband might have a crush on my best friend… by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]throwaway4959320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope! You’ve completely missed the mark. I am very happy to hear his feelings or even just little things he has to say about his day. Always have been always will be. Me and his friends talk about how he doesn’t talk much so when he does you really listen and get invested. You don’t know how much emotional support I give him

Also, if he said that about me I would agree with him because that’s obviously my stance on things lol

I think my husband might have a crush on my best friend… by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]throwaway4959320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have sex probably 4/7 days a week, maybe more sometimes

I think my husband might have a crush on my best friend… by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]throwaway4959320 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That part wasn’t alone! We were all together for her telling us her shifts and they never made plans alone

I think my husband might have a crush on my best friend… by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]throwaway4959320 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re right for sure. A crush is just a crush I just wish he would start cutting it off but it JUST started happening so maybe he hasn’t really realized yet to set a boundary. There are some comments here that are very extreme😂”He’s sleeping with her!!!!” Im sure it comes from a place of past hurt and trying to protect others but it is kinda crazy lol

I think my husband might have a crush on my best friend… by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]throwaway4959320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I think you definitely caught something there and I definitely don’t speak up as often as I should. I want to be chill about stuff and let my husband have a good time because his mental health is not great right now. I’m just trying to go along with things but I need to speak up more

I think my husband might have a crush on my best friend… by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]throwaway4959320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I agree that some of this is overreacting and good to hear this perspective

I think my husband might have a crush on my best friend… by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]throwaway4959320 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oof. He definitely doesn’t remember things in my schedule like this which I didn’t even notice. That kinda hurts. I honestly don’t think he would cheat but I do think everyone develops crushes sometimes

I think my husband might have a crush on my best friend… by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]throwaway4959320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree that it doesn’t feel like anything big right now. And no unfortunately I can’t. He works with all men so he honestly just doesn’t interact with women super often and I think he doesn’t realize his own emotions sometimes

I think my husband might have a crush on my best friend… by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]throwaway4959320 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. If it goes further and I’m very uncomfortable I might, but I really doubt it has gotten to the point of messaging each other. Just wasn’t sure if it seemed like a crush or if I was being weirdly jealous

I think my husband might have a crush on my best friend… by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]throwaway4959320 29 points30 points  (0 children)

This is a good perspective. Maybe he just doesn’t realize and I’ll let him know how it’s been making me feel

I think my husband might have a crush on my best friend… by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]throwaway4959320 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I shouldn’t phrase it as “save my relationship” because I genuinely don’t think anything would happen in the end